I m confused, I need everyone s help.

Does he love you? Do you love him? Believe the feelings.

Although sometimes two people are together is a matter of two families, but I think the most important thing is how you feel, sometimes others always say that loving someone does not have to live with him, but I think the deepest expression of loving a person is not to want to live with him and her? What do you think?

Whether you can insist on it depends on him. Communicate with him more. And being in a hurry can't solve the problem. Calm down so as not to lose your way.

People are equal, as long as they are in love, there is nothing that is not okay. I think you should figure out your boyfriend's attitude at the moment, and if his thoughts start to lean towards his parents' side, I think you should cut through the mess quickly, and the longer it drags on, the more damage it will do to yourself. And you can say goodbye to him before he says breakup.

Perfecting him also gives himself a broader world. The twisted melon is not sweet, even if you are desperately living together now, if you are a little unhappy in the future, the previous backlog of contradictions will be like a snowball, and it will be too late to regret it. While loving him, you must also remember to love yourself well!!

What kind of parents are these? What age is it now? It doesn't matter, as long as you are true love, you can bring everything down.

Have a good talk with your boyfriend and find out what he thinks!

But the most important thing is that you have to cherish yourself, and loving yourself is the most important thing!

Ah, it's another pair of mandarin ducks who are opposed by their parents, hey, it depends on how your boyfriend chooses! But you don't have to worry too much, and you don't have to be unhappy, can you? Anyway, the worst ending is that the two of you can't be together, maybe there will be a better one waiting for you at the next stop!

If you have zero capital, it is recommended that you can work for others first, understand the current development trend of the times, accumulate knowledge and experience in continuous work, and you will definitely gain something. For example, the Internet industry is the most promising industry at present, the education industry, the psychology industry, nutrition and health professionals, and so on. I believe that as long as you work hard, you will definitely get something.

Now in an underestimated position, there is no job at the moment.

First look at what basic work can be done around you, or what resources you have around you, and then integrate these and then do some things.

Designers can try, usually new high.

I am born to be useful, and if I don't use it or don't give full play to it, it will be a waste of the talent given to us.

I can't help you with what to do, but my advice is:

1.Your experience is your wealth, and no matter what the process is, you have already gained something, and you may be able to use it again at some point in the future.

2.It is not recommended to always change jobs. Not only do you change jobs, but you also have a big leap in the industry, such a problem is that every time you start, everything is unfamiliar to you, and you have to learn little by little.

You won't be able to earn a high salary at this stage because it's still an apprenticeship or probationary period. There is also the fact that although you can understand a little, you are not professional enough and have no good skills. So even if you find a job that meets your current requirements, after a long time, you will feel lost again.

Because your needs will increase and your technology will not improve.

3.Don't be afraid of difficulties. If you try to escape when you encounter difficulties or discomfort, then you will not succeed.

It should be able to withstand the test, whether it is the test of time, salary or environment. Because, successful people only persevere for one minute longer than others.

4.Don't be depressed anymore. Because this will not solve your problems, but will make you less confident and unsure of what to do. The old man should be decisive, and after consideration, identify a goal and work hard without hesitation.

I hope it helps. To be honest, I am a grassroots manager, and my current salary is about 2,000. If it's a high-tech worker, then it's probably a lot more. So, hopefully you will be able to clarify your goals as soon as possible.

I advise you to be ruthless, find a technical school with a good reputation, learn electricians and the like, now the market gap is very large, the employment is relatively high, and the salary can also reach about 5000, but it requires some upfront investment.

If people don't have dreams, what's the difference between them and salted fish?

It's only 29 think of one thing, let's do it! Teenager: Make the world a little bit different because of you.

The line is the champion, why not find something interesting to do, you may not make money in front of you or you may earn very little, so what, it's okay to take care of your mouth, maybe many times girls don't look at how rich and rich you are, but how confident you are, how much happiness you can give her, and how much love you deserve. Do what you love and fight for it, try to reach the top of yourself, don't think about how much you can get, and then everything will come naturally (maybe by that time I won't care about these things anymore)!! A lot of things are not impossible, but you don't do them at all!!

If you say that you only like money, it can only mean that you have not found the direction you want, then look for someone to help you. Eldest brother!!!

Don't sway from side to side, think about what you are going to do, and insist on doing it, so that you have qualifications and experience, and only with qualifications and experience will you have a good future.

Of all the industries, the restaurant industry is the most stable. Even in disaster years, people have to eat while they are alive, so cooks will always have the opportunity to be employed. I've done this too, and I know it's tiring. However, if you don't have a diploma, the restaurant industry is still the best choice.

To be a human being, you still have to have your own development direction, ask yourself, you used to be a chef, don't you like it, do you like to learn welding now?

When life becomes a responsibility, it's a matter of living day in and day out.

Since there are so many years of experience as a chef, ask why not stick to it, 11 years, how many eleven years in life!

Isn't it bad to continue to be a top chef?

I think you can continue to be a chef, it's a skill, you can support yourself, and then you can strengthen your skills, and then you can get a better job after cultivating to a certain height. I think chef is still a relatively stable job, as long as you work hard, I believe you will get better. Come on.

