My boyfriend is going to break up with me over a little thing, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Actually, do you understand?

    If you love someone, you must love well when you can. Cherish him when he can't love. Defending your hand is all about having everything.

    Love is wonderful. Let go when it's time to let go.

    Love is tolerance. Trust. Can't tolerate this little thing.

    Life is like a chess game. But what we have is time. We can start again.

    You're like using him like a lifesaver now.

    Desperately clamouring. If you catch this grass. What about catching the last train.

    Then you will have a shadow later. It will be more difficult for you to get along in the future.

    Give it up. I know how you feel right now. Give up a person. It is very difficult to forget a person. It is impossible to completely forget a person.

    The so-called forget him. It is the process of emphasizing a habit with him to a habit without him.

    When you're used to not having him. Then you will have successfully forgotten him.

    To love him is to make him happy. Now that you can't give him happiness anymore.

    Then wish him happiness.

    I also wish you happiness. Happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He doesn't deserve to shed tears for him.

    He doesn't care enough about it, otherwise he wouldn't break up because of a trivial matter.

    There are many good men, let's not cry for this.

    If you continue, it will be even more sad. When the time comes, my heart will hurt even more, and it will hurt even more.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Divide with him, watch out for men.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since you put down your self-esteem and pleaded, if he still loves you, he won't be so vicious about you, divide it!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Narrow-minded or don't like you anymore.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What else does this kind of person want him to do? Are you as good as you and afraid you can't find a better one than him? If you really love him, find out if he is still like this! I advise you to break up with him....

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you are sure that he can change this bad habit after marriage, go ahead.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're a big man.

    I prefer to be self-centered. He hoped that his woman would be obedient to him. I hope you're a little woman.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Why can't I find a girlfriend like you?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It should be him who is sad, all you have lost is a stinky man who doesn't love you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why bother with such a man? I'd rather face a computer than be with you.

    Why do you have to look for him?

    Ask yourself if you're going to die without him.

    If you don't know how to cut through the mess quickly, such a person is not worthy of you at all.

    When it comes to selfishness, he's more selfish than you.

    And you feel that this person likes you, and really cares about you.

    Let this kind of person face you well and love you. You think it's possible.

    It's not that he breaks up with you for a small thing, it's a big thing for you, and you have to choose to give up on him. You get the idea.

    There's nothing wrong with you so that he can be with you in order to be with him.

    It's him who is wrong!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If your boyfriend wants to break up with you very resolutely, if you don't want to give up in this case, try to win him back seriously, and impress him with your sincerity and tenderness. Let's see if it can be redeemed, if it really doesn't work, then there is no way. I really couldn't do it, so I had to give him up.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If not, be bold to love, and if you get married, you will divorce first and fall in love.

    Then you explain to her!

    When I asked a question, I made it clear to him in person.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If your boyfriend is determined to break up with you, it means that the relationship between the two of you has completely broken down, your boyfriend no longer likes you, no longer loves you, and wants to separate from you as soon as possible.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The boyfriend is determined to break up with you, in this case, she must not love you, she has already decided, made up her mind, and broke up with you, you don't insist anymore, let go when it's time to let go, and find someone who loves you again to be happy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should still try to get your boyfriend back, if your boyfriend still wants to break up with you, then you can only break up with your boyfriend, because your boyfriend no longer has this kind of affection for you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If your boyfriend is determined to break up with you, it means that the relationship between you has completely broken down, he doesn't want to continue to entangle with you, if he has a trace of thought, he can't resolutely want to break up with you, if the man has no love for you, the fate between you is over, you have to let go, don't continue to entangle.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your boyfriend is very determined to break up with you, it means that he has already thought about it and has made such a plan, so I don't think you should redeem it at this time, because there is no big chance.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think if he wants to break up with you resolutely, you should also accept your fate, because you can't change a person's mind, then you have to let go, and it's a person's business, not two people's business.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The boyfriend is determined to break up, then divide it, you can't be together if you don't divide it, it's better to break it up, and there will be no result if you continue to entangle.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Your boyfriend is determined to break up with you, it must be because of what caused him to behave like this, first ask why he broke up, and then see if there is a way to solve it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Sister, first of all, you have to understand one thing, what is your love for this boy? Sometimes we girls may be used to loving someone, causing us to feel that we can't do without him, in fact, you can take a few days to feel it, if you don't have him, in fact, you can live a good life and improve yourself better.

    Secondly, we have to figure out why he insisted on breaking up with you. Because he did something wrong on his side, or did you do something wrong on his side, or when everyone was not at fault, there was just a crack in the relationship, and even came to the end of the relationship.

