I blame myself, maybe I m really not like a girl

Updated on society 2024-02-09
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't feel like he thinks of you as a sister. If you still see him as an older brother, you should explain your point of view to him so that he does not misunderstand him in the future.

    Let my sister care about my brother, I think I'm afraid that in that environment, it is beyond the scope of my sister? It's better to do it the other way around.

    Maybe it's time for you to explain your feelings to him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Agree with the third floor.

    He's doing it for his face.

    I'm still embarrassed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Silly girl, he is clearly looking for an excuse to take advantage of you, and if he doesn't take advantage of it, he will make up a reason, and you still believe it. Don't be so stupid!

    You're doing the right thing. Don't beat yourself up! Sister won't lie to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't blame yourself, since you are treated as a sister, why are you still like that, I think I am taking advantage of you

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You did nothing wrong, as a man he did at the time. What a shame!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You think you're obsessed with what he's saying...

    Silly girl... It's just an excuse he made to deceive others and deceive himself for his recklessness Your behavior at that time made him feel very shameless when he woke up... I'm afraid that you think he is taking advantage of you while he is drunk.

    So then he's going to know he's not trying to take advantage of you, and he's going to be the same as you were before, and you're going to feel guilty, and he's going to be better for him.

    I don't know if he knows, I don't know if he would make you feel guilty so much if he says this, if he has this purpose... But such people don't dare to admit their mistakes, and they look for results to cover up their gaffes... You should think about whether you should still trust him that much

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Men are hypocritical, he just makes excuses for himself, do you really think that there is just a pure relationship between men and women? Maybe he's just trying to make an excuse for himself to take advantage of you, 'Don't trust a man to give you brother or family-like care, that's an excuse to get close to you.'

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Why is it so hard for you to chase girls!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's not easy to really like someone, but it's not easy to make a sincere person like yourself. I'm a girl, so I'll summarize how the girls around me choose their boyfriends. It's good for boys to be nice to themselves.,But if you're too eager or too obvious, girls will be very unconcerned.,Because the more you care about girls.,The more girls don't have a good feeling.。。。

    On the contrary, there will be a good feeling.,In fact, most girls are the easier it is to get, the less they cherish it.,You try to let go a little bit.,Don't care about her very deliberately.,But it's not what it means to let go of her.。。 (What kind of girl does this score!) This should belong to the girl who is often chased, I feel like the girl you like is like that) It's a good thing that you're good to her, it proves that you like her very much!

    But don't force it, it is appropriate to "disappear", that is, to stay away from the girl appropriately, send less information...

    I don't know what type of boy you are, but I'll tell you the truth! A little sister in our class is very beautiful, many boys chase her, and one of the boys is also chasing her, but this girl is as indifferent to him as she is to others This boy has a better way, and guess what? First tried to be friends with her.,And then the girl seems to pay a little attention to him (mainly the boy is really good) and then the boy doesn't pay much attention to the girl for a while Haha,That's how the girl began to want to pay a little attention to him.,Anyway, I took the initiative to talk to him.,Later, the girl liked him.。。。

    I hit it all myself.,I'm tired.。。。

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Girls are very reserved. Since there is no explicit refusal, you indicate that there is hope.

    Don't worry, at this time, you should slow down the pace of pursuit and do something slightly better than the average friend. But don't be too frivolous, lest she be offended.

    After a while, when she is less vigilant, she will pick up the pace. If you still don't agree, then slow down again. And so repeatedly, you will succeed!

    In a way, this is also a test of one's perseverance. If you can't persevere, or are too anxious, it's no fun. When she rejects you strongly, you won't have a chance.

    What I said may not be of much help, but I hope you can refer to it!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Perhaps, you will find it difficult to chase girls?

    No! It's just because you don't know the rules.

    The Theory of Attraction Scores

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If a girl is also interested in that boy, then it is not difficult to chase If you don't feel anything, of course the boy finds it difficult to chase Maybe she doesn't want to accept a boy who is younger than her I think she is very strong Of course I want to find someone stronger than herself to protect and take care of herself, so change yourself first Don't be a fool Otherwise, I guess you will never be able to chase.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Why do you say that, it only means that you haven't found a way to chase girls, and it also means that you don't have enough observation of a person. If, a person with enough experience, he will have his method to succeed in three days. If a person is not experienced enough, he will carefully observe all her actions.

    Because as long as you have the heart, you can exchange for success. Don't say it's hard here, just observe everything about her. You will definitely impress her, the girl's heart is well occupied!!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I've always believed in the truth that anything is not difficult if it's done in the right way.

    I've been bothering about chasing girls lately, and I've failed several times, so I'm thinking about what my problem is, **, and the wrong way.

    I like to read more, so I found a book on the Internet called "The Theory of Attraction Fractions". After reading it, it is indeed much easier to chase girls according to the methods inside, and it is also very effective.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you want to capture the old and even if you know that you are not a brother, this trick is super effective.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You're going to have to dress up as the type she likes. And don't bother her all the time. She'll get tired of you that way.

    You have to care for her. But don't ask about the nice-to-haves. She doesn't like you like to be like a child.

    You have to be a little more mature. Something happened to her, or she was bullied by someone else. You're going to be the first to come out and help her.

    You should try to meet her whatever she needs.

    That's pretty much it. - Let's experience it for yourself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'm not here to divide up, because I'm here to pour cold water on you, I've been in the same situation as you for a while, and I'm so attentive to people all day long that I can't do it, and finally I got a girl's sentence, I want you to take care of it! It's really annoying.,In the end, I caught up with a not very good table.,I can't figure it out.,Then I thought about it.,Love this thing.,Most of the girls who chase their own big ones are doomed to fail.。 Obviously, your girl said that she didn't want to fall in love for half a year is a pretext, saying that you are a little small, it seems that you are indeed acting like this, so let's chase it!

