There is a feeling that is more painful than falling out of love, and it is called self inflicted am

Updated on culture 2024-02-27
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't know where you're now, but I've been a former person, and I've been sentimental to him, and I understand how uncomfortable it feels. Even if you break up with him, you can't help but go to him again and again. said that he would not bother him anymore, but he still went cheekily.

    Every time I pay attention to whether he is ** on Q, I even know what his Q is like. I hope that he will find me, even if it is a word, but every time I will be disappointed. For him, I skipped class, was sad, and cried.

    Every time I say to myself not to be cheap anymore, maybe he doesn't have you in his heart for a long time, and he is still here to be amorous, it's not worth it. But after all, he can't resist the thoughts of him, and he is very irrational to do stupid things in the eyes of others. It's been so long, and I still can't let go of him in my heart.

    But now that I've been thinking about it for a long time, I wonder what's the use of washing my face with tears every day? He wouldn't know how he was feeling right now. Maybe you're crying for him here, and you're doing something for him, and he's talking and laughing with people over there, will you still be thinking about you?

    Since I still love him, I think it would be better to keep this love in my heart and hope that he will live well. Oh, I really made myself great for him. Finally, I want to tell you:

    If you really love him, give yourself one last chance, try again, and wish you success. If he still doesn't understand your mind and doesn't accept your words, don't give up on yourself, you also have people who like you and love you, cherish it. I don't want more than one person to be like me, first falling out of love and then being amorous.

    It's like a lyric in "Rainbow": Maybe time is an antidote. If you really don't want to be sentimental anymore, let him fade away over time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is indeed an important ingredient in life. Romantic, nostalgic does not mean suddenly completely, it is indeed impossible, unless there is no heart. However, we can try it and try not to define love as all life or life.

    I don't love this moment, is it really not working? It may be that this may not be the case. We work, study, live.

    I have to continue. In the face of a temporary romance, you may need to gradually develop courage: all the feelings that occur after the crash of love are reasonable.

    What kind of feeling depends on what you're experiencing.

    This is in the face of a lot of feelings, you have to give yourself the right time to get used to it, and there are no limits, adjust this part appropriately, and be in charge of your feelings. This process must be very painful, we tend to see only the best side of love while ignoring love, there are many people who cannot accept one side, such as romance, which is probably the most unacceptable. When we have to take responsibility for our love, it suffers.

    However, in the face of pain comes the end up coming out stronger. To get rid of romance as soon as possible, many people feel that they will soon find a new object, force themselves to be happy, etc., which is more appropriate.

    But this is only one of the "most effective ways" to escape from yourself. Doing so will allow you to "replace" the loss of a painful part in a short period of time, but the problem is that before you take the time, you will find that all of them are not resolved. Things to do after falling in love:

    Learn to process your feelings, and when you feel your feelings, you can accept it, it's all together. With your good friend, I can ask someone at the time as a reference. I thought of ta, I thought of it, I wouldn't think of it.

    Leave some spare time for your own wounds, but don't lose sight of the command to love yourself.

    Give the current life, add new elements. For example, I know new people, participate in new activities, cultivate new fun, in short, you have to move forward and renew yourself and your life. So, I really want to disappear in love, I just have to accept that I really fell in love.

    There is no one in this world who cannot live. The world is changing all the time. When you commit mutual commitments, it may be true at that time, but people will always move forward and always generate new ideas and ideas.

    Forgetting that a person only needs two things, time and new happiness. But you choose the new happiness, I choose the time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, this is a kind of performance that cannot be let go. You should try to make your life full, such as work, talking to friends, etc., and try not to give yourself time to think about unhappy things.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's better to be blocked, you can try to do psychological counseling a few times to release pressure.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Calm down your mentality, falling in love or falling out of love is just one of many emotions, you shouldn't change your physical and mental state because of this, talking about falling out of love, it can only mean that two people really have no fate, look at some.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Re-engaging in the next relationship is the best way to do it, or just go out and relax. Find things to keep yourself busy and don't think too much.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

    I hope mine satisfies you! Thank you!

    Remember.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The feeling of love.

    The feeling of love, always feel very sweet at the beginning, always feel that there is one more person to accompany you, one more person to help you share, you are finally not lonely, at least one person thinks of you, loves you, no matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it is good... Some people say that love is like picking up stones, always trying to find the right one for you, but how do you know when you can pick it up? If he suits you, will you fit him?

    In fact, love is like a grinding stone, maybe when you first picked it up, you are not so satisfied, but people are flexible, many things can be changed, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have, and start grinding? Many people think that it is because their feelings are weak, so they will become slow and hanging. Wrong!

    Love should not only know how to be tolerant but also timely, many things may just lie in the change of mood! When someone falls in love with you and you think they're good. That doesn't mean you're going to choose him.

    But you cannot answer him, because you do not know it. That's right, sometimes I always think that I will find someone I love very much. But later, when I look back, I realize how naïve I was, if I never started, how do I know if I will love that person very much?

    In fact, the feeling of loving and loving is something that you will only discover after you have experienced many things together.

    I hope you can face your own future, believe in yourself, and only find your own happiness is the most important thing. Life will become happier because of loving and being loved, and life will become more colorful because of loving and being loved, I hope your life is wonderful! You can get out of that dark road now, the road ahead is bright, believe in yourself, I'll cheer you on!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When you can smile and remember your past.

    You should remember the wonderful memories you made together.

    However, if you can't let go of the past, you should learn to forget.

    Until you can no longer be stabbed by the past.

    You can't forget it, and you don't want to remember it! What to do? Then hide it deep in your heart! Let the good things of the past become memories!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Time will heal your wounds.

    Lock memories into the Love Storehouse.

    Tomorrow will be fine.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Looking at the greenery and listening to the cheerful singing will eliminate a lot of worries.

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