    For this kind of thing, resolutely break up, our attitude should be rational, you can talk to the little sisters, chat, go out to play, don't care about this, how much pain it brings you, if he really doesn't love you anymore, you don't need to waste your time with such a person who doesn't love you You can talk to the little sisters, chat, go out and play, don't care about this, how much pain it brings you, if he really doesn't love you anymore, You don't have to waste your time with someone who doesn't love you, if he loves you very much, he loves you very much, and he decides to break up with you, you have to figure out what kind of obstacles exist between you, and then you both work together to solve the problem.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If the boyfriend's attitude is very firm, then you will have to break up, the twisted melon is not sweet, and you will meet a better one. Ay!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you still want to be with each other, don't pay attention to each other for a short time, and the two of you calm down with each other and think about some things, so that the other party may think about a lot of things after a while, and you won't be so impulsive.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Look at the pros and cons of these things. Tell yourself that you are not suitable. Divide is divided, and forget all the past. Then live like a queen and be even more proud. At that point, it must not be you who will regret it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If Sister Juan wants to break up, you should do the other way around in this situation, if you want to propose to break up with him, he will be afraid, you have to grasp the initiative to break up, you know?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Introduction: Sometimes some boyfriends seem to behave very strangely, they don't fall in love well when they are in love, but they always break up with each other when they have nothing to do. What should you do when you encounter such a situation?

    In fact, it seems that if the boyfriend always mentions breaking up with something, then it proves that the boyfriend is a problem. Because in the process of a relationship, if the practice of the piano enters a better stage, at this time most people hope that the relationship can become more and more stable, and they are afraid that the other party will leave them at this time, at this time there is a special sense of cherishing the relationship, if the boyfriend does not show that sense of cherishment and love at this time, but always mentions breaking up, such a boyfriend has no problem, so what kind of boyfriend can have a problem? So I feel that if I can't stand it anymore, and at the same time I have some confusion, then I will treat others in the same way, and I will try to break up to see what my boyfriend's intentions are.

    In fact, love is originally a relationship that is recognized by both parties, and if one of the parties does not approve at this time, then it is time to break up。There is nothing to save, after all, not every relationship is beautiful, and sometimes it brings even painful memories. At this time, it is recommended that if you don't have any feelings anymore and feel that your boyfriend's behavior makes you have no interest in this relationship, then break up, just follow your boyfriend's wishes.

    I still advise some girls who have no experience in love or are relatively simple, don't believe that the process of falling in love is painful, or that everything is for your good, such rhetoric is all excuses, love is happy, and this happiness can even make people enter the palace of marriage together. If you feel unhappy or awkward or strange in this relationship, then there is no need to go on.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Your boyfriend proposes to break up with you when he is fine, which means that your boyfriend has no confidence in the relationship between you, he always wants to escape, or she is dissatisfied with you, and love needs understanding and trust from both parties, obviously, your boyfriend's heart is no longer in you, so breaking up is your best choice.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If your boyfriend has nothing to do, he will break up with love and you, at this time you should teach him a lesson, you can say that you agree to break up, and make him uncomfortable for a while.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Then promise him, when your boyfriend mentions breaking up, don't be afraid, don't back down, just promise him, if he just scares and scares you, then his attitude towards you will change.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You should have a good chat with your boyfriend, maybe because you did something that made your boyfriend unhappy, so I broke up with you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You should break up with him decisively, because your boyfriend's behavior is obviously not in love with you, and it is you who will be hurt if the two continue to be together.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    At this time, you should take the initiative to communicate with your boyfriend, and also tell your boyfriend not to talk about such words, which will also affect the relationship between the two people very much.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You should break up with him decisively, after all, he doesn't love you anymore, and continuing to be together will only hurt you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If your boyfriend is okay and break up with you, then you can communicate with him when he is in a good mood and tell him not to break up if he is fine, if one day you are really college, you may not get back together with him.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    First of all, you should give each other time to think calmly and clean up your mood; Reflect on the problem and make noises to find ways to deal with it; Sincere apologies and communication. Impulsiveness and sensibility can turn some small problems in the relationship into big contradictions, or even break ups. But when you wake up, you will start to regret it.

    And if you want to save this relationship again, you must allow yourself to change, reflect on the problem seriously, and avoid repeating the mistakes of the past.

    1. Give each other time to think calmly

    When couples break up, they will definitely say a lot of hurtful things and act irrationally because of negative emotions such as anger, grievances, and disappointments. So after the breakup, even if you have already begun to have some regrets, don't act impulsively again, thinking that the pure high attendant will immediately go back to find her boyfriend to get back together. If the boy is still angry at this time, it may be hopeless to get back together.

    So you should give each other time to think calmly, relieve your emotions well, and wait until you can sit down and think about the relationship before thinking about anything else.

    2. Seriously reflect on the problem

    If you want to recover, the most important thing is to be able to reflect on the problem and solve the problem. Otherwise, this will always be a thorn in each other's hearts, which cannot be dissipated. Therefore, first of all, we should break down prejudice and stubbornness, admit our mistakes, and analyze the real reasons for each other's quarrels.

    And learn to empathize and consider your boyfriend's emotions and positions. And in thinking, look for a more suitable way for two people to get along. Feelings need to be run-in, and it is impossible to completely change them through one party, and more importantly, to find a boundary that can be accepted and agreed with by each other.

    Sannian apologized and communicated with each other early and sincerely

    When you have cleared your mind, you should take the initiative to apologize, admit your inappropriate behavior, and seek forgiveness from the other party. Secondly, it is necessary to express your love sincerely. In fact, the stalemate between each other is only one step away.

    Maybe your initiative to apologize can make the other party feel guilty, and also admit your own problems, then the follow-up communication can be smoother.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You can call the other party electrocution, you can take the initiative to say to the other party that you regret it, or you can take the other party to some places where the two of you have been before, so that the other party will be particularly moved, and finally reconcile.

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