In rural areas, there are more and more young people who are being dragged down by the elderly

There is also a popular saying that young people in rural areas do not take care of the elderly, and many young people have acquiesced in their hearts, that is: in order to serve the elderly at home, they are forced to live in the countryside, resulting in a mess of their lives, and may even be dragged down by the old people in the family, which is not worth it and cannot be done. Nowadays, the practice of many young people in rural areas is to have spare money, give it to their parents, and if they have no spare money, they can be considered very competitive if they don't find their parents.

Some farmers who advocate filial piety may be very angry when they see this statement, and there are actually two reasons why there is such a statement.

Point 1: Before the bed of a long illness, the price of filial piety is too great

There is an old saying that "there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time", and it is hard to believe that people who have not served the elderly who have not served the sick have not served them, and in the countryside, some people have become depressed because of serving the elderly, and then become sick again. Not to mention anything else, let's take Alzheimer's disease as an example, some old people will run around the village, destroy other farmers' homes, beat and scold those they see, in short, as long as they can cause trouble, let the children who are serving at home not only take care of the elderly, but also apologize for what the old man has done all day long. Not only that, but some elderly people may not even know their children, and they will throw things at home at every turn, making a mess in the house and yard.

This is the reason why some children in many rural families are willing to go out to work and pay more than a month for living expenses rather than serve the elderly at home.

Point 2: Serving the elderly will lead to your own small backyard**

There are many families with many children in rural areas, and children will leave their parents and re-form their own families when they become adults, but due to serving the elderly, the backyard of their own small families abounds in rural areas. In order to fulfill their filial piety, some farmers have to take care of their parents as much as possible, but serving is not just for nothingOnce you choose to serve the elderly in the countryside, it will cause a series of chain reactions. The simplest is that it will delay the part-time job, and the second is that it will consume too much energy of a person, which means that the person who wants to be filial can not continue to work and contribute to his family, and he cannot accompany his wife and children well.

If it is okay if the wife and children can understand, I am afraid that I will encounter someone who does not understand, although I will not say anything in the short term, but after a long time, it is likely to be a backyard**, and divorce is possible.

The above is why some people say that they can't get along with the old man in order to be filial to the elderlyBut I don't agree with thatAlthough it is true that it takes a lot to serve the elderly, how much pressure and difficulty it is for farmers to raise children, young people with conscience in rural areas know itTherefore, there are some young people in the village who sell their houses in the city in order to treat their parents, which is the embodiment of filial piety. When parents take care of their children, they do not talk about conditions, and children should not attach conditions if they are filial to their parents.

I think it's not cost-effective, and I can't delay my life because of the elderly.

Later, he became a patient. Not to mention anything else, let's take Alzheimer's disease as an example, after some old people get this disease, they will run around the village, destroy other farmers' homes, beat and scold those they see, in short, as long as they can cause trouble, they will all be provoked, so that the children who are serving at home will not.

I don't think you can decide what kind of family you live in, so there's no such thing as a good deal.

It is the duty of children to support their parents, and there is no such thing as a deservimate.

When you are young, it is possible that those elderly people can have a better life, but they don't choose a better life for you to grow up, so there is nothing cost-effective and cost-effective.

If you really want to be more serious, there is actually no problem if you want to say this, because for the post-60s and post-70s in rural areas, it is really not easy to serve their children. At that time, I may not even be nervous about eating, in order to let my children eat well, many post-60s generations have never dared to eat enough.

If nothing else, let's take Alzheimer's disease as an example, some elderly people will run around the village after suffering from this disease.

I don't think it's convenient to speak, because there are elderly people who are sick, and we are duty-bound.

Due to the accelerated pace of life now, many people in rural areas choose to go out to work, and after the Chinese New Year, there is basically no shadow of young people in the village. In the past, farmers made a living from farming, and every family was poor, and the desire for money was not so strong at that time. Now there are indeed more places to use money, it costs money to eat, it costs money to dress, it costs money to see a doctor, it costs money to do things with gifts, in short, there are too many places to spend money, it is not possible not to make money at all, and it is expected that farming can only solve the problem of food and clothing.

So, young people go out to work, how do the elderly live at home?

Generally, old farmers who are able to move do not add to the burden on their children, they choose to grow simple crops, and then raise pigs, sheep and other domestic animals at home, which can fully support their living expenses. For the elderly who are not able to move, their children will pay them according to the time. In addition, the state also gives pension money to the elderly, although it is not much, so that they can have enough to eat.

Young and middle-aged people in rural areas are forced to go to big cities to work, and to put it bluntly, they are just for life. This kind of life does not refer to "food and clothing". You can think about it, if your hometown is as rich as the outside, and there are factories and mines everywhere, who is willing to go outside to endure humiliation and bear the burden and look at other people's faces to work.

