Why did he feel close to me all the time, but suddenly said that he would break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-27
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Heaven is going to make people. Seeing that you have sent so many words, you still don't give points, and I think you should give a few points for rewards after reading it, of course, this is not a topic to talk about. If it's a problem-solving problem.

    I really can't help at all. That's all we'll tell you. The decision is up to you.

    First of all, a boy admits that his parents' decision on his love is cowardly, which does make a little sense, but men are different from women. Men have to be assertive. There must be all aspects, and women need to have a certain assertiveness.

    But you can't buy a spoon and have to be chosen by others. Of course, your reason seems to be that Bin can't afford it, it's not that you can't live, but that his family is against it, and it seems that his family is looking for a good blind date for him. Maybe your man loves his family and parents very much, maybe he doesn't have any opinions at all, maybe his economy is all dependent on the family's alms.

    Maybe... There are too many possibilities, except that filial piety is a good thing, everything else is a bad thing. Therefore, such a man does not seem to be worth entrusting for life. Perhaps as long as there is a man who can be compared, maybe this man may seem redundant.

    But what you love is not his or anything else, but his heart is enough, isn't it? So, can such a man who may not bring you any benefit in the future be entrusted with it for life? This is actually a question.

    Now no one is going to leave you. Maybe one day you will marry him, and his parents have always had a negative meaning about you in their hearts. Anything will happen to you in the future.

    You have to know that the second half of your life is very long. I still remember the last time a man posted that his daughter-in-law bullied his elderly mother to do housework and take care of the children, and scolded his mother. Ask us what to do.

    I am very unhappy, this is not just a cowardly man, but also an incompetent man. A man, you don't make money, maybe it's just that your earning ability is insufficient, you can't take care of children, maybe you haven't had such an experience, you can't do housework Maybe you've always put your mind on work, but you can't decide your love, so what else can you be? Is that right.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do you really know him? What the human eye sees is not necessarily true.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Be happy, there's nothing you can't get by.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Finally got rid of this man, and you must keep your eyes open when looking for a man in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After a breakup, it's actually a heartache because you've been with him for a long time. Suddenly losing the other person is a feeling that only those who have experienced it will know, and you can become numb and depraved.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First love breakup. Love with your heart. The breakup was calm.

    But there is a heart-rending feeling inside. Very penetrating. I felt something press against my chest.

    The feeling of letting yourself breathe. The chest is very tight. I want to cry.

    But I couldn't cry. I won't cry either. Just want to get out and walk.

    Alone quietly. Take a look at the scenery of nature. The mood slowly calmed down.

    Slowly, it became bearish. Anyone who looks at it can talk about the year calmly. It's just that if you don't talk about it once, it will hurt in your heart once.

    At the end of the day, I don't feel like it. It's like telling a story yourself. It's just that the protagonist is himself.。

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    At first, I felt that he was everywhere, and the sky was falling, but after a while, I felt that it didn't matter, and it was the same without anyone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I feel finally relieved, because I love too humbly in this relationship, and I am really tired.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What does it feel like when you break up? When you first broke up, you may be really reluctant and feel like you're nothing. As time passed, and after hearing that the other party didn't seem to be doing well after leaving me, my mood got better inexplicably.

    Especially now when I look at the other half lying next to me, I am really grateful for her leaving.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I feel heartbroken, I will never believe in the road of love again, and everything in the world is bleak and colorless.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After all, breaking up is not a good thing, and it is estimated that most people have mixed tastes.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because of the opposition of the man's mother, I took the initiative to break up with the man, when I first broke up, I was very painful, but I turned the pain into the motivation to study, buried myself in serious study, and finally was admitted to university, changed my fate, and now our family of three lives very happily. So if you fall out of love, don't indulge in pain, turn pain into your own motivation to move forward, and strive for a better life through your own efforts.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's going to be sad, after all, it's someone you love. There will inevitably be a lot of no's in my heart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The pain in the heart cannot be experienced by others.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Kiss! After a breakup, many people experience this feeling. This could be because you haven't fully accepted the fact of the breakup, or you still have some nostalgic feelings about some aspect of your ex.

    Here are some of the reasons that may be causing this feeling and how to cope with it:1Miss each other:

    After a breakup, you may miss certain aspects of your ex, such as what you have in common or how you feel when you're together. To cope with this, you can try to find some new hobbies or social circles to fill in the void after the breakup. 2.

    Think about the past: You may think back to the past over and over again, wondering if there is anything else that can save your relationship. If you realize that this kind of thinking is just a waste of time, try to divert your attention and focus on your life in the present and your plans for the future.

    3.Uncertainty about the future: You may feel uneasy, and the road ahead of you is unsure of what the future will take you**.

