How to control stubborn students in today s people oriented world?

For those children who behave differently due to the adverse influence of family and even social environmental conditions, they should be treated with the attitude and manner of "friends and like-minded people". Love is the source of all education. It is only with love as a foundation that the first step can be taken to transform them.

We must treat differently in a special way of education. They have been hurt in their hearts, and their sense of loss is significantly stronger than that of others, and their rebellious mentality is stronger. They are more eager for someone to care for them and love them, but they are not easy to be exposed, struggling between self-esteem and inferiority, full of contradictions in their hearts, and even thinking that they are broken, do not understand the inner feelings of others, and go their own way, empty-eyed everything.

These are the people we need to care about. We need to be patient and educate them, but we also need to see them as excellent students, not the other way. Talk to them more in life, find their shining points in time and give appropriate encouragement, so that they can slowly understand the teacher's attention and good intentions to him, and their inner world accepts the teacher's love and influence.

Teaching students according to their aptitude is a constant premise, and the first is to analyze how stubborn they are, whether they are morally corrupt or simply do not like to learn. If it is a problem of moral character, then contact the parents and communicate with them to see if it is caused by the family environment or other reasons. We will do our best to assist in correcting it, and if it is difficult to correct it, transfer it to the Department of Political and Religious Affairs.

If you just don't like learning, then see if you have other specialties and communicate with parents to strengthen them. Reading well is a standard for a good child. But it can't be said that those who are not good at reading must not be good children.

As a teacher, we should be a person with a heart for education, be good at discovering with our eyes, feel the current situation of students with our hearts, and be able to discover the differences and changes of students in time, and educate and guide them in a timely manner, so that we will have new happiness and new harvest unintentionally. Only careful teachers can be good at seizing the opportunity of education, carry out education that touches the hearts of students, so that students can gain new understanding, so as to make greater progress, both students and teachers, will continue to experience new gains and successes. For these students, teachers should not criticize them regardless of the occasion or severity, which is likely to lead to such a rebellious mentality of these children, which is not conducive to the teacher's education.

Instead, we should get to know the students in depth and detail, enhance communication, and gradually transform.

The students are also different, and the forest is big and there are no birds! His own path is all his own choice, if he wants to take the right path, it is no problem to work hard to help him, he is willing to be his ladder to the sky, if he doesn't want to take the right path, then let him fend for himself! Anyway, everyone who leaves the earth will turn the same, and everyone who has less in the world will live the same!

This is life, a hundred flowers bloom is spring, and three religions and nine streams are society! I don't want everyone in society to be the same! No one can do this, it can only be utopian utopian socialism!

Don't easily label your child as a "bad guy", a bad person, a hopeless person, etc., but you should carefully analyze your child's strengths and weaknesses, find his shining points, promote his strengths and weaknesses, praise him for doing well, and enhance his recognition and sense of honor.

In line with the principle of individualized education, we must first analyze the reasons for children's stubbornness, such as: children are hyperactive may be ADHD, which needs to be **; It may also be that they are not interested in what they are learning, so they need to cultivate their interest in learning the subject together with the school.

People are inherently complex! Diverse! It is necessary to learn, educate, and temper to have a normal state!

If people are "people-oriented" when learning knowledge, this is a pseudonym! Didn't study hard and temper yourself how to be a person? Please don't mislead our children with "people-oriented"!

Otherwise, the society of "natural selection, survival of the fittest" will make our children never grow up!

It is recommended that primary school students start to tell them clearly that if they do something that hurts others excessively, it will be permanently recorded, and it will also directly affect their future development path, and it will also cause a burden on their parents.