The three year college romance broke up all at once

Hello! After reading such a long love story of yours, I must first say that you are a very emotional person. As a first love, it is unforgettable for anyone, but sometimes the more you think about it, the more counterproductive it becomes.

I'm not trying to persuade you to have a happy New Year, I can guess you're going to be sad and sad these days. But I don't want you to convey your sadness of falling out of love to your family, which can only show that you are immature, not like a man, and you can't carry it on your shoulders. Why do you have to let the family have a prosperous and lively reunion together, because there are not too many families who can get together at this moment, don't you say?

How to say about your girlfriend's thing, I don't really want to touch your scars, but as the opposite sex I should tell you about her perspective on the problem. If you are also the object of true love, then her heart can not let go either, but distance is a test of reality, people's expectations are always better than reality, but often reality is cruel, so she may only choose to give up on you when making a choice. This doesn't mean that she doesn't love anymore, maybe she buried this love in this life in her heart, hoping that you can live a happy life.

She goes on a blind date, which is unacceptable for any man, because such behavior denies your own worth and existence. But most girls still can't escape their parents' lives, after all, the old man will always see farther, even if the graduate student is higher than you, maybe her mother values the material foundation of his family more, such as: family background, parents' work and connections.

It is recommended that you calm down during this time, adjust your mentality as soon as possible, and do a good job of sprinting before graduation. If you can find a decent job, maybe you still have a chance to save your love again, because what her mother wants is you to bring her daughter a lifetime of happiness and stability. Such a promise is not just lip service, it must be seen by the mother.

So, don't be too sad, only by enriching yourself can you have the strength to save your love! Remember: the real hero is not the one who does not shed tears, but the one who runs through the wind and rain with tears!

Hope you will be happy!

Ah. I'm very similar to me, and he's like you. But.

It's just that the roles are a little reversed. I seem to be you. She seemed to be him.

If my boyfriend would be genuinely willing to do it to me. I would be glad and happy ... I'm a girl.

I know. What do you think. I think she just doesn't love deeply.

You can live well without her. Think about it... She said that she didn't know if she would change her mind in the future.

I thought if I could say these words. There's really nothing to talk about... Perhaps.

If it hurts. She really doesn't love you enough ... Let go.

WE ARE ALL TO BE HAPPY ... There's nothing to be sad about giving up on your girl so easily... If you really can't put it down.

Talk to me. The experience is similar.

There will always be a gap between reality and what you think, and if two people can't be together if they love each other, it will be a very painful thing for both parties. There will be a lot of problems between you in the future, like employment or something, she has no confidence in herself, what else can you ask for, the two together are responsible for each other, she abandoned this responsibility. Nothing lasts forever, time will dilute everything, and in the end it will be just a dull passing year, so let it be.

He just let it go. You should also let go. To live, you have to have some ambition. Prove it to her. He made the wrong choice! Find a good wife in the future and treat others well.

I'd rather laugh and cry than bow my head. Live to the masters.

Women sometimes turn their faces like flipping a book.

Three years of love for a hundred years, not cutting lovesickness can not bear to care, perhaps after experiencing the vicissitudes of life, you can understand through the floating clouds and dogs, from ancient times to the present, there are a few people who see through a thing, you can not grasp the past, in the future, you can only grasp the present, you can choose to continue to be depressed, you can also choose to force yourself to forget, the road of life is your own choice, the reason why life is beautiful, because it is full of too much pain, bitter taste only to taste yourself, in order to experience the true meaning, the world is bitter! The end of the world is close at hand, the end of the world is close at hand, and everything is ridiculous like a dog!

Now that she's given up on you, don't torture yourself anymore. It's more difficult at first, let's do something else, and I don't know if I'm blessed. Take a good look at yourself and hope that you can find your other half in your next relationship.

It is inevitable that the little brother will fail at the beginning of his first love, and there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

Let it go. So much so hello.

My classmate and his wife have been talking for 6 years.

Divorced after only a year of marriage.

There are many people who are less fortunate than you.

Don't put yourself in the position of the protagonist of the tragedy.

You're going to see a lot of it.

Besides. Focus on loving your family or work first.

It's going to be a lot better.

Reality, love is always pale in the face of reality.

Have you ever thought about how you will be with her after you graduate?

Your work is not good, your life is not good, do women suffer with you? Whose parents don't want their daughter to marry someone who has the ability and "money"?

Love is so realistic now, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai only live in legends, and Zhang Sheng and Cui Yingying only live in the script.

And unfortunately we live in reality. So people value more realistic things such as houses, cars, money, and life.

In front of the banknotes, the alliance is nothing at all.

Please wake up from the beauty of love early, face the reality, and accept it bravely.

Alas, pitiful, deeply sympathetic.

1.When we talked about the third year, I went to college because of the distance and couldn't see each other every day, and I felt that the relationship was not so deep for a while, in fact, I was not mature enough to adapt to the changes in the surrounding environment, and there were many things in school, so it seemed that love was not a necessity. But after quarrels and quarrels, I found out that it is still love, and it is inseparable.

