The new generation of parents don t advocate stick culture anymore

Vinda's "2017 National Family Parent-Child Relationship Report" released on the 19th shows that the new generation of parents has undergone significant changes in parent-child communication with previous generations, they do not advocate stick culture, are more willing to communicate with their children on an equal footing, and are more willing to express "I love you" to their children.

After the implementation of China's family planning policy, the first generation of only children, grew up in China's rich, open, active era, they were also in the eyes of the "little emperor", "little princess", once evaluated as self-character, do not know how to share, "the loneliest generation", now they have grown into the core of China's families with children.

According to the survey, families with double independence (both husband and wife are only children) express intimacy more bluntly, with a whopping 59% of parents not only kissing their children, but also expressing "I love you". of single-person families consider them to be "very patient" or "somewhat patient" in spending time with their children, which is 7% higher than that of single-person families, and none of them are single-child families.

Many parents of the new generation have been taught from an early age that "adults speak, children don't interject", but when they become parents, they obviously do not agree with this concept in pursuit of individuality. According to the survey, both working mothers and non-working mothers believe that their children's opinions should be listened to before making decisions related to their children, and nearly 3 in 10 stay-at-home mothers believe that it is "very necessary" to consult their children. When there is a disagreement with the child, 42% of the parents of the post-80s and post-90s parents will make a decision with their children.

"Encouragement, communication, respect" is the most popular way of communication for the new generation of parents.

In addition, intellectual consumption has become a new trend in the consumption of the new generation of middle-class families. Among them, middle-class families with an income of 200,000-500,000 yuan and more than 500,000 yuan believe that their children's "intellectual consumption cannot be saved" accounts for more than half of them, and early education tools, toys and musical instruments have become new hot spots for consumption. of working mothers will also guide their children to use their own pocket money to spend, and cultivate their children's financial intelligence in the scene of buying, buying, buying, buying.

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Many parents use sticks to educate, thinking that their children will serve sticks, but on the surface, they are actually dissatisfied with the child's heart. Education requires great wisdom.

Parents are always right, and when one day he can't beat you, you will realize it.

No matter what, our parents are for our own good, and don't let them down.

Yes. But parents think it's the best way to educate. Say a kind of love.

That's what their older generation thinks.