Change cities and go to the south to work hard.

Logistics you can think about. You can also invest in your own business.

Try to reposition, think about and analyze where you have strength, do related things, when you have self-confidence, plus your skills, you will live better, I wish you to find yourself as soon as possible, self-achievement!

You are awesome! I suggest you go back to study... You decide which industry you really like, and then go and specialize in it. Very helpful for you in the future!

Learn some technology and change jobs.

Find a job you love.

It's best to open your own shop if you know how to cook! But the location! Manpower!

Tourists! Cost! It's not easy!

Dry welding is recommended! Boilers belong to pressure vessels! You can go to a technical school for a short training!

About 3,000 yuan! The certificate is here! The technique has been practiced!

Then go to the pressure vessel factory with special materials! Generally, the salary of the five insurances is more than 3,000! More than 4,000 easy!

The special material is generally titanium ta1 ta2 nickel 2201 6600! Stainless steel 304 304L 316 316L! Low temperature steel 15 chromium molybdenum neodymium!

The main thing is argon arc single-sided welding double-sided forming! Flat welding of electrode arc welding! And flat fillet welding!

It's easy! Learn fast! Job stability is the most important thing!

Develop a riveter in the future! Let's give a hard work point with all your hands!

Think about the industry you like or are good at, or you feel that the industry is more promising, you have been working for many years, and your experience is there. Since you've been doing it for 11 years, why don't you stick to it?

Also, I think that attitude towards life is also very important, you have to have your own ideas, don't get by, and do everything well.

Your job as a chef is good, but you don't like it, so do you like the job you do later? I guess I don't like it either. Your chef experience is not shallow, so why don't you develop on that...

If you can, read a book on investing! That thing is very risky, but if you get your hands on it, you can earn it back quickly!

Second, go out to work directly, do not go to graduate school, and directly take the civil service examination or note meeting while working.

What accounting wants is actual combat, what you don't study, it doesn't work, you can do it well, you can study professional courses while working, and you can't use many things you learn in school even if you can become a financial director even if you have an undergraduate.

I, who have graduated from my bachelor's degree for two years, suggest you choose the second one.

It's understandable that you are a student who doesn't understand society, and graduate school isn't as good as you think. On the contrary, due to the high degree of education, the psychological expectations are too large, and the employer does not agree with it very much.

Undergraduate expectations are lower, and although the salary is not as high as that of graduate students at the beginning, two years of work experience will make your qualifications higher, which will lead to promotions and salary increases.

It is much more important to improve your professional skills in the workplace than to improve your academic skills in school. As long as you do your job well and constantly improve your professional skills, it is easy to be promoted to supervisor and manager.

What I want to tell you is that society does not recognize graduate students, and that academic qualification is just a book. The company values whether you have the ability of undergraduate or graduate students, rather than which academic qualifications you value. On the contrary, I know a lot of graduate students, but they have no academic qualifications and no real skills (graduate students are mixed), and the work is only about 2,000 people.

In the society, it is still the ability to look at, not the degree or something.

1.I don't understand why you are so obsessed with the graduate school entrance examination, and you still want to work for a year and then quit your job to take the exam and find a job if you can't take the exam.

2.Didn't that exam last the whole semester, so you couldn't spare a little time to find another job? Did you even learn that you failed the exam after graduating, and only then did you get to the point where you are now unemployed at home?

Even if the answer is "yes", it's been a month since you graduated, what are you doing in this month?

3.Two of my classmates fired their boss on the first day of work because they felt that the job they had found was low and unfree, and now they have both found new jobs early. In any case, we have to admit that the employment situation this year is much better than in previous years.

If you really wanted to find a job, would you be unemployed at home?

4.Seeing that you are a graduate student, a civil servant, and a state-owned enterprise throughout the article, you are clearly the kind of person who can't endure hardship, and thinks that it is best to be a student for the rest of your life and not have to work. However, his strength is limited, and as a result, he has become a high-eyed and low-handed, empty-handed, and has nothing to gain.

5.Pursuing some good life and living a leisurely life is understandable, everyone wants to. But the problem is that a lot of times, life is always realistic. It doesn't matter what choices you make, what matters is that you first set your mindset right. Otherwise, everything is in vain.

6.If you want to talk about advice, I personally think that the phrase "get a job first, then choose a job", this overused sentence always has its reasons for being overused. If you can't even eat, do you still have the strength to pick flower petals, and say that if you go to graduate school for odd numbers, or go to work for even numbers?

After having a job, if you still want to go to graduate school, you don't have to quit your job at all, don't you know that there is such a thing as part-time work and study now? If you really want to take the civil service exam, you will have to wait until next year, and no one will say that you are not allowed to take the exam.

Anyway, you have to at least get a job before you can do it. Otherwise, when you become a former student with no work experience, I'm afraid that it will be too late to really regret it. Because, the key here is not whether you have work experience, others are more concerned about why you have no work experience.

If you aspire to be a rice worm that lives on your family, of course you can be all nonsense when I say it, bless you, Amen!