What's more important is that who wants to leave their relatives and go out, the kind of life that is uprooted and worried, no one wants to live.

It is a social phenomenon and a trend of social development for young and middle-aged people to work in big cities. The peasants rely on one acre and three points of land, and they are completely unable to meet the needs of their current lives. One month's salary for working outside the home can cover the income of the whole family for a year's farming.

Therefore, working outside the home can bring a good income to the family. Families built buildings, and some families drove cars. The difficulty of marrying a daughter-in-law in rural areas is also a relatively realistic problem in rural areas today.

In our hometown, we must meet three prerequisites for marrying a daughter-in-law: a house in the city, a car, and a bride price of 200,000 yuan, which adds up to at least 1 million yuan. Is it possible for a rural village to marry a wife by farming?

The only way is to go to the big city to work.

After the young and middle-aged people in the countryside go out, the life of the old man and the old lady can be arranged in this way.

Discuss with your brothers and sisters who can't go out, and if you can't go out, you should work harder and take care of your parents. I take some money out every month to pay for the living expenses of the elderly. You can't be filial to the elderly, you have to show sincerity.

If you don't have siblings, you can pay to send the elderly to a local nursing home. The nursing home has a special person to take care of the lives of the elderly, and there are many people in it, and it is lively and not lonely.

Filial children will give the elderly something to rely on in the real world, and the elderly with pensions will have their own proper arrangements.

Now pension is a big problem in our country, and now the state has introduced relevant support policies to try to ensure that the lives of the elderly can have a good maintenance.

The elderly in the countryside have no one to support them and become lonely and widowed, and the young people go to the city to work, and the elderly in the countryside can only take care of themselves at this time, and when their health is in trouble in the future, they will also have their own children to take care of them.

The old people in the countryside will still stay in the village. Some elderly people still rely on farming to support themselves. Some elderly people rely on child support to support their old age.

The elderly in the rural areas will not be guaranteed in the future, but there are still many young people who will return to their hometowns to take care of their parents after earning money in the city, and these rural elderly people also enjoy the state's subsistence allowance and can still make ends meet.

In the future, these old people will either follow their children to the city to enjoy the blessings, or their children will take time to go back to spend time with them.

In fact, it is very likely that the elderly can only care for the elderly at home by themselves, and they have to support themselves. It is very tragic.

I think the situation is particularly serious at the moment, where young people are moving to the cities, and the elderly in the countryside have to choose to live alone, and they can only take care of themselves.

When the economic conditions of the young people are better, they can take the old people to the city to care for the elderly, so that the old people can have a care and enjoy the life of the city people.

It is likely that these seniors will later be taken to the city by their children or sent to nursing homes.

Because young people need to worry about them a lot when they work outside the home, and they have to go to the hospital a lot.

That's because if the elderly get sick, then all the family savings will be used to see a doctor.

It may be because young people in rural areas need to take care of the elderly, so it takes more time.

Generally speaking, the elderly in rural families have less insurance and pensions, and rely more on young people.

1. No pension, no income.

Rural people do not have formal jobs, most of them go out to work to support their families when they are young, and when they are old, they have to return to their hometowns, and then have no income. Unlike people in the city, even if they are retired, they still have a retirement salary, food and drink, and daily expenses without worrying.

2. The pension is too low and the life is insecure.

Although the country has now implemented the rural pension policy, but can only receive 70-80 yuan per month, the gap between income and expenditure is too large, and now the price is **, the cost of human favor is only increasing, so it is said that the monthly receipt of these dozens of yuan, life is not guaranteed, how to talk about pension, how to talk about enjoying old age.

3. It is difficult and expensive to see a doctor.

Although the implementation of the new rural cooperative medical system in rural areas has indeed reduced the pressure on farmers to see a doctor to a certain extent, the cooperative medical care is now in the first place every year, and it is getting higher and higher year by year. And the reimbursement for medical treatment is sub-regional, and the town can only be reimbursed in the town, although the proportion of reimbursement has increased, but the medicine is getting more and more expensive, and the reimbursement of drugs is getting less and less, and many times you need to pay for yourself, so in these years, you don't dare to get sick when you are born.

4. The children are not around, and the feelings are missing.

Nowadays, the elderly and children are left behind in the countryside. Because, when the children are not around, the quality of life of the elderly cannot be guaranteed, because of physical factors, many things cannot be done by themselves, and the left-behind elderly are usually lonely and lonely, so they are missing in emotional and spiritual aspects, and cannot be satisfied.

Now China's population aging is growing rapidly, the proportion is high, therefore, rural pension has always been a hot topic, the above four points fully reflect the rural pension difficulty, low living standards, economic scarcity, self-care ability decline and other problems, which are worthy of everyone's serious thinking and attention.

There is no sense of happiness, and the children and grandchildren are in the field.