What a girl s life should look like

I have to create my own life.

The meaning is that the liquid is slow, I don't have to envy others, I myself live a very good life.

What I want, I can get through my own efforts, and when I get it, I feel a sense of accomplishment.

First of all, life never pities because you are a girl, in the face of reality, everything is equal, so girls have to work hard for themselves, this is the meaning.

The first is why a girl should work hard.

Working hard to make money, not because I love money so much. It's that in this life, I don't want to be with anyone because of money, and I don't want to leave anyone because of money. If you ask me what I choose for love and bread, he will say, "You can give me love, and I can buy bread myself."

There are only two consequences for a woman who doesn't work hard, an endless vegetable market and an endless street stall. Strive to be a white rich beauty on your own. If you don't work hard, the wedding dresses you wear when you get married in the future are rented.

The purpose of my efforts is to make my mother buy things for herself as simply as she buys things for me.

Secondly, I am serious and work hard, so that one day when I stand by the side of the person I love, whether he is rich or nothing, I can open my hand and embrace him calmly. I don't have to think that he is rich, and we will not be depressed when we are poor.

The speed of growth must exceed the speed of aging of parents, and when parents are old, they can support the family and let them enjoy their old age. Don't live up to the hardships you have endured, make yourself better, become your true self, and live the life you want to live. You owe yourself a happy look.

Ponder the two lives of two types of women.

One is the women who sit in the sun after eating in the countryside and eat melon seeds in groups. They get up early in the morning to make breakfast, prepare their husbands and go out to work, and their children go to school.

In groups of three or five in the sun, they talked and laughed. Although they are the owners of the family and the west are short and gossip, they can hear from their giggles that people's lives are comfortable.

These women worked in the fields, taught each other husband and children, organized the housework, and worked around the stove and children all their lives. And most of them who are virtuous are happy in their old age. Sometimes when I face such a kind of life, such a life, I suddenly have a feeling of envy.

In a way, they are carefree. They are also called lucky generals.

The life of another type of woman is the life of the hostess I saw at Otsukiji Temple. It is said that she came from. He came here in his 40s and died at the age of 99.

It has been held in this old temple in the mountains for more than 50 years. Although the mountains and rivers here are beautiful, they stay in this remote and lonely place day after day, year after year. From the time the sun rose to the time when he returned to the wilderness at night, he spent most of his time alone.

You can imagine what kind of feelings and perseverance it must have been to live in this place for more than 50 years. Moreover, she also has children of her own. After his death two years earlier, his two daughters took over the mantle of their mother's hand and took turns presiding over the monastery.

The persistence of generation after generation, the inheritance from generation to generation. There must be a belief in their hearts that we cannot understand and cannot do. When they finish their lives, there is more of a sense of pride and honor in their hearts.

Moreover, no matter what kind of life the person concerned feels, the life is worth it.

A woman's life is a great life;

1. Without experiencing October pregnancy and giving birth to a new life, you will not be able to appreciate the contribution that women have made to this society;

2. After giving birth to children, if the family conditions are okay, they have to take care of the children every day, who takes care of them knows the pain of taking care of the children, but they are bitter and happy; Bitter because there will be all kinds of things with children, and the happy thing is that this is the growth of the life that I conceived day by day;

3. How many housework are done by the old men? It's easy to see, and I insist on doing it every day;

4. If the family conditions are not good, you have to go out to work to support your family;

5. Women have to live with their mother-in-law after marriage, from the daughter of the family to their daughter-in-law, and there is the difference in the thinking of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which leads to constant contradictions, on the one hand, the beloved husband and children, and on the other hand, the husband's mother; I don't know how much the women have suffered;

6. So I propose: we must love every woman; Love your wife; Honoring and treating one's mother with kindness; Let the women around us live happily and happily!

What your life is like depends on what kind of person you want to be, and whether you put in the effort for it.

<> "How Do Ordinary Girls Master Life?

How do ordinary girls control their lives, and it's clear that life is good.

But I can't always lift my energy.

That's because you don't have a sense of control over your life.

Take control of your life, starting with "managing your attention". Don't think about other people's business until you're successful. Others don't need you to save them, and what you need to save is only yourself.

The most precious thing for everyone is their own attention and their own time, this world is for ordinary people, the only fair thing is time, you have to spend your precious time only thinking about things related to your future and the end, and other things have nothing to do with you.

One is its own business.

The second is someone else's business.

The third is God's business.

Today's troubles come from:

Forget your own business and love to meddle in the business of others.

Worry about God.

It's easy to be happy today:

Do your own thing.

Don't care about other people's business, don't think about God's business.

Change your attitude towards time. Renting Sun Oak improves our awareness and management of time. Things that have nothing to do with yourself, watch more seconds and stay for a second more, all waves are life-consuming, and the only thing that can make you more and more good is to invest in yourself, invest in your appearance, invest in your health, and invest in your own brain.

It is possible to surpass others by making yourself a little stronger every day than yesterday. Don't care what people say about you or what they think of you. If you care about other people's eyes today, tomorrow you will lose in other people's mouths.

You should spend all the time and energy you have on worrying about yourself and investing in yourself.

Every day, I ask myself what I am doing today. This is to establish a strong sense of purpose, life is to set a goal, to accomplish it, and then set a goal, to chase it down and decompose it into practice every day. Life is for achieving goals, being in control of your goals, being in control of your life.

Don't be a person who knows the world well, but is at a loss for himself.