Seek answers to social problems at school and at work in the future.

You are a thoughtful girl who knows how to reflect and be motivated, in fact, you can think slowly, the most important thing is to do the facts, let others find your good when it is appropriate, be a serious person and be honest and honest, smart people have the ability to discern, don't try to be quick and impatient, these are not good for long-term work and interpersonal relationships, you can't let everyone appreciate it, you really have the talent to work seriously and moderately show will be appreciated by the boss, don't be pessimistic and rushed, it will naturally be revealed after a long time, flattery is just for people who are not wise enough to accept, The boss you are chasing for the contribution is not a vulgar womanizer, so don't care about the estrangement of a person for a while, only the real ability is the long-term superior foundation, treat people sincerely and tolerate to show your enthusiasm and kindness, please the nihilistic language is very disgusted with the wise leader, but maybe the leader understands and tolerates him not to blame him, some lustful men, women eyebrows and eyes naturally come to mind, if you want to take this test, you can directly do the junior to make money, with the ability to work has nothing to do, don't be nervous, gold will always shineDon't be in a hurry, if you look at personnel and slowly have a sense of it, you must be able to calm down, be calm, confident, and motivated, and don't worry about ordinary people.

College is a good period to exercise yourself, you can participate in more activities, not for profit but for more exercise, so that your psychological quality and comprehensive ability to exercise and improve, the university will learn science things will be very miscellaneous, your major to learn well is one thing, because this is your future job, but other things can not be bad, such as English level four or six, computer certificates, etc., other awards and certificates depend on yourself, in short, take more This is beneficial, It is also very favorable evidence for you to find a job. Choosing a good major is also crucial!

I think there are two kinds of college socialization, one is effective socialization and the other is ineffective socialization. Effective socialization is necessary, after all, it is still very necessary to make some high-quality friends, but ineffective socialization is not necessary, not only wastes time, but also delays yourself.

When you go to university, you will inevitably have to deal with people, no one is an island, and everyone will inevitably have to communicate with people. Socializing effectively allows us to meet some wonderful people who can help us become a better version of ourselves. Being around good people will invisibly have a good impact on us and make us great.

Whether it is study or life, we must be with excellent people, as the so-called "close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black".

And ineffective socialization is not necessary. In college, I can always see many people going back and forth for dinner in club activities every day, feeling that they are busy and have an indispensable position, and there are always people who follow them every day to cater to their roommates, and eat chicken with them, just to fit in. And I want to say that this kind of ineffective social interaction is not advisable, you think you have a lot of friends, but after graduation, you live separately, and the so-called friendship disappears with the wind.

In the past, in order to be gregarious, I had ineffective socialization, and I had dinner with the people in the club every day, which not only cost money, but also didn't learn anything. Later, I gave up this kind of socializing, I began to refuse too many dinners, soaked in the library alone every day, and insisted on running and exercising, in the process, I not only learned a lot of knowledge, but also met a lot of excellent people. Ineffective socialization will only make you sink deeper and deeper, so it is better to study hard and spend more time investing in yourself.

Audrey Hepburn once said, "Of course I won't try to pick the moon, I want the moon to come to me." Only when you are valuable, others will take the initiative to approach you, all relationships in the world are equivalent exchanges, if you have no value to others, why ask others to take the initiative to know you. Only when you really become good will you have a steady stream of talents around you.

I always like to tell myself that everything will fail you, but hard work will not. So, ah, refuse ineffective socializing.

Hello, glad to ask you for an answer:

First of all, you need to give yourself a positioning, what kind of person are you going to become? What industry and type of work do you want to do in the future? Of course, this can be a long-term, or a short-to-medium term.

Secondly, when you have decided on the above two questions, then you should have a goal and a direction, so will you still hesitate and hesitate?

For example, if your positioning and future planning is a technical position or other jobs that do not require social interaction, then it is good to leave now and find a job in your own plan. On the other hand, if you position yourself as a management position or start your own business and need to socialize, then what you have to do is to change yourself, break through yourself, and let yourself go and adapt to this job, because you can't do well in this job that everyone says is good and you say it's good, so even if you change to other jobs, you will face the same problem!

Change is painful, but without change and improvement again and again, how can you grow and improve yourself. Don't cling too much to your own unnecessary and so-called principles, in fact, after you change, you will look back and feel how naïve you and some of your own ideas and ideas were.

Finally, for example, I can understand your current state and mentality, because I am also the same, I rarely communicate with people around me during college, and I don't like social activities, but the first job I chose after graduation was sales, and it was the kind of person who ran to the market every day to meet customers, and it took 2 ......years to do it

Introverts are not suitable for sales.

It's awkward and unhappy to do it by yourself.

Let's change industries early.

Doing this work can bring you happiness, make you interested, have a sense of accomplishment, and accept it physically and mentally. You just do it, otherwise you don't have to do it, change jobs.