Maybe you are serious about falling in love, but after a long time, the phenylethylamine secretion that affects love is exhausted, or at this time, the boy feels that your relationship is stable, and you should devote your mind to other academic careers, ignoring the management of this relationship.

So you can bring it up and have a good talk with him, provided that he is a person with a stable heart, and you are going to get married.

2.Although the time to talk is not short, it does not prevent you from meeting a scumbag, this subject will judge it himself, don't be disgusted with the routine, you should divide it. It's just a small episode in the long river of life, and the future will be even more exciting.

College campus love will break up, of course, for sure.

There are many reasons why a college relationship breaks up, and here are some possible reasons:

1.Misalignment of ideals: College students are growing and developing and have different understandings and expectations for their future plans and prospects, which can lead to disagreements on some key issues and the inability to continue to develop relationships.

2.Not mature enough: College students are not fully mature and sometimes deal with certain things irrationally, such as being overly verbal in arguments, or being too childish and selfish when dealing with relationship issues.

3.Incompatibility: Sometimes, two people have very different personalities, interests, and lifestyles, which can lead to frequent conflicts and dissatisfaction between the two parties in the process of getting along, which eventually leads to a breakup.

4.Time and distance pressures: College students are very busy with their studies and social activities, and at the same time, they may sometimes need to be separated for long periods of time. These factors can bring challenges to the relationship, which can lead to the gradual fading of the relationship between the two parties and eventually the breakup.

5.Lack of communication between the parties: Communication is key to maintaining a healthy relationship, but sometimes college students may not have enough communication skills and abilities to express their thoughts and feelings effectively, causing the situation to worsen.

To sum up, the reasons for a college relationship breakup are varied and require both parties to work together to overcome the problem and maintain a healthy relationship.

Yes, it will be more realistic to fall in love after work than to fall in love on campus.

1.Satisfaction.

It's easy to be satisfied when you fall in love at school, and you can laugh all day long eating ice cream together.

There is always a lot to think about when you fall in love after graduation, there is a lot of pressure, and there is less time to laugh.

2.Let's go. When I fell in love when I was in school, I would have no hesitation when I met someone I liked, and I would be willing to do anything for her.

When you fall in love after graduation, you will always think about it, and you don't bother to pay for each other so unrequited.

3.Mentality. When I go to school, I will only love because of love, not because of loneliness, because of other practical factors.

I regret falling in love with someone because of various factors at work, because I am good-looking, because I am rich, but rarely because of love.

4.Reality. When I was in school, a can ring would be said to be old.

After graduation, even a diamond ring can't really move the person in front of you.

5.Resistance to falling in love.

When I was in school, as long as the other party recognized me as a person, it was fine.

After graduation, you need the approval of the other party, your relatives and friends, and your parents.

Because my thinking is not very mature, I don't think about it so thoroughly, I say that I will break up if I break up, and I will break up if I don't work in a city after graduation.

We were in the early stages of our relationship, including when we first met. There will be certain illusions about the other half. Of course, the severity is different.

The degree depends on many factors, such as: social circle, if you have a narrower social circle, the less contact you have with the opposite sex, the fewer choices, the higher your expectations of the other person, and the greater your fantasies.

Addicted to Japanese and Korean dramas, chasing stars, I feel that my feelings can be made into a movie, and I am envied by thousands of people.

Similar to your situation, three years, the middle process is very happy, but I know that I must not be able to go on, and the result is still divided, the reason is that the two have different plans and cannot be reconciled, no one is willing to take a step back, although I advise you to divide it now, you may not be able to listen to it, I believe that when it comes to that critical point, I will naturally break up, although I do not regret the three-year relationship with my ex-boyfriend, but I will remind myself not to be so muddy in the next relationship. I hope you can understand something.

Since it's not what you want, don't insist, let it go, otherwise you will get tired of it more and more, and don't waste each other's time. What you want, go for it.

There's nothing to do and what not to do, falling in love is grinding, there is no way to do it overnight, and there is no universal book, feelings always belong to the two of you.

Love at first sight is very simple, to put it bluntly, it is the intention of seeing the color. Both of them have the desire to find a partner, and they have a certain fit for each other's appearance and temperament, so they basically hook up. However, there are many problems to face when you get along for a long time, including but not limited to whether your two businesses are at the same level, whether your three views can be compatible, whether your temper can tolerate each other, whether your conversation and expression can be satisfactory to each other, as well as your work and rest, your distance, your family conditions, your future plans, etc.

In the scale of his own patience, if he can grind, he will live for a lifetime, and if he can't grind, he will break up.

Do some things that are not interesting and hobbies together, and then find common interests and hobbies but mutual hobbies can care about each other, involve a little but don't make yourself sad, and starting is the best embodiment of love.

The personalities are incompatible.

It can only be so.