The second year of junior high school does not want to focus all on the emotional side

If you don't want to divide it, you can drag it out, but I advise you to divide it, since you don't love it, there is no need to entangle it anymore, or you drink her to talk, say that you want to study hard now, ask her whether to divide or work together, and tell you a very realistic thing, you are still together after the high school entrance examination, but what happens in high school is unpredictable, it is better to get together and disperse now. You are still young now, and you still think very little, just see the benefits in front of you, in fact, are you sure that you are in love with her? Or is it a better friendship or something else?

That's what men should do, when you get into a good high school, there will be new girls, when you have a good future, there will be a lot of women to cater to you, and you can keep playing and changing until you find true love.

Discuss with her, you are now in the period of youth and ignorance, and you have just begun to have a good impression of the opposite sex, and you can't even say that you like it, and no one knows what it will be like in the future! Maintain it as much as you can, and go as far as you can!

Are you in the same class? If yes, you can help each other to study in the third year of junior high school, be admitted to high school, and continue if you want to score points. In the third year of junior high school, you must study hard, otherwise you will not be a top student.

I've been in love for so long! Hehe, there are a lot of troubles in love, so let's focus on studying in junior high school! I advise you to divide it up, don't dwell on it. You're not happy at either.

If you really like it, it will be the same after a few years.

Make a promise with her and work together for a better future.

can't be so absolute that they don't focus on feelings, there are still a small number of people who are very interested in feelings, but I think most of them should focus on eating, drinking and having fun in addition to feelings, and there are their so-called buddies, I can't figure out why they put their energy on these things, not on lovers, maybe they are born so unaffected by feelings.

Because as you grow up, the pressure that life gives you slowly falls on your shoulders, a person who constantly asks for the opposite sex who doesn't know how to give, can no longer meet your needs at this stage, you need better people to move forward hand in hand, not so much that you are tired of feelings, but rather that you desire a new, better and more comprehensive relationship, not just love, bread will also have.

Because you feel very bored, there is no return for paying, and the psychological pressure is too great, at least the work and study are rewarded.

Because he has had emotional setbacks, he is very pessimistic and disappointed, and he is unwilling to put his energy into his relationship and affect his work, so he puts all his energy on work

Well, it's a good idea, I don't think it's necessary to focus on feelings, if you haven't met someone you like, then there's nothing wrong with trying to manage yourself, and a woman's marriageable period is not long, so try it if you have the right one.

Don't give up, you're too kind! Too easy to trust others. To say such a thing is to make you take the initiative to break up with him.

Do you think that if you really love someone, you will give up because you can't get married for a while? If you have self-knowledge, don't say anything, this kind of person is a hypocrite at all, just ignore him. It's so stupid to break up with you and say I love you and it's good for you!

Younger sister! You may feel uncomfortable when I say that, but you have to know what he means! Good luck, little girl!

His meaning is very clear, he doesn't love you, women are always fools.

If you believe that a man truly loves you, he will definitely want to marry you and will want to marry you.

It is recommended that you give up, find yourself, and live well. Maybe he'll find out about you in the end.

In my opinion, your boyfriend is not responsible at all, he doesn't pay attention to you at all, now you have feelings, and the long-term relationship becomes family affection, and the current relationship can't last long, the man will wait until he wants to get married, then he can get married, but what about women? How long will it take? If you wait so stupidly, when?

Meet more friends and scatter your energy, there will definitely be people who are good to you, the person you love and the person who loves you are married, marriage is not child's play, that is the happiness of your life, you must find a responsible person to marry, don't die for a tree, give up the whole forest, often say: falling in love with a person is very fast, but forgetting a person takes a long time, you can try to talk about forgetting him, marriage means that you live with him for a lifetime, give birth to children for him, and take care of the elderly, so think carefully,

Because he doesn't want to marry you, he doesn't like you, so to be tactful, he thinks that sooner or later he will meet someone he likes, but now he has to date you, so that if he can't find it, he can still have a spare tire.

The second floor speaks from the heart.

If a man really loves you.

Can he say that to you?

I'll be honest because that's what I did. Looking for you just hasn't had a better woman yet. There is a dump on you immediately. I didn't even want to marry you.

Since he said such a thing, it means that he unilaterally decided to separate from you. Men's feelings are not like girls, they will not always indulge in the past, and if they change, they will change! I don't think you should even think about why, because there may be no answer, and it will make you sad if you do.

Or think about how to cheer up, after all, there are still many good men.

When a man says he doesn't want to get married, he doesn't really want to get married, he just doesn't want to marry you. So don't wait until he has someone else to understand.

Break up early, a man talks to his own woman like this, which can only mean one thing, he doesn't have you in his heart. If you really wait for the day when he has a successful career. That's also the day he broke up with you.

Women have to learn to love themselves.

It means that he doesn't care about you, so find a new one.

Let's change people, he said this entirely because he didn't want to be with you. Otherwise he wouldn't have said that.

Now most people think this way, men think this way, women think this way. The main thing is that there is too much social pressure.

You may feel that it is good to live alone, and you don't need to have other people.

There is less impulse of youth, and more reality of today's society.

In fact, whether you are in love or getting married, it all depends on fate.

It may be that your fate has not yet come, or that you have not met the girl who really makes your heart flutter.

