Isn t there something wrong with me like this?

You just met an opportunity at a time when you needed to release, and that release happened to be in the bad times of your career, an emotional catharsis and indulgence, and it didn't mean that you had a psychological problem.

But we say that people are rational, and when you think about it calmly in hindsight, do you think it's worth it?

Setbacks happen to everyone, and you need to find a solution, not an escape.

So, put your heart back to your career, I think it would be better.

Looking at your introduction, there is no psychological deficiency, social pressure is increasing, this is the consensus of everyone, many people have a kind of anxiety with a confused future, the lower the social base, the greater the anxiety, this is a common disease, no need to doubt yourself.

Don't panic when you have food in your hands, In this society, material things can indeed make people feel at ease, As an ordinary person, it takes a process to accumulate your wealth, and you can't be anxious, adjust your mentality, give yourself a career plan and life goals, don't be too ambitious, and make solid goals, go all out for these goals, work hard, learn one or two more skills, accumulate your own contacts, learn to manage money, etc.; With these things, I believe you will be very fulfilling, as soon as people are full, they will have motivation and hope, and their mentality will get better and better, I wish you to get on the right track as soon as possible.

It's a bit hard to understand if there is too little punctuation, but if you don't get hurt at work, and you can self-regulate, it won't be your problem. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

Leave him, live well, and wish you happiness.

I understand this situation very well, because I have felt it sometimes. Sometimes you see a person who is very social, but right? People are more afraid of contact with the opposite sex, and when they come into contact, they feel uncomfortable and feel very panicked.

I don't think this phenomenon is a disease, not only for girls, but also for many boys. For this case, I think the reasons for it are:

First, you tend to be shy. This may not be the case between people of the same sex, or between acquaintances. However, as soon as an unfamiliar person of the opposite sex comes to greet you, you will feel very flustered.

This shows that you still don't have a lot of knowledge! The second is that your guts are too small, and you can't let go of all kinds when you play with the opposite sex! Also, there is a lot of ridicule, and you naturally form a habit!

Second, you yourself have a very aversion to the opposite sex. It may have something to do with what you experienced as a child. Or maybe you have a serious cleanliness habit, and you are very flustered about the hormones emitted by the opposite sex!

It doesn't make sense to say that it has something to do with your experiences as a child! It is possible that when you were a child, you saw something that you shouldn't see, and even when you grow up, as soon as you see the opposite sex, it will cause you to be disgusted! I think that's the psychological reason why you've been sick for a long time.

If you have time, you should see a psychiatrist!

Whatever the reason for this situation, you can take the initiative to find it and try to correct it. That's a good sign! There are simply so many things that need to be experienced in a person's life, and some things can crush your life.

But so what? Life still has to move forward, we still have to move forward! No matter what scum is going on, don't bow your head!

Don't look back! Walk forward with your head held high!

Is there something wrong with my psychology, what should I do? Explain your situation first.

Hello this friend! After reading your question, I feel very interesting, because I don't know your specific situation, please allow me to say a few words to [Heaven]! I'll give you a warm hug first

From the perspective of communication psychology, what you call "self-talking" is a special way of "internal communication" (or rather, it is the communication between your "consciousness" and "submerged consciousness])! In fact, in our daily life, this kind of internal communication is very common, such as "think twice before acting", "frown, think about it", etc., are all internal communication processes! However, if you use this kind of "self-talk" frequently, it means that your channels of communication with the outside world are blocked!

You can't communicate with others, you can only communicate with yourself! Moreover, you said that your grandmother is often like this, which means that your grandmother also has such problems! She also has a lot of heartfelt words in Biqi Town, and she can't find anyone to [confide]!

From a psychoanalytic point of view, our emotions and behaviors are often subordinated to our subconscious rather than our conscious! You say, "You can often feel ashamed of yourself when you are fully awake and suddenly have an inexplicable voice in your heart", but in fact, this kind of [voice] is your subconscious mind [talking] with you!

The reason for your repentance is that your subconscious and conscious minds have not been reconciled!

From personal experience, it should have something to do with your upbringing! From your description, only your grandmother, what about your parents? Have they ever helped you?

It shows that the child is insecure.

And the pressure and requirements for myself are also higher than ordinary people.

You can only use self-harm to make yourself feel better.

In this way, you can reduce your mental stress.

Let's be honest. This has something to do with the way parents educate their children.

Family is a harbor When children make mistakes, parents should help their children.

Children don't have to choose their own parents if they have a choice.

Parents are the same, first-time parents, filial piety.

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Your own personality and temper should be the kind of old stove dust and irritable.

When you encounter something that doesn't go your way, you get angry, and most of the things you can control at work or school, but you can't control it when you get home, right?

Actually, you like your dog very much, if he doesn't do what you ask, you will beat him up, and then he will feel sorry for him and be very good to him, right?

I think this is a psychological disease, do you also have a little low self-esteem, a little pessimistic?

I used to be like this, I feel quite similar to you, but I'm much better now, I usually cheer myself up more, listen more to **, cultivate more hobbies, contact with others more, think more about some interesting things in meditation, forget the unhappy things quickly, I can only defend myself and fight with myself, self-adjustment.

I later gave away my puppy because I felt that I was not good enough for it at the time, and I would not consider raising a small animal until I had completely improved my temper, or I would not keep it at all, because if I raised it, I would be responsible for it, and I would have to take care of it. After all, the puppy is not a human being, it has no thoughts, and if it is your son in the future, the daughter will hate you.

Before you want to hit it, think about its cute place, think about its poor place, and you shouldn't hit it. Give it a try. Hope it helps.