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It's okay not to hurt your temper, but pay attention to civility.
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The bride and groom have to shut the groom out of the door, ask for red envelopes, swear, sing love songs, and hide the bride's shoes.
1. Shut the groom out
The groom can go through a test when he comes to pick up the bride, but he can't let him pick up the beautiful bride so quickly, otherwise it won't be too cheap for him to read the divination. At this time, you can deliberately make things difficult for the groom, ask some questions that can liven up the atmosphere, such as who are you, what are you doing, who are you marrying, who is your wife, etc., and sometimes the groom's will make everyone laugh. Loss.
2. Ask for red envelopes
Begging for red envelopes is basically an essential program. After the groom enters the door, he can ambush on both sides of the door and wait for the opportunity to ask him for a red envelope, otherwise he should not be allowed to see the bride.
3. Swear
The groom approaches the bride's room step by step, and at this time the door of the bride's room can be closed and the groom swears to be good to the bride. Of course, this is all to make it difficult for the groom to get high, but it can't be too much, especially when it comes to the privacy of both parties, otherwise it will be embarrassing to make the atmosphere worse.
4. Sing love songs
You can let the groom sing a love song, and if you don't sing it, you won't let him pick up the bride. Actually, this idea is still very good, after all, there are many songs suitable for marriage and love, almost everyone can hum a few words, the key is to learn to enliven the atmosphere and make jokes about the groom after singing.
5. Hide the bride's shoes
In many places, it is popular for the groom to kneel on one foot to put on the bride's wedding shoes when he picks up the bride, at this time the bridesmaid can hide the bride's wedding shoes and let the groom find them, unforgettable for the groom, but don't hide them too secretively. and give some hints when appropriate.
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Weddings are an extremely important part of folk culture. Because most people only get married once in their lifetime, they want their wedding to be unique and creative.
Although the current form and process of marriage is gradually Westernized, that is, the man wears a suit and bow tie, and the woman wears a white gauze skirt and holds a gift flower, and finally the two take an oath to kiss and exchange rings in the presence of the priest.
However, there are still some traditional marriage customs and etiquette in today's Chinese land, and today, the author will talk to you about the traditional marriage customs reported by ethnic minorities.
Marriage, because of the different cultural customs in each place, there will naturally be regional differences in marriage customs, so the marriage customs in the countryside are compared with the city, and some interesting rural marriage customs are worth seeing.
1. Eat happy noodles.
After the groom arrives at the bride's house, the bride's parents will sit with the groom for a while, and then the bride's sister and sister-in-law will appear on the stage, start to ask for red envelopes, and agree on the price of the wedding noodles, which is generally negotiated in advance. When the wedding noodles begin, the groom should eat them quickly, and the bride's family will quickly grab them. The implication is to win the rich, so the two parties will try their best to grab the happy face.
Under normal circumstances, the groom can only eat one bite, and the noodles are robbed.
2. Door opening fee.
After eating the noodles, the groom came to the bride's door, and the bride did not open the door, so he had to take a red envelope to open the door. Of course, these red envelopes are all requested by the bride's family.
3. Door lock fee.
When the groom entered the house, the parents of the bride had already locked the door, and if they wanted to marry the bride back, they had to pay the door lock fee, not give red envelopes, and not open the door. Some smart grooms will arrange for someone to hold the door in advance and not let it be locked.
Fourth, three cannons.
When the groom has almost taken out the red envelope, it is time for the bride to get on the sedan chair, but the groom must put enough three cannons, and the firecrackers are longer than the other, so that the bride can get on the sedan chair.
Fifth, there is no turning back.
When you come back, you can't take the road you used to marry, which means that the husband and wife don't go back.
Sixth, grab the red quilt after the hole room.
On the night of the cave room, the groom and the bride will grab the only red quilt Zhengsen, who grabs the meaning is who has the final say in the future.
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If you want to deal with marriage troubles, then you must express it seriously at the wedding, and you also need to repeatedly warn those good brothers who like to make trouble, make it clear that they are not willing to make excessive marriage troubles, and believe that true friends will not deliberately make themselves frequently ugly at the wedding.
So how to prevent marriage troubles.
Clause. 1. Invite the elders of the family to sit down. Generally, there are elders present in the family, and the juniors dare not make too much trouble, so it is also a good way to put an end to marriage trouble.
Clause. 2. Refuse on the grounds that the bride is unwell. The bride and groom are too busy on the wedding day, so they will naturally be tired and uncomfortable, so if the wedding is too long, you can try to end it early on the grounds that your lover is unwell.
Clause. 3. Be your own wedding planner.
If you want to prevent marriage troubles, you must do it yourself, ensure that the entire planning of the wedding will be involved, and it is okay for everyone to play games for entertainment when you get married, but the design of the game must be designed in advance, not too much, not outrageous.
The first filial piety fights to know. 4. Carefully choose the best man and bridesmaid for the wedding. Sometimes the marriage is too much, in fact, it is all caused by the best man and bridesmaid, and sometimes there will be an emergency, so before getting married, you must carefully choose the best man and bridesmaid, and try to choose a quiet person.
But if there is really no one else to choose, then you should also warn the person who wants to make trouble in advance, and you can't go too far.
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