Psychological problems, I hope you can help, psychological problems, please enlighten and answer.

Hello: Friend, I am also a student who has just entered the university, and I understand the phenomenon you are talking about. Friends, it's important that you don't have many sincere friends, no matter how many friends you have, how many are there sincerely?

Therefore, you don't need many friends, interpersonal communication is important, at this point, you have to give full play to your personality charm, be sunny, and don't be too heavy in your thoughts, after all, this is still a long way from you to enter the social career, but you can be because of some people or things that affect yourself. However, the most important thing now is to study, not how to develop your career, and life in college is very rich, and you will definitely make a lot of friends, all over the world. One last word:

Don't be self-centered in front of people, believe in yourself.

Perfectionists are generally strong.,Caring about what others think of you is not called perfectionism.,It should just be a matter of your own lack of confidence and character.。。。 I think you may have a wrong understanding of yourself, you can find a psychological counselor at your school or a psychological counselor at a hospital, they are more professional. But as far as my own experience is concerned, this still has to rely on yourself, you can try to communicate more, in fact, communication is also a matter of experience accumulation, more experience can naturally communicate with others normally...

As for what you said without content, it may be a problem that you hide a lot of things in your heart and don't say it, I think as long as you say a lot of your own thoughts and opinions, it's actually easy to talk a lot... Self-point of view, FYI!

I am born to be useful, and self-confidence does not need a reason! With a good understanding of these two sentences, you will be able to overcome this psychological barrier!

Just think of yourself as unique, there's no one like that!! Don't just look at what else you have, because what you have they may not have! Self-confidence is mainly given to oneself!

And don't rely on others to be better than you or not! It's like don't belittle others to raise your head in order to raise your head, it's too unreal, only what you give yourself is the most real. I wish you confidence.

The simplest, there are many people in this world who are better than you, bull x, and there are many more than your cup, lost, whenever you encounter this situation, you should think about it, but don't think too complicated, too much. Do the best in the middle! You have to know that the world is very unfair, but it is also very exciting!!

As for your efforts, I think there will definitely be good rewards, and the emperor will live up to his wishes!! 1

Hope this is a little bit of a help for you!!