    But it's a very common situation, try to accept the uncertainty and learn to move on in this situation. 4.Hope to salvage the relationship:

    If you're still looking to reconnect with your ex, you need to assess whether the relationship is healthy and will have a positive impact on your future. Before you think about trying again, you need to think hard about the reasons for the breakup and determine if you really have the potential to repair the relationship. Finally, don't forget to give yourself some time and space as you process these feelings and don't be overwhelmed by stress and insecurity.

    If you feel like you can't handle these emotions on your own, <>

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Many young people in life will fall in love, because this is also free love, and they want to be able to get married together, so many young people will talk about this relationship very seriously when they meet someone they like, but there will also be many problems in the relationship, because the personality of the two people is also because of personal quality reasons, which are very important, and there are also family reasons.

    In life, if you find a boyfriend and girlfriend you like very much, you will take it seriously, and you can tolerate any shortcomings of the other party, because this is also the person you have met in your heart, and if you encounter something unpleasant in the relationship, it is normal to want to break up.

    1. If the other party is violent, it's time to break up.

    Because there are many people who don't understand each other's character before falling in love, and in the process of falling in love, the other party has domestic violence against themselves, so they should break up, because domestic violence is very scary.

    Second, if the other party is irresponsible, it is not okay.

    Because there are many people who have no sense of responsibility, it is also very important to have a sense of responsibility in marriage, so when we are looking for a boyfriend and girlfriend, once a person has no sense of responsibility, there is no need to talk about it anymore.

    3. If the other party is not motivated, they can't be together.

    Because the two families are also very important in the future, if they are together, the other party is not self-motivated, and they play like children, so they can't get married, and they can also break up.

    So in life, if we meet each other, if he has so many shortcomings, he should not be together, because the life of two people together is also very important, if you don't think about living together in the future, it is okay to fall in love, because after all, many times there are many reasons to consider. Finally, it is very important to enter into marriage.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When two people live together, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions and setbacks. But when I encounter difficulties or are not understood, misunderstood and neglected, my heart is very fragile, and I want to break up to end the relationship.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    is that the other party treats himself very unfriendly, and beats and scolds himself at every turn, these situations are that they should break up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Sometimes I feel like I want to break up when I am in a relationship, and I feel like I should break up in these moments. One is when I quarrel with my boyfriend, and my boyfriend doesn't take the initiative to coax me. The second is when I need my boyfriend to accompany me, but he doesn't have time to spend with me.

    The third is when your boyfriend is addicted to games, and he doesn't listen to what he says.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think when I need him the most, he is always not by my side and has to rely on himself for everything, and when he doesn't stand on your side or speak for you because of conflicts with his mother, and when he secretly has an affair outside, he really wants to break up with him!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, the breakup seems sudden, but in fact it is inevitable. What you call suddenness is just that you have been realizing it later. From one of your quarrels, one cold war, and one non-reply message, these have been exposed, and there is a big problem in your relationship.

    And you never pay attention to these problems until the other party proposes to break up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Speaking of which, I think it's probably because society and humanity are changing。Why do you say it, in the old days of our parents, life was hard, it was not easy to be together, our parents were thinking about the basic problem of eating, drinking, and Lazar, in the past, in addition to the basic desire of love, most of them were about survival, and now our lives have become better, and our spiritual pursuit is more progressive, right? So we're now also proactive about our personal feelings.

    So in general, it's normal to break up in society now!

    First, let's talk about the feelings of the person who proposed the breakup. I'm tired of being constantly forbearing. It can't go on any longerSo it will be brought up, in fact, I think that the relationship is a matter of two people, and if I can raise the issue of breaking up, I can make such a decision, I must know that there are inevitable problems between the two of me when they run in, but there is a high probability that the problem cannot be solved, and I may have thought about it for a long time before I brought it up.

    The second is to talk about the feeling of the person who was suddenly broken up, the first I definitely don't understand, as long as things don't develop to the point of irreconcilability, the person who is broken up will definitely not understand,I will also wonder if the other party is in love with someone else, or if the other party's parents disagree. Very few people think about themselves, whether there is something wrong in our lives.

    So it's not easy for us to meet together, we can solve the problem harmoniously, after all, it's rare to have lovers, right, but if we must be separated, we also have to bless each other, after all, everyone has lived together for so long, right?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The one who was suddenly broken up definitely couldn't accept it, and I was so angry that I was going to die.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you feel something, one of them is prepared in advance, and the mind will bear it, while the other may be hit and cannot accept it for a while.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It was like a blow after being heard by the person who broke up suddenly.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The first one will not be too disappointed, and the second one will be hopeless.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Both of them are sad and in love with two people.

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