My girlfriend has lived with my ex boyfriend before. It s very uncomfortable

Updated on psychology 2024-02-19
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you care about this very much, it's better to divide it, unless you want to open it. Even if you don't break up now, you will still break up in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In today's society, it's normal to live with your ex-girlfriend. If he's a certain age, but he's never lived with his previous girlfriend, you're going to have to worry about what might be wrong with him.

    As for me, as long as he doesn't go into the details of his time with his ex-girlfriend, that's fine. As long as the past is a thing of the past, it is enough for him to cherish the present.

    Conversely, if the question is asked the other way around, what would it be like to learn that your girlfriend had lived with her ex-boyfriend.

    This is the difference between women and men, men will definitely mind more than women.

    Personally, I think that women will mind, but far less than men, a woman cares more about the present and the future.

    Of course I'm a man, I don't feel that way, and for a man, nine out of ten would mind if his girlfriend lived in with someone.

    Don't say you don't mind, I don't believe it.

    Regardless of men and women, in today's society, I think this kind of mind is meaningless in essence, and it may be that when they quarrel, they will use it as a handle to quarrel.

    For example, when a woman makes some mistakes and her boyfriend fights her, she can say, "I didn't say anything about you living with your ex-girlfriend."

    And those who will drill the horns of the bull will not be able to accept it, immersed in this past that has nothing to do with you, and it is difficult to extricate themselves.

    I can quite understand that, although it has nothing to do with you in the past, people are selfish, selfish and possessive.

    There are those who don't mind, and there are those who mind. There are those who don't mind, and there are those who don't mind. There is little point in arguing about such topics. You really have to mind, it's good not to be together, there is no way to change what happened in the past.

    I believe that the present and the future are of better quality than in the past. Everyone has a past, and as long as they are with you and love you with all their hearts, they will be content. What you care about is the future, as long as you are happy in the future!

    I wish you happiness, it's not easy to meet, it's not easy to fall in love, just cherish the moment. Thank you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everyone has a past, don't think about it, it's the person who loves, not his past. You have to learn to compromise with yourself, and you have to learn to accept your boyfriend's past. Don't forget the original intention, you have to always, don't forget the past, you can't get out, you have to persuade yourself, and love your boyfriend well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it's not a taste in your heart and you mind it very much, then just break up, everyone has a past, and it's hard to meet someone who was very clean in the past, and you have to learn to accept it,

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you don't feel good in your heart, forget about it, after all, this is a thing of the past, and there is nothing to say.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since I care so much, I don't think it's necessary to be with your boyfriend, otherwise there will always be a gap between you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should adjust your mindset and if you accept your boyfriend, you should accept his past.

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