Psychiatrist please help me. A poor child

You're a woman, and you're a woman? It should be guilt plus friendship, because the feelings are deep, so you are more guilty, you think sorry from the bottom of your heart, you want to be happy, you want to be happy, if you are really a woman, as the first floor said, you are tripped by the term homosexuality, you are afraid that it will really become a concentric love! In fact, as long as you have a good feeling, interest, and curiosity about men, you don't have to care about homosexuality at all.

You should take the initiative to contact him to apologize, say what he wants to say, or write it down, write down what you want to say or dream, and then go to see, in fact, you have become a third party to look at your own affairs, so that you are more rational, from your explanation, you really don't love ta, you have a really deep friendship with ta, there is a conflict between friends and apologize calmly, there is nothing guilty, as long as you admit your mistakes and know that you are wrong, ta recognize your friends and must be tolerant and understand. Feel relieved! Fret!

Calm down! Maybe you need someone to talk to and share your worries, do you think of your parents? They love you and will share your worries, love actually represents not only love, love represents all true love, understand?

A cool head is very important, when you are troubled, want to calm down, listen to **, **can soothe the wounds of the soul! Or listen to Buddhist scriptures, whether you believe in Buddhism or not, Buddhist scriptures such as "Great Compassion Mantra" can indeed make people calm down, you can listen to it, in short, a quiet and soothing space can make you quiet, smoking is harmful to health, smoke less, go out to breathe more air, go for a walk in the park, go shopping with two other good friends, play, don't forget, you still have two friends! Look at the world from afar, don't just see the ...... between you and themDo you understand?

Don't be nervous, anxious, worried, you're fine, look out, you'll be fine, think about it day and night, your dreams don't come from what you think during the day, why only think about this, it's not too monotonous, just need to bless ta: "You want to be happy, you want to be happy", it's enough, it's enough to have this heart, after all, he hates you, your pay people won't care, what you should do has been done, give yourself a day off, go outside and play crazy! It's important to be happy, and gradually the dream will disappear.

You used the word "she", illustrated. Forehead. It's a bit gay.

Don't feel uncomfortable, relax more than contact with the outside world.

Actually, I've seen homosexuality, and it's not a big deal.

Please think carefully about whether you have instilled in your child before going to school the negative emotions about the need to study well or what it will be like if you don't study well, and then try to communicate with your child as much as possible, tactfully and civilly, or to the teacher. Students are well informed.

It is very important for children to get sleep at this age, and it is important to get enough sleep. If you stammer, you can exercise slowly, such as telling stories with your child, or reciting tongue twisters, taking your child out for a walk, and if there is a children's palace around, you can let your child go there to get in touch with his peers.

Do you have more time to stay with your child, is there one to two hours of time in a day to communicate with him, and also, see you say [very obedient learning consciousness and excellent grades], it can be seen from here that your child is very good, but there is no lack of your education, after all, the child's excellence and the parent's education are linked, blindly asking for sensible requirements for excellence is unreasonable, but also to give children time to play.

Are parents demanding of their children? Is the child living and learning under a lot of pressure? Children need to play, for a child's growth, either play happily, or suffering, if you bear too much psychological pressure, there will be a great imbalance.

It is better not to ask the doctor to see, but it is better not to be in the hospital, because it will cause the child to have the idea of "having a problem with himself", give the child a relaxed environment, and more importantly, the harmony of the family, let his focus shift, take the child out for a walk, and develop other hobbies.

It's not right to hit a child anyway.

Now is the time when children are more dependent.

If you don't handle the relationship with your child well, it will have a bad impact on your child's life.

Just like the impact of your father's domestic violence on you (which is by no means genetic), it is a form of stareotype or compensation.

At the age of 2-4 years, children mainly gain a sense of autonomy and overcome shame. If you beat and curse all the time.

Your child may become more introverted and even autistic.

When you grow up, you will be called weak and lack of will, not to mention interpersonal socialization.

Parents always do not cultivate their children's ability to be independent when they are young, and when their children grow up, they suddenly dislike their children for not being independent one day.

As everyone knows, all these qualities are gradually formed when they are young.

For example, if you do not handle the relationship with your child at the age of 3-4, then at the age of 4-7, the child's sense of initiative will be affected, and the communication with other children will be affected or even refuse to socialize with other children. If this continues, will the child be healthy?

So these are all parents' faults, don't blame your own parents for the fault (although your character formation is also parent-led).

But since we have children, we have responsibilities, responsibilities, and more self-denial, and more learning.

For children at this stage, encourage and praise more.

There are a number of stages that can be divided into stages, and children can be rewarded for completing a stage.

And let him know the reward for completing the next stage This will develop the child's quality of will and goals.

It is also very helpful for children in interpersonal communication.

Seriously against you hitting the child, if the child is wrong, you can punish a little, but the child is just over three years old, and he doesn't even know what he is afraid of. Even if he knew, he didn't know how to express it.

This child needs encouragement and needs to be gentle with you.

There is a little problem, how is your relationship with your husband, or other family members, such as in-laws, have you transferred your dissatisfaction with others to your son, you have realized your own problems, and it is still easy to solve, you must always analyze and reflect on yourself, and control your emotions.

Extreme, irritable, but only instantaneous, you definitely have obsessive-compulsive disorder. It's okay, just make a deliberate and planned change.