How do you get through the confusion before graduation?

The first thing to solve is your own psychological cognition. Can you change history and gain new opportunities by blaming your stakeholders? No!

Why bother to spend time and energy making yourself miserable? Because you feel sorry for yourself? Also, so you don't have to work hard?

For example, IQ, EQ, adversity, and courage quotient. In the face of adversity, you must insist that you are still very good, the future is still very bright, and the current tragedy is just a talking point in the future.

Find a small business outside of work. An investment of less than 1,000 yuan is sufficient, otherwise it does not meet your current economic level. The advantage of doing a small business is that it makes you have to communicate with people in disguise, because you have to sell, so that you will find that you are not alone every day, and you can build your own small team, when you have a small team, you will find that your value is so great, and you have to continue to expand your value to provide and cultivate your own team.

Gradually, you find that you not only make money, but also learn a lot of principles of being a human being, after all, society is the second school.

Figuring out the path and goal of the future is the beginning of all things and the beginning of breaking the game. If you are slow to read books, you are looking for someone to consult, and to find professional, reliable, and recognized people and seniors to consult. A smart person is one who knows when to use the power of others.

If you don't do that, if you don't put your time and energy into useful things, what do you want to do? Ruined yourself?

As a novice who has just graduated from school and entered the workplace, I first dealt with the things that the school could handle, and then took a few days off to see if I wanted to go to work or continue my studies. If you don't think clearly about this, then go to the interview company first, see how big the gap between the reality and your imagination is, hit yourself, and then consider whether to further study or employment. Further study still has to face all kinds of pressure, I hope you do a good job in all aspects, think clearly before making a decision!

College students generally have this kind of lofty mentality, and now there is still very little experience, so there is this kind of "decadent appearance of no success", if you reach fifty or sixty, experience a lot, only have the capital to say such things. How can I not be confused? This is a question that confronts all college students.

Do some down-to-earth practical things, small things, less fantasies and fantasies, start from the little things in front of you, and slowly walk out of your own life path. If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the sky?

Do you think you'll only be lost when you graduate? As an unsuccessful passer-by, you will be confused, there will be different troubles at different times of life, and most importantly, you will be exhausted! I now work in a state-owned enterprise, in the eyes of others, I feel that it is stable and stable, a bunch of benefits, yes, this job is simply my savior in my state of "waiting to be employed" for half a year, and now I feel that I want to change jobs, and I am very entangled, and I have a lot of things to worry about.

I can guess that your previous path to education was smooth, but life is impermanent, and from now on, difficulties will come one after another; The society is cruel, don't think that today it looks like a harmonious society, everyone respects and loves, the society is always the rivers and lakes, the weak eat the strong, and the tiger's mouth eats; The misfortune of the individual is meaningless, is it a matter for you to be hacked? Don't be discouraged forever, if you don't give yourself confidence, who will save you?

1.Do academic and career planning. When college students are confused, the first thing to do is to get out of the confusion period as soon as possible.

It is normal for every college student to enter a period of confusion. We need to stabilize our mentality, we can make an academic career plan, make a comprehensive plan for our future studies, and then implement it according to the plan, so that we will not waste our time. College students should pay attention to the fact that academic and career planning is not static, and can be adjusted according to their actual situation.

2.Make a career plan. After completing the academic career planning, college students can make a supporting career plan.

What are the specific pathways to a career? When you think about all of this, your career plan will be clear.

3.Learn professional knowledge and skills. Every college student has their own major.

For the majors studied in college, college students should do their best to learn professional knowledge and skills. Improve the efficiency of listening to lectures during class, do experiments carefully when doing experiments, and actively complete experimental reports. During the internship, you will be meticulous and accumulate experience, and strive to become the best in your profession as soon as possible.

4.Improve employment competitiveness. College students know that a college diploma is only a certificate, it is not a representative of ability.

Companies still want high-ability talents. Therefore, during the university period, college students should learn several skills and obtain relevant certificates to improve their employment competitiveness.

If you want to get out of the confusion quickly, you need to find a job that suits you quickly, and then come out to earn money quickly, and then you won't think about these trivial things.

