It s been five years since we broke up, and do I still love him?

Do you know?

Love is like that. You've loved her dearly before.

Now people are called forgetting. It's just a process of getting used to having her and getting used to not her, and when you get used to not her, you have successfully forgotten her.

Don't run away from the process of forgetting, it will make you more profound.

Time can help you dilute everything. It can help you get used to it. But time can't help you erase her memories in your heart. Her memories in your heart are just buried in the bottom of your heart.

She has taken root in your heart. When you see her again. Or something from her past. Wait a minute. The memories she buried in your heart will come from you. The heart welled up again.

That's what love is all about. Things have to be faced.

This type of person should be between a lover and a friend.

The kind of emotion between you and him, the kind of friendship that is beyond the ordinary, and which cannot be simply classified as love, can only be between friendship and love, and maybe you will override friendship and love.

He may have patted you on the back because you were sad and sad, he may have held your hand because you were afraid of the dark, he may have hugged you into his arms and comforted you because you were confused and cried, but that's all. His heart is always open to you, his shoulders are always ready for you to rely on, but you only have his face engraved on your heart.

Although, he will not be by your side forever, although you have not asked him to do anything for you, you hope that he will live a good life, live a happy and healthy life, because you know that he also wants you to live well, and he also hopes that you can take good care of yourself, even if it is thousands of rivers and mountains. If you meet again, he wants you to tell him that you are happy!

In this complex society, in this helpless life, there is such a person, when you accidentally fall, as long as you look up, you can see love, when you are tired, as long as you turn around, you can find support; There is such an emotion that will give you comfort when you are hurt, and save your soul when you are desperate, what more can you want?

Such a person, such an emotion, make your wandering heart soft and fragile, let the tormented heart have a warm corner, and let you enjoy a lifetime of attachment and companionship, a lifetime of tolerance and giving, with the thoughts and memories of this life, the persistence and sustenance of the next life!

Ay. There are very few people who are suitable for themselves before marriage.

After getting married, there are many people who find that they are suitable for themselves.

It's the psychology of "if you can't get it, it's the best" that is at work.

Don't think about it, because that's not your life.

Love is very beautiful, because it adds infinite fun to our lives, love in life is mutual, care and pampering are also mutual, many people especially enjoy the appearance of two people who love each other together, love is like tea, can not be overnight, and marriage is like wine, the older the more fragrant, but some people are not good, this bottle of wine causes the wine to leak, and finally there is only a jar of bitter water. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and I feel that he doesn't love me as much as before, should I break up? I feel that the other party does not love myself as much as before, it may be that the relationship has weakened, not because the other party does not love me anymore, at this time, there are many ways to enhance the relationship between two people, if you choose to break up, maybe both people will be very painful.

One. Every relationship has a lull period.

In the relationship, the most lonely and lonely thing is the flat period, because at this time, both people are calmer and no longer stay together every day like in the hot love period. The time for chatting and being together is also slowly shortening, when going through a dull period, we should not give up our feelings, two people can enhance each other's sweetness in various ways, so that two people can find the feeling of being together, if you choose to break up at this moment, then you will let yourself fall into a painful situation, so it is just torturing each other. <>

Two. Don't give up your love because of your suspicions.

In love, many people are easily insecure, so they are always suspicious of their object, if the other party no longer loves themselves as much as before, they may have fantasized countless results in their hearts, instead of guessing like this, it is better to open their hearts with each other, so that the other party knows their inner feelings. A truly long-lasting love requires empathy, the other party can understand themselves, and they will slowly increase the distance between each other. <>

The above is just a personal opinion, so do you think you choose to break up in such a situation?

Should. Life without love is very painful, he doesn't love you anymore, it means that he doesn't love you even more in the future, the two of you get married is just a matter of time, and the life after marriage is very boring.

You should definitely break up, because he doesn't love you anymore, so you have to break up, otherwise, you will regret it after you get married.

They should break up, because two people have no feelings anymore, and if they are together, there is a high chance that there will be conflicts, and they may not be happy in the future.

Emotional problems are the most painful problems. A friend of mine is experiencing such a problem. The way to solve this problem is not to not think about it, but to accept that you are a person, and it is normal to think about a person.

Also, don't fantasize that person will turn back, only by giving up the illusion that he will turn back, can you live your life well. Don't be in a hurry, falling out of love is painful, and it is not normal if it is not painful. Accept and change yourself, and you will definitely get better!

The love is over, and you can think about it from time to time. Because that's your memory, it's just a part of your life, don't resist it. It will make you better.

A lover who can be lost is not a lover. The relationship between people is so delicate and complex, sometimes let it go with the wind if you miss it, you have to remember that time is the best way, don't worry about what you lose, and the lover you can lose is not a lover.

