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First of all, put yourself in perspective. Find your strengths. Then, let your strengths play to your strengths.
This is the most basic condition for gaining self-confidence. To gain self-confidence, you must first gain a sense of satisfaction and make yourself feel that you are very good. This is the most basic.
Therefore, you need to make good use of your strengths and try to play to your strengths. Do more, only in this way can you taste the satisfaction of success as much as possible, then you can build self-confidence. If you think you can't do anything, and you don't do anything, you don't dare to do anything.
The less confident you become, it's a vicious circle. As long as you get the satisfaction of success, you can further gain self-confidence. Of course, maybe take your time.
You can start with small things and gradually increase them. Self-confidence, in fact, is just a state of mind. All you need is to discover it yourself, and you don't need too many complicated processes.
As long as you have faith in yourself, then you will definitely be full of strength.
Don't be overly considerate of others, pay too much attention to what others think of you. Deal with any setbacks with a nonchalant and normal mindset. Self-confidence, in fact, is very simple, just believe in yourself.
When you have self-confidence, you will be able to do everything. The key lies in yourself, as long as you have confidence in yourself, you can solve anything. In addition, the biggest factor of self-confidence is probably the influence of the outside world on you.
To know that what others say about us is always what they think, and we don't have to live in someone else's world. Just do your own thing.
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Evaluate yourself correctly. Some introverts are lonely and self-proclaiming; Some introverts have blind inferiority, always think that others look down on them, and dare not take the initiative to interact with others in order to maintain their self-esteem. The former should learn to respect others, and the latter should be self-confident.
In short, you should evaluate yourself correctly, face up to your own strengths and weaknesses, face up to the strengths and weaknesses of others, and get along with others on an equal footing.
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You have been introverted, sensitive, have low self-esteem, and don't like to socialize since you were a child, and you want to change yourself, right? Low self-esteem and fear of socializing can bring a lot of distress to life and your emotions, so you think about this situation where you can ** yourself if you make a lot of money, right?
Hug you, probably most people have this cautious belief, because modern society is accustomed to the ability to make money == self-worth feast.
But can money really be inferior to everything?
The answer is that it can be relieved to some extent, but no. Because what you are looking for in your heart is still self-worth. So the key point is, how to improve the sense of self-worth?
One of them: external performance, although external value is not equal to self-worth, but because we are in the social society, the quality of external performance will affect our self-judgment, if we insist on doing a good job in external realization, the heart will gradually identify with this self, such as making money, responsible, capable, we will work in one direction.
Second: the inner appeal, that is, what kind of person do you want to become? No matter when, when you have nothing on the outside, whether you still love yourself and still believe that you can start over with peace and respect, this is the real you inside, and if you can establish your inner self, you will also be confident.
Third: psychological topics, you said that you will dodge when you see acquaintances, and you are reluctant to meet acquaintances and greet others......These may be caused by your childhood experiences, or you were hurt at that time, and as a child you need to accept and heal now, solve this psychological problem, and you will start over and look to the future.
In fact, the most important thing to overcome low self-esteem is to believe in yourself deep down. Wake up every day and make a hint in the mirror that you can!
Believe you, you can.
Let's talk on QQ. If you can't see people, you can definitely talk and laugh at Fengsheng, step by step, start like this first, and at the same time enrich your knowledge, your appearance can no longer be cultivated, and you can shape a perfect inner world. In the end, he will be able to show his true face calmly. Individuals do not advocate plastic surgery.
There are probably several reasons: too much rejection, lack of self-confidence, little contact with the outside world, and people who have a great impact on children's lives are also introverted.
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