    Sincere chase! But if you really can't let it go, if you want to find a good girl, a beautiful girl is also very simple, and strive to improve your ability, once the people around you mention that you feel wow, this person is really not simple, amazing! If you have money and ability, are you still afraid that you won't be able to chase a good girl?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is a good saying, love is not chasing, if she also has feelings for you, and you do this, she will definitely agree, but according to your current situation, she doesn't like you at all.

    In this situation where she doesn't like you, the better you treat her, the less she cares about you. I suggest you don't take her too much as the focus of your life, since you want to learn your skills, then study hard, if your own ability has improved, you will naturally attract the attention of others, and then she will naturally find the shining point in you, and she will naturally like you, don't blindly embarrass yourself to accommodate her... Two people are together because there is something about each other that they appreciate.

    Wishing you happiness ... Hehe.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Are you together?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This can't be compared to other aspects of filial piety, just like when you were a child, your mother must have cared for you in other ways, but because of impatience, you were still hurt.

    Now you actually know it in your heart, but maybe there is a subconscious psychological suggestion, so you can't control yourself, or rather, you feel that you can't control yourself.

    In fact, self-control ability is not just shown in one thing, it can be seen in all aspects, everyone's self-control ability is different, if you are in other aspects (not just referring to the patience of people) is also difficult to self-control, then you have to start from this aspect as a whole, if you only can't control this one thing, then there may still be some reasons for the psychological shadow of childhood.

    But no matter which one it is, it's not a serious problem, because of the generation gap, so impatience with parents is a common problem among young people, and many people regret it, you are not the only one. If you want to solve this problem, you can add a mandatory process to yourself, such as forcing yourself to count 10 times before you talk to your mother every time, the habit is not easy to form, but you can tell yourself: this is the same as washing your hands after going to the toilet, it is mandatory, this can allow you to shift your attention to counting, and remind yourself that you have regretted not being able to speak, and give yourself a chance to calm down.

    If this lasts for about half a year (depending on your personal situation), I think your impatience can be alleviated to a certain extent.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    As the saying goes: when mistakes are not made again, it is sincere repentance.

    You now recognize that you have a bad attitude towards your mother and you want to correct it. This is the manifestation of maturity, this is the beginning of your filial piety, so....Attitude is everything, your current thoughts will definitely prompt you to continue to improve, please believe!

    I'm very similar to you, always arguing and arguing with my family, and I understand you very well.

    If you think about it, it's because we can't stand their accusations and suspicions, and our nagging will be understood as control and restraint, so we argue and struggle.

    Think about the reason, that is, we care too much about our parents, so we are very sensitive to their perception of ourselves, and often point out our shortcomings, and we will reflexively refute in order to establish a "good image" in their hearts...

    In this way, there will be a lot of arguments, because we care about each other and strive for the other party to understand us, so...Stick to their respective positions, and the quarrel begins....

    On the other hand, there is nothing wrong with arguing moderately, we are all ordinary people, whining and relieving stress are not too much to suppress ourselves...

    I wish you mother and daughter harmony and good health!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You're already adjusting, take your time, don't blame yourself too much, generally speaking, parents are always massive in their children.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Hello, in fact, you yourself have found that it has something to do with the way your mother treated you when you were a child, and you have been such a character and way of getting along since you were a child, your mother should understand you, now you have grown up and matured, and it is better to understand these truths, as long as you are filial to your mother, sometimes your mother should not blame you for your bad temper!

    I have also felt like you, but now that we are far away, when we go home again, we are very warm and kind, and the distance produces beauty; Sometimes we are separated for a period of time and try to get along to see if it will ease a little

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Whether it is a painstaking search or a chance encounter on the way, those beautiful people and things must be cherished, don't expect the next stop to have the same scenery, what you miss may be indefinite. It's an excuse to have no part, just because we haven't worked hard enough; Defeat is also a kind of consolation in the sky, as long as there is no complaint and no regrets, even if you are defeated, you will not give up. Put down the tears, turned around and didn't look back, buried the pain in the bottom of my heart, and let the past blow in the wind.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It works well to buy some Chinese patent medicine for her to drink.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    What you have to do now is take her to the hospital.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hehe, you're the opposite of me, I'm the same character as your girlfriend, and today I made her angry again, and I'm still thinking about how to coax her, you're good, your girlfriend loves you so much, but you don't know how to cherish, there is a good saying, you only know to cherish when you lose, and you have to love her well when you meet such a good girl.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Your girlfriend is a very dependent person, at least for now, if you always don't give her what she wants, don't give her enough care, and she will naturally leave you. It was her survival instinct.

    Just think of it as an experienced experience, and care about your girlfriend's point of view in the future. It is these little happiness that women want.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Keep her, stick to her like she sticks to you, ask her what she is doing every day, once every 10 minutes, ask her if she has eaten, whether she is tired, whether she misses you, call her wife, if you ask what you are doing, just say it's okay, miss her.

    If you can't do it and feel ashamed, then you don't love her at all, let her go.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Cherish it, don't regret it when you want to lose.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Love you so much! Stick to her and chase her back.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Try your best to redeem it! Born in the midst of blessings, you don't know blessings!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You buy a new phone, and you hurry to buy it a set. You're worried about it scratching, you're worried about it breaking. Until one day it's gone, you realize that all you want is to be by your side.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you continue to love, then go and chase it back, maybe she is also expecting you to find her.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    People are like this, they only know how to cherish when they lose!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I lost it to know that it was too late to cherish it.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you know your mistakes, you can still accept them.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Don't go, divide it, don't do anything to keep it, it's useless.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    When you break up, let's find your own happiness! Don't care if he loves anyone or not.

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