The simple thing is to find a job and keep doing it.

Yes, it's that simple, don't change jobs too often, so you will become more and more confused.

Confused? How can you be confused, if you don't hurry up to find a place to go to work and earn money, you are still confused. Little brother, life has no poetry and fields, and no one likes your side face looking up at the starry sky at 45 degrees, unless you sit by the floor-to-ceiling window of a 250-square-meter villa.

Go and look at the house price, go to see the car, go to see the oil price, go to a female friend to ask about the bride price, go to a mother to ask about milk powder diapers, do you still have kung fu to be confused?

Go to the assembly line and you'll know.

If you want to spend the confusion period of college graduates, you must first find the right position for yourself as soon as possible, don't be ambitious, combine the employment situation of the society according to your own major, and then choose your own division of labor for the right person to call him If you want to spend the confusion period of college graduation, you must first find the right position for yourself as soon as possible, don't be ambitious, combine the employment situation of the society according to your major, and then choose the most suitable job for yourself, and take your time step by step.

1.Think about what you want to do in five or ten years, what you like to do, and then try to find a platform that is closest to your goal to settle down.

2.Try to choose a platform for your ability to grow quickly, because the youth is the best time to grow your ability, after the time period of your own energy, you can't learn if you want to, once the cognition is solidified, the behavior is solidified, 3Taking into account both income and pay, if you want to be rich, you need the opportunity of destiny, and if you want to be rich, you can be diligent, wise and thrifty.

4.Don't change jobs too often, but when a platform is close to the final bonus.

College students should go out to practice more during the confusion period after graduation, and try more to know what they want and what they want to do.

After entering the university, our life ushered in a new chapter, unlike in the past, each stage of the exam has a national goal, and the ultimate goal is to be admitted to the ideal university. When we entered the university, we didn't have a very national goal, and the intensity of learning was not as strong as before. There are too many choices at this time, and it is easy to dazzle yourself.

There are some gaps compared with the peers around you, and this confused mentality will become more and more obvious. When I first entered university, the only people I could meet were my roommates. And the roommates have just entered college, and they are still shy and not very ripe with each other.

It is very normal to feel lonely, and at this time, you will miss your friends in the past, and you will also miss the happy life in the past. In addition, the entrance season is generally the beginning of autumn, so it is natural to feel sad, and at that time, I felt that the students in the university were better looking than ordinary people, and everyone looked new and polite.

After a few days, my parents came home, and that's when I started my real college life.

Every morning, I still have to get up early and do morning exercises, then go to class, sleep at noon, continue to go to class at night, follow my classmates to evening self-study at night, return to the dormitory at half past nine, wash, tidy up things, and then turn off the lights at half past ten and go to bed......The days went on like this, day by day.

Duo 4 asked. Although busy, but there is no gain at all, but a brother is a little impetuous, every day consciously or unconsciously began to pay attention to dressing, and look forward to an unforgettable love, mourning club activities, when their own bridge wanted to be all forgotten, high school Dou Tai disappeared.

College graduation is generally around 2223 years old, at this age to feel lost, that's really common, 20s are used to be confused, and the bad news is that even if you think about it, there may not be a clear answer.

How to solve the problem of confusion?

I saw that I chose a direction for myself, a direction that I was interested in, and plunged into any direction, the key is to go deep and not give up easily as a last resort, otherwise the next party will still be so accurate to find the goal is very important, in fact, it is not terrible to be confused, what I am afraid of is wandering, not moving forward.

How to develop a positive attitude towards life.

Read books hard, what do you like to read?

Hard fitness, running soccer badminton draft key hairball.

If you have money, you will travel. Xinmataigui Power Station.

If you don't have money, you go to the movies, Quentin Wang's satellite Ye Nianchen.

If you like the girl, you will chase it, and if you can't catch up, you will find a way to become excellent and then chase it.

What should I do if I am dumped? Watching movies, respectful running, listening to songs, what do you like? What should I do, why do I go to work and study hard? How to be happy, how to come?

I would like to conclude with one of my favorite words.

If you are really willing to work hard, the worst outcome of your life is just a late bloomer.