Thinking is thinking, passing is passing, the two have nothing to do with each other, why did the ancients say that women should not drift, and men should not mess around. People are emotional and talking animals, once they fall in love and use joy, whether good or bad, it is absolutely unforgettable, misty in the mind of the priority constantly flashing, lingering and annoying. Youqi is the first love friend of the first love of men and women, which is unforgettable.

When you think about it, you will feel painful. It can be nerve-wracking, sometimes fatal, and can even separate people.

Therefore, I advise you to try to look at things lightly, try to focus on work, on the next boyfriend, or on finding a better, future boyfriend, and divert the attention of missing. The past is still in the past, it must be a passer, there are countless platforms waiting for you to arrive in the future, and there may be many passers-by who will pass by you, and then you may slowly forget him and move it out of your mind. Only when you reach the terminal will you look down on everything.

Since her boyfriend is leaving mercilessly, why bother meditating. If you know that you won't come back, why hope for a reunion. Since there are a lot of them, there is no need to cry for him at night, it's not worth it.

Because he is ruthless, so you want to think more, logical reasoning is not valid, persuade the girl to die of this heart, and find a good friend again, there are so many men in the world, is he missing a ball?

It is important to accept this reality as soon as possible and start a new life without any illusions.

I think you should forget about him and start a new relationship, because it's been five or six years apart and it's not realistic to be together again.

The end of a relationship is because of an unhappy life, negative impressions, etc., so at this time you need to disconnect appropriately, improve yourself during the disconnection, and appear in front of him with a new image, and yours will have more chances of winning. In the process of reconnecting, you need to put your mindset right, knowing that after a breakup, you are only friends, not a couple. Maybe he won't be as good to you as he used to, or even cold to you, but this is normal, and accepting the fact of breaking up is not to shake up, but to better save his love.

You should learn to let go, learn to forget him, because he no longer belongs to you, after all, it has been 56 years since separation, and you don't know what has happened to him.

Summary. Dear, correct. First of all, if you have been in love for five years, then this relationship takes up 20% or even 30% of your time from the perspective of the length of your life, so this time span is very long, so even if you later break up for some reason, this relationship is kept in your heart in a different way.

Dear, correct. First of all, if you have been in love for five years, then this relationship takes up 20% or even 30% of your time from the perspective of the length of your life, so this time span is very long, so even if you later break up for some reason, this relationship is kept in your heart in a different way.

And then when you're vulnerable or when you see something symbolic, the memories of seeing things and thinking about people happen.

This is a normal situation, so do you still have any confusion about it?

<> "5 years of relationship that was suddenly broken up.

Recently, a friend encountered such an incident.

Each other's first love, from college to this year, we have known each other for 8 years, and we have been in love for 5 years.

Before them, one person was in Beijing and the other was in Nanjing. The woman felt that she knew each other well enough, and the woman quit her job in Nanjing for the sake of the man, went to Beijing to develop, and decided to end the long-distance state, and also felt that the two could enter the state of marriage.

But the boyfriend said that he had no expectations for marriage, and they didn't have CG for each other. The explanation given by the man is that he doesn't want to drag the woman anymore, and the woman is 29 years old.

In the previous relationship, most of the girls followed the topics of the boys.

The girl is now alone in the city where the boy is, and she feels abandoned by the world when she is alone. I can't go back to my parents, and it's hard to get along with others, and I feel like my heart has been hollowed out a lot, and it's hard to heal and slip.

First of all, the question of the relationship period.

I personally think that 2 to 3 years is enough for the love period, but if it is carried out for too long, it is an "unfinished building" project. Someone said before: Love is the cook cooking, the best out of the pot when the heat is just right, it is mushy after a long time, and the lack of heat is stiff and not easy to swallow.

Therefore, the ingredients are best boiled until 2-3 years out of the pot. The key to the taste of the dish depends on the freshness of the ingredients themselves (family background, parental relationship, economic status, etc.), which is very important. As for relatives Qing Qingwei and friends, these condiments and condiments are just ingredient references, and they must not be set aside too much, which is easy to cause the cart to be turned upside down.

Secondly, answer the question for this breakup.

has been together for a long time, and the breakup shows that the other party has also thought it through. It must be hard to just break up, it's a normal physiological reaction. During this time, you can go out to eat, drink and have fun a little more, divert your attention, and after a while, you yourself will feel that it is a good thing to break up.

Many people are about to get married, and they feel that there is no communication between the two of them, just to live together. Both sides felt painful. But at that time, when I got married and had children, my life would be over. So in this case, it is best to break up.