Because being single is addictive, after being alone for a long time, you will slowly get used to living alone. I am too lazy to fall in love, I become picky about love, I value my friends, and I love my parents and relatives more. And I divided all my time to work to make money, cultivate hobbies, get used to a person's unrestrainedness, and just think about the opposite sex that interests me, and finally it's gone.

Matured, grown, understood!

Maybe it's because you're used to living alone!

Probably a very practical person.

I don't want to love you with sweet words, but use real material efforts to make you feel more secure and fulfilled.

Either way, as long as he's giving.

In the eyes of parents and teachers, as long as two children of the opposite sex have a close relationship, it is puppy love, and they don't care whether you are complex or pure love.

As for ourselves, we need to distinguish what is possessive, what is liking, and what is love. Possessiveness means that you must take possession by all means. If you like it, it's very simple, just two people can be happy together.

Love is the sublimation of liking, even if you are in pain, you don't forget to pay for each other, even if you don't forget to bear the burden for each other.

If you don't want to give parents and teachers an excuse, you can often organize more people to study or do activities together, so that you can see each other as well. lest he be reprimanded.

If you're really in love, you shouldn't be stopped by external reasons!

Puppy love does not affect learning at all! As a post-90s generation (me too) your relationship with her is far more important than your father's opinion! You can't get back from breaking up with her! But what can your dad do?

I want to say: keep in love!

Oh, worthy of being a junior high school student, in fact, junior high school students' early love is not much of a problem, relatively pure, but your idea may not be realized, you have to remember that you can't have both, do study well, and fall in love well, such a person is indeed a genius, but there are too few such geniuses, and many such geniuses are also mediocre because of other things, fortunately, you don't think too much, you don't have the conditions to fall in love, you must know that after piercing that piece of paper, you will become another person, When you taste the pain of love, what you regret is not only that you wasted your youth, but also that you can no longer return to the confident and energetic you used to be, I hope you can experience it.

Although it is okay in this way, as long as you are study-oriented and social, you will be discovered by your parents, this problem, I think it is best to score, but you have to explain the reason, not that you don't love, you divide first, slow down for the time being, continue to work learning, and wait until you graduate, or just tell your father directly, you and her are normal interactions, it will not affect learning, and you can learn from each other, and you will never do anything out of the ordinary, rest assured.

Well......I'm in a similar situation to you, I'm 14 years old, a girl, the third year of junior high school, the second year of junior high school and a very good boy in the next class fell in love, we really love each other, but it didn't take long for my dad to find out, I had to break up with him, I don't know how many times I cried behind my back in those days, but it's good, now the two of us are very normal friends of the opposite sex, we often discuss and study together, and compare grades together (both of our grades are very good, Ranked in the top 50 in his grade) He also proposed to compound many times, but I rejected them, and I have now focused all my energy on my studies and don't think much about anything else, which is good, at least I think so.

As for what you said about a love that focuses on studying, I don't think it's really necessary, it really takes a lot of energy and time to fall in love, you said that it is impossible for both of you to focus on studying, I have personally experienced it, during my relationship, I fell from the top three in the class to the fifteenth, and the 12th in the grade fell to 55, which is really the best evidence, take a step back, if you really do the main focus on studying, then I believe that in the near future, Your relationship will fade and eventually turn into friendship, which will hurt the hearts of two people and take a lot of time, so why bother? Saying so much just wants you to think about it more, this kind of thing is not a joke in love, think about it seriously, and hope to evaluate the best oh ( o haha

That's good.

Both sides are doing well, and as long as there is no sign of regression, your idea is good.

If you really love her, and you really complement each other in your studies, you can stay close friends and get along with each other. When the time comes, let's put it together.

If the person you like likes to come with you when you're going to tutor, you're on the right track.

If the person you like asks you to play with them while you're tutoring, you might as well break up.

In the case of not affecting the grades, this bit of youth is nothing, and if it affects the grades, it must be properly handled.

You can both aim to get into the same ideal university and study hard without having to break up. Actually, your dad is also very open-minded.,If my parents find out that I have this kind of thing.,I won't live.、、、 since you're both good at studying.,Then work hard.。。 I wish you all the best in getting into the university of your dreams.

You can force yourself, and so do I, as long as you keep forcing yourself to 'do well in your studies to be together', and I use this too, I believe this should be a good way.

And you should also moderate your behavior, so that you can maintain good grades, what can your parents say...

This must be a kind of autosuggestion

The feeling of parents is that they are afraid of delaying their studies, and you mainly want to study, so that he can rest assured and prove that he will not delay his studies even if he is in love. Also, if your parents are open-minded, communicate with them. The best way to do this is through communication.

I think early love is not good, now it is important to study, since you and her love each other very much, I still suggest that you put early love in your spare time, so as not to affect your studies.

Absolutely, in fact, as long as your grades are good enough, even if the teacher knows, he will only reprimand you. That's how my brother came along

Social Influence Middle School Students Are Curious About the Opposite Sex Everyone is the Same Now the atmosphere is not early love, which is curiosity about the opposite sex, and generally does not have much impact on learning Small.

Early love is just the only way to fall in love, it's not necessarily bad, it's just emotional sustenance.

It's good, let it be, there's still a long way to go.

That's mainly what the two of you think, learning is a must. The main relationship is up to you.

You have the right idea that if you love someone, you have to take pictures of their future.