Why are women who are too strong unhappy?

Because a woman who is too strong regards her feelings as obedience, it is difficult to find a suitable partner, it is easy to ruin the marriage, and it will ruin the children.

1. Women who are too strong regard their feelings as obedience, and it is difficult to find a suitable partner.

A strong woman, most of them lack the company of close relatives in their life experience, they lack a sense of security, are prone to gains and losses, and require unconditional obedience and trust for each other, otherwise, they feel that this is not true love.

Second, a woman who is too strong can easily ruin a marriage.

The most important thing for a man is dignity and face, if you marry a woman who is too strong, you can't hold your head up in front of your family or friends. Many women feel that men should be more careful, otherwise they will be out of moderation. But in fact, men are also human beings, and they also need freedom.

If a woman who is too strong disciplines a man too strictly, the man can easily suffocate and may even betray himself.

3. A woman who is too strong will ruin the child.

As the saying goes, teaching by example is more important than words. Parents are the best teachers for children, and the formation of children's three views is also the earliest from parents. Daughters imitate their mothers, and sons imitate their fathers.

In a family where women are strong and men are weak, the daughter will learn from her mother, learn to be arrogant and unreasonable, treat the opposite sex arrogantly and disrespectfully, and form a "shrew", and the son will imitate the father and become timid and cowardly at home, bloodless, and dare not take responsibility.

A woman's strength, like a paper tiger, is strong on the surface, but she is actually very fragile on the inside.

The man who is really quiet doesn't want to quarrel with her, so there is no need to fight for a moment in language.

Women are mostly soft, but they are so soft that they can't be independent, and men don't like them, but if women are so independent that they don't need men, men also hate her.

A woman, professionally independent and emotionally dependent, this woman is lovely.

Women want to marry a successful man, but if a woman can turn him into a successful man, that is her real ability.

Otherwise, she can't guide her man well and shout every day that one day, he will become someone else's husband.

So, when it should be strong, it is strong, and when it should be weak, it is weak.

It's your man, and you should respect it.

The above quotes a passage from Mr. Tu Lei. Women are like water, and even more so in the family, where water is not only gentle, but also growling and angry, and those are only under special conditions.

The home is a place where the whole family feels cozy and relaxed. In a warm family, no one is stronger, only who is more suitable for what kind of things. The division of labor is clear, and everyone contributes.

Once one party is too strong, it is inevitable that there will be one who is ordained, and the generation of power makes the family no longer look like a family, and the generation of power destroys the harmony of the family. This family is the common beneficiary of all family members, and a sabotage has become a tool for exercising power for oneself, and the happiness of others is gone, how can they have their own happiness?

As the saying goes, husband and wife are grasshoppers tied to the rope of the family, they can run away from you, but they can't run away from me, unless they don't want this family, that's not what we want. This sentence is common to both husband and wife, if you want family happiness, goals, and directions, this rope will save each other's worry and effort.

There is some truth in this sentence, because often strong women do not use wisdom when they get along with husband and wife, they only know how to use brute force, so they bring the husband and wife to a deadlock that cannot be communicated.

And men are always too depressed in front of their strong wives, because they can't get the tenderness and understanding of their wives, and some men will make themselves more confident through extramarital affairs.

If at this time, there is a woman who is tender and amorous next to the man, then it is a matter of minutes for the man to betray the marriage.

Even if a man does not betray his marriage and has been suppressed for a long time, he will definitely rise up and file for divorce with his wife.

A woman who is helpless in life. A woman who has no one to help, he can only be stronger than others now, in fact, he is very fragile in his heart, and he will hurt at night, and he often sheds tears.

The strength of the woman is destined to work hard for this family, all kinds of hard work, and life is very tiring. A strong woman likes to be in control, and everything has to be implemented according to her intentions, otherwise she will feel that something is wrong. Marriage is an art, and every couple should treat marriage well.

Strong women make men stressful. A woman's dominance can make a man more stressed. Some men want to flee because they can't stand the dominance of women.

Sometimes, a woman's strength stems from her hatred of men. However, you have to understand that some men have a personality like this. Some men may like stronger women, and he is naturally willing to be managed by women.

Either this man loves this woman very much and is willing to be controlled by a woman.

Therefore, a woman's strength is not necessarily a bad quality. It's just that a woman's strength also has to vary from person to person, and the specific situation is analyzed on a case-by-case basis. Many times, a woman's dominance is a huge pressure on a man, which can make the man want to escape.

A smart woman who knows how to manage a marriage, no matter how high her social status is, no matter how powerful she is in the workplace, will obediently give up the protagonist to a man when she returns to the family stage, and strive to assist, cooperate and encourage him to play the role of a good man. If you want to make your husband more masculine, then obediently let out the masculine part and make yourself more feminine, so that men are more like men, and you are more like women, and your family will be harmonious with yin and yang, and you will complete a happy marriage drama in your life series.

Marriage is like a besieged city, people in the city want to come out, and people outside the city want to go in. There are some powerful women, most of whom have idealistic illusions about marriage, but they are often hit hard after marriage. Before marriage, I thought about getting married, but my married life was not satisfactory.

Life is like a plate of loose sand, rough and fragmented. The main reasons why these strong women feel unhappy in their marriages are these.

1. Too demanding on life.

Generally speaking, strong women are very concerned about the quality of life. Care about the house furniture, care about all the details of the home, and even have a certain degree of cleanliness. After getting married, they are especially easy to find fault with everything in the house, the furniture is not high-grade, the washing machine is not multi-functional, and the location of the house is not good.

In the end, he even began to find fault with his husband, doubting his original vision, how he chose such a person to marry.

Second, I like to buy, buy, buy.

