Introverts say what you think?

A world-famous psychologist said this in his book.

Extroverts have advantages, but unfortunately, introverts are invincible".

Introverts are not as sociable as extroverts though. But as a result, they also gain much higher levels of endurance, concentration, thinking and creativity than extroverts. And introverts are mostly gifted in certain areas.

80% of the world's scientists, writers, painters, artists, etc. are introverts.

Extroverts are sociable. Introverts are good thinkers.

But introversion is also divided into introverts. If you're just staying at home and playing games, you're useless at all levels. If you're good at something, you're going to be a great thing.

Introverts are only those who have a bad life experience. Introversion is caused by a lot of factors. I'm also an otaku.,Dear.,Hehe.。。。

Encourage yourself to be happy, keep your heart calm... Maybe I'm not good enough... But I've been working on it ...

When I was a child, I was home alone, and I didn't turn on the lights when it was dark and watched the window slowly darken.

Introversion is really bad, and extroversion also has a bad side. There is no such thing as a perfect person. Be our own and care what others say.

Caused by too little interaction with people.

Hello dear, it is a pleasure to serve you. Introverts feel introverted. It is because introverts generally pay more attention to their inner development, that is to say, there are many emotions in the heart, but the external aspect is not in place.

I can't see anything from the surface of accompanying the dust, but in fact, introverts have turbulent emotions in their hearts, so introverts can feel their shortcomings or strengths because they look at themselves for a long time, so they will know that they are introverted. Whether introverted or extroverted, there is no special and pure condition, and it cannot be said which one is good and which one is bad, I think each has its own advantages, but in this society, extroverts are relatively better developed.

Do you have any friends like that? When you are not familiar with her, you think she is very quiet and well-behaved, which makes people think that she is very introverted, but once you are familiar with her, you will subvert your understanding of her, obviously she is a very lively and cheerful person. Later, a friend who is more introverted said to me, "Because I don't want unimportant people to consume my enthusiasm for no reason", I felt that this sentence was a monologue in the hearts of many introverts.

In fact, many people have some misunderstandings about introverts, thinking that introverts must be quiet and cold to everyone, and even think that they must be "honest people", but if you have interacted with introverts, you will know that introverts are often very explosive, they are not honest, but they don't show great emotional ups and downs about things they don't care about, but once you touch their bottom line, their anger may not be something that ordinary people can bear.

I asked some friends who don't usually like to talk, and they all agreed, "It's not that I don't like to talk, but I'm just too lazy to talk to you." But after thinking about it carefully, I think it's true, you can't talk to a person who is not interested, so you can only "pretend to be dumb", and over time, others will label you as an "introvert".

So you think that an introvert is not necessarily an introvert, but he is not familiar with you and is not enthusiastic about you.

I've always thought that there is no such thing as a true introvert, it's just that he's not an extrovert for you.

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I think the main thing is that you have to take the initiative to take the first step, not all extroverts are born extroverts, and not all people are born to be sociable. A lot of it is acquired.

If you feel that you can't find a topic, you can pay more attention to life and increase your own knowledge, no one will refuse a well-informed person, and no one will often be short of words. Specifically, for example, if everyone is interested in football, you can read more books, watch football games, and then when you are with other people, you will find that there are many more topics to talk about. (Of course, the topic is best what you can be interested in, and if you can cultivate interest, don't force yourself if you are really not interested.)

If something that is not interesting is reluctantly memorized in order to increase the topic, it will make people feel that the manuscript is very stiff and fake).

Also, to develop self-confidence, you should get along with people and smile more, so that others will also feel that you are kind, and it is naturally easier to like you. Don't deliberately avoid crowds as soon as you feel embarrassed to talk to someone, as this will lead to a vicious cycle.

I was also a bit of an introvert in high school, and I never took the initiative to communicate with people or anything. Only people who are more familiar with me will think I am very cheerful. But when I got to college, I also wanted to change, so I went to join some clubs, took the initiative to make a lot of friends, attended more parties, and now, I have become more outgoing.

A lot of it is my real feelings, and I hope you find these helpful.