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Personally, I think he loves you very much and cares about you.
Marriage is based on economics. That's the reality.
You should understand him, he is now responsible for your future He is like this, which means that he is a good man, you should not give up.
At this time, you should support him and stop giving him problems.
He's just a man with a lot of self-esteem and doesn't want to look up in front of you (I know, you don't look down on him like that, but he doesn't think so) So, you have to put yourself in his shoes and think about him...
You should be happy and have this good boyfriend.
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What does it mean if you don't want to talk about it, he's understandable? What does it mean not to meet if you can't find a new job? Why is there nothing he can do about your current neglect?
Is it true that my passion for you is all lost because I can't find a job? You can understand it, but I can't understand it, I will think that he is downplaying you by doing this, whether it is meeting or going out, you can pay for it, so that it can enhance the relationship between you, what's wrong? Hypocrisy, if you don't want to talk about it, he can understand, what can he understand?
Have you ever thought about leaving him? He doesn't understand you at all, to put it mildly, he is doing this to encourage you to leave him, he can be enthusiastic about you but have to pretend to be indifferent, if I am him, or I love you very much, I am afraid that you will suffer with me, but I will directly ask you to leave me, and I will never snub you like this, or I don't love you, because not being able to find a job does not affect my feelings for you! Even if I have nothing, I will still love you to death, and as long as I am with you for a day, I will not let you feel my indifference to you!
I think he should also be aware of his indifference to you, if he really loves you, even if he hits a ** and sends a message, he will say more comforting words to you, and he will never say these words that make you wonder!
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What to do ?You can only support him silently now. If you keep annoying him, it will have the opposite effect.
After all, the current situation is indeed more dangerous for a man than an emotional crisis. If it were me, I wouldn't be as strong as he was to continue the carry. After all, yours is right.
Qian Zhi talks about friends, talks about marriage, and talks about the foundation. If the prerequisites are insufficient, you still have to force yourself to be a carrasse? As a man, I can't hold on.
Maybe I'm too realistic. If I meet you in his situation. I would definitely choose to leave you.
If it continues. Hurt yourself and hurt you even more.
Think about it. A single parent. The living expenses of the family are borne by themselves. There is no income yet. Plus there are still exams? Let's talk about the squid. Even eating is a problem.
So all you have to do now is to silently support his actions. He snubbed you, there was no way, he didn't want to. But he wasn't a rich man per se.
He is fighting for your future. In a way. He was indeed a good man.
Know how to live. With this kind of man. I won't be hungry in the future.
When you have time, cook him some moisturizing soup. But it interfered with his struggle. Help him decompress appropriately. Ryo exerts pressure on him. He is now like a worm ready to hatch into a butterfly. Keep trying.
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Real men are constantly trying to find ways, and real women are constantly struggling!
Good luck!
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Life is a riddle! But not deception.
I hope you don't let others see your own thoughts too easily, it's not good, it's easy to get hurt. It's not that you are a good person, don't be too careful, but there are too many smart people in this world, people with all kinds of thoughts, and there are too many stories of different dreams in the same bed.
I think that being a human being should learn to be flexible, or just like 1+1, simply live. You don't have to spend more time for 1 person + , it would be better to keep more 1+ for your friends, relatives and family.
Love needs romance! It's crazy, it's not good.
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1. Respond to changes with the same In the face of emotional crisis, we must learn to respond to all changes with the same, when you are angry, you can recall the sweetness of those who love each other, those difficult days, and find a way to calm yourself down, which is the way to respond to all changes with the same. 2. Enhance the freshness of getting along Couples who have been together for a long time will naturally have aesthetic fatigue, so we should play some tricks from time to time to improve the freshness of getting along, so as not to start to get tired of each other. Couples whose feelings are easier to go downhill should pay more attention to constantly injecting fresh elements into their feelings, so as to effectively increase the freshness of getting along with each other, so as to better deal with the emotional crisis.
3. Learn to forgive each other The more you love each other, the more you must learn to tolerate each other, the best way to deal with emotional crises is to learn to forgive each other, remember not to be too concerned about things that are not principles, so love each other, why do you have to worry about it? If you encounter this type of emotional crisis, you must first learn to tolerate and forgive the other person, then self-reflect, and finally find out the root cause, which is the best way to deal with the emotional crisis. 4. Deal with problems rationally Maintaining personal emotions and staying calm is the most important way to deal with emotional crises, even if your feelings are irretrievable, even if you see the worst, you must learn to deal with problems rationally, so as not to make things worse.
5. Avoid head-on conflicts In the face of emotional crises, it is also important to maintain personal cultivation, in order to avoid scolding or fighting, etc., you must avoid head-on conflicts, otherwise, your emotions will be even more irreparable. 6. Let go when it's time to let go In the face of a relationship crisis, if you have tried your best and tried various methods, but you still can't save the love between the two parties, then let go when it's time to let go, so that you don't have to suffer anymore. How to deal with emotional crisis 2 1. Self-regulation of emotions, After the husband and wife have made a big noise, they should use the right attitude to deal with the feelings of the husband and wife.
In real life, often two people have more personality, and no one lets the other, so it is difficult to get out of the emotional crisis, and both parties must self-regulate their emotions. Second, when the emotional crisis comes, we must learn to respond to all changes with the same, when both of them are very angry, think more about each other's good, find a way to calm themselves down, do not be angry, divorce at every turn, and may regret it afterwards. 3. Enhance the freshness of getting along, Maybe the husband and wife have been together for a long time, plus life is changeable, the man wants to go out to make money, and the time the two get along together is not like the previous love, the relationship will naturally fade a lot, and the woman will give her man some new tricks from time to time, so that the relationship will be better.
Fourth, learn to understand each other, tolerance, This is the most important point of the relationship between husband and wife, in real life, everyone does not let anyone, it is a very small thing, the bigger it gets, resulting in the breakdown of the relationship, and the gains outweigh the losses. 5. Correctly handle personal emotions, this kind of thing often happens in the family, especially men, who are especially easy to bring personal emotions home.
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