Strong women are generally financially independent, and they are already accustomed to the buy-buy-buy model before marriage, and they are more likely to be big-spending after marriage. Anyway, when the money is spent, I will earn it again, and it's not that I don't have any money, so why do you search for that. After getting married, a strong woman not only buys and buys for herself, but also buys and buys for her husband.

It's okay to have a few times once in a while, and after a long time, men can't help but complain, is it easy to make some money now, such a toss, sooner or later the family will be defeated. It's okay before marriage, but after marriage, women feel wronged, and they don't just buy it for themselves. As time passed, the women felt more and more aggrieved.

3. Pungent and unpleasant to men.

Strong women are also generally more or less spicy. But women are spicy before marriage, and men still find it interesting and challenging, and they feel that winning such a girl is the only way to have face. After marriage, men can't stand it.

For the sake of the ears, men don't like to go home, and would rather work overtime in the company.

Fourth, do not care about the family.

Strong women generally have their own successful careers, and it is difficult for them to put down their careers to take care of their families when they get married. The man came home from work after a busy day and didn't have a hot soup, and the house was a mess and no one cleaned it up. Even if a man knows in his heart that his wife has to go to work early and return late, he can't help but have resentment in his heart.

One or two are not at home, what's the use of marrying a daughter-in-law.

Strong women are more independent, self-contained, living in their own world, and it is difficult to change themselves for the sake of others. This is also the reason why women who are strong now are not happy after marriage.

No, these have to be divided into people and situations.

First of all, your definition of strength is: Do you have to follow my family's ideas, whether right or wrong?

In that case, I don't think it's that a strong woman is unhappy in her marriage, but that either party in the marriage is unhappy.

In love, the man should take the initiative, and both parties should be equal in marriage.

Imagine that in a strong family, if the other party is also strong, this family will definitely be at war every day. If the other party is weak, then he will swallow his anger every day, and this family is not a happy family no matter what.

Human personality is divided into paranoid type, tangled type, and integrated type. From the name, it should be clear that the so-called strong should be classified as paranoid.

If you can change an integrated personality, husband and wife can express their opinions, and everyone can adopt better decisions through full communication, and the family relationship should be more harmonious and happier.

If you are not strong, you are being bullied by your family? So be strong, believe it or not, if a boy is born, he wants his mother to be strong! People are good and are deceived by others!

Some strong women can manage their lives in an orderly manner, and the family is very happy, so it is not a question of being strong or not, there is no standard answer to happiness, if the strong other half of the woman can accept it, and is very accustomed to this mode of life, then it must be very happy.

Wandering outside the home is a contribution to the family, and taking care of the home is also a kind of dedication, both of which should not be ignored.

1.You have to know what you want.

For many strong women, the most important problem they need to face is not knowing how to balance family and career.

They are accustomed to putting some of the rules of the workplace in their own family business, which is actually impersonal in itself.

Whether it is the male protagonist outside the female protagonist, or the female protagonist outside the male protagonist, in essence, everyone hopes that your home can become better.

On the premise of establishing this relationship, then you need to be able to negotiate and analyze specific responses to some specific problems.

This is not the kind of quantitative assessment at work, but a manifestation of a pair of people who love each other to face problems in life together.

In other words, it is not easy for people who work hard outside the home, whether it is the coping of interpersonal relationships or physical fatigue.

Then, the other party should naturally help to share more, but this sharing should not be taken for granted.

The business process of marriage depends on whether the two people can work together, whether you care about each other, and more importantly, whether you can negotiate with each other.

2.There is no perfect choice in life.

People's energy is always limited, so people who value their careers will definitely neglect their families and vice versa.

However, since you have made a choice, please trust and respect the other person, and consider others not only for yourself.

If you say, love is only about the pleasure of two people. That marriage is more important, whether you have met a suitable partner.

There are no perfect options in life, and your partner cannot be an absolutely perfect person.

Everyone will have a temper, and they will have their own unbearable and regretful. Accepting each other and taking care of each other is a shared responsibility of two people.

If a woman is too strong, then the family will definitely not be happy. If a man is hard and a woman is soft, then the family must be happy;If a man is soft and a woman is hard, then the family is not far from being broken.

A colleague of mine, Xiaoyuan, is a very strong woman in an electronics factory. She does a great job both at work and socially, though. At this time, there was a new supervisor in the company, and Xiaoyuan was just the production team leader of this company, and it was also managed by this supervisor.

Later, time passed day by day, and the new supervisor Xiao Liu fell in love with Xiao Yuan, and Xiao Liu began to pursue Xiao Yuan in this way, because we all have a good relationship, so Xiao Liu often called us when he invited Xiao Yuan to dinner. In fact, at this time, Xiao Liu also admitted to everyone that he began to pursue Xiao Yuan, and Xiao Yuan personally knew it.

So they started to get closer, often commuting to and from work together and going out on dates together. No one knows what the hell is going on with them, ask if they are together? None of them admit it, they only know that they have a good relationship.

Xiao Liu and Xiao Yuan have a common hobby, often playing games together after work, but they can often be heard arguing with the stove. Xiao Yuan is a particularly strong girl, as long as Xiao Liu says something that satisfies Xiao Yuan, Xiao Yuan will chase after this matter.

Time flies quickly, two years have passed, and their relationship has become worse and worse, from the original pursuit relationship to Xiao Liu becoming Xiao Yuan's younger brother. Later, Xiaoyuan found a person she liked in her hometown, and quit her job and went home to get married within two months.

Since then, I haven't seen Xiaoyuan. After they got married, they could often see Xiaoyuan posting on Moments, saying that she was too bad, and sometimes she would fight with her husband, and quarrels were a common thing.

Through this incident, I know that women can't be too strong, otherwise they will definitely not live happily.