fell out of love, she left me, but I was reluctant, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Think about whether you are self-inflicted

    She said that she doesn't feel for you anymore, and the meaning is obviously to share with you.

    I analyze that there may be two possibilities.

    1 As he said, you are not suitable, or she is now in love with someone else.

    2 You don't satisfy her materially, or she thinks you won't have results in the future.

    Either way, she must have thought about it for a long time. It must be very resolute.

    The fact that she accompanies you only shows that she has a good heart

    A little bit of my own subjective opinion I don't know what is right or wrong.

    Wrong, don't blame me

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Find another one, and the loss of one relationship can be replaced by another! Forever is outdated for modern people.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There should still be a chance.

    You can take her to places where you've been with her before, places where you've both found it happy. Talk to her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Forget about her and go to a crowded place!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Wait slowly, maybe time will be perfect for you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Time can dilute everything.

    When you look back. Will laugh because of this.

    laughed at his own stupidity, and naivety.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, you know best what to do and what to do.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Try to move her. Maybe not feeling it was just an excuse.

    Don't be too impatient.

    Take it easy. Give her freedom, but don't forget to care for her. Love her. Do a little more for her, but don't ask her to know everything.

    Feelings are inextricable.

    The opportunity is your own. If you don't try, you never know if you have a chance. ok?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. In a person's life, you will encounter a lot of things that you don't want to meet, or things you don't want to face. Only time allows you to dilute all this, and you may feel that life is less fun without her, and that is because you are used to it, but habits can be changed slowly. When you're sad, find something to do, so that you don't think too much about it, so maybe it will be better, and I think you'll get used to it over time, maybe you will meet another her.

    Someone once said that fate is unavoidable, if there is fate, there will be encounters, in free time, you can find friends to play, work hard during work time, and don't think about anything. It's going to get better slowly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What is a broken love? At least I've been in love. If you can't get out all the time, you don't care about other people's business, you just feel sad yourself. It's better to do something positive, such as reading, exercising, improving your self-cultivation and ability, and making that person regret dying.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Try to forget about her and throw yourself into another relationship, giving yourself and her a chance.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is recommended to watch "Bubble Summer" to taste Rosie, listen to "There is a Love Called Letting Go", bless her if you love her, you don't have to be together, you will be happy if she is happy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Brother, you are a big man, stand up and yell twice, you are still a good man.

    I don't think it's a bad thing that she's gone, at least you know that a lot of people in this world are very realistic.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Adjust well, and it will get better.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I've been blowing it for 5 years, and you're not too deep in it, and it'll be fine after a while

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    People are not living everything is what we want, we can only face the unwanted results, because it is useless to escape, I remember someone said that change what you can change, and what you can't change when you love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is nothing to be afraid of, everyone will have an experience of falling in love, falling out of love is not terrible, what is terrible is whether you can look at this problem correctly, if you love someone deeply, just put her in your heart, there are too many coincidences in the world, maybe you are, you should not know each other from the beginning, since you know, that is fate, you have to think about it, it's not a big deal.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You're a man, and a wonderful relationship can be unforgettable, but when you're 30 and you marry another woman and have a baby, you'll find that some things have faded away, and they're not as deep as they were back then, and what remains in your heart is the feeling of a memory!! Good luck soon!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No one will understand us, and if we want to die, we will owe a lot. People will laugh at us.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's normal when you're out of love, because it's 21 world in the present tense. You also have to face reality. Because I used to be like you

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Nerd · Can't you live without her? You can't live to see that the days have to go on All you're missing is the scenery And if you look back and think about it along the way, you'll understand that she also gave the strength to fail and live well The end always comes at the end.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's up to you.

    Time may be a good antidote, but it is also possible that the love is deep, and you can't forget it for a lifetime, so don't forget it, and think it as a good memory.

    Or you can try to find a new girlfriend, maybe with a new relationship, the past will be less painful.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Some love just can't bear the pressure of the family, look at it, just think it's for her good, after all, she is good for her parents.

    So, I think it's good to go on a blind date, at least it's up to the parents to see if it's suitable, and then it's up to you to see if it's suitable.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Time is the best medicine, and it took me 3 years to forget someone. It's painful. It was cruel, I chose to escape, leaving the city where I lived with her.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Why don't you try something new, or go on a tour? Try to divert your attention and let time dilute it, but sometimes time can't do anything.

    But you can't do anything else, without the blessing of your parents, such a marriage will be quite sad, and if you love her, you shouldn't want her to be embarrassed, right? It might be better to break it thoroughly.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Time is the best antidote, and after a long time, it will naturally melt and disappear. If you truly love each other, you should work hard. If it really doesn't work, let's break it off early, so it might be better for each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Now that you've broken up, don't be nostalgic, time will heal you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    People have to look forward, you can't always stand in place and look back, since there is a better waiting for you in front of you, why don't you grasp the present, since you are separated, you must be able to afford to put it down. Although said. It's easier said than done, but after all, you yourself say that the current one is better than that, since you have chosen the current one, don't recall the past, you should treat the current one well, otherwise it will be very unfair to him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    People who love each other don't have to be together, since you say that it's better for her to leave her than to be with her, then you should leave her, you can't let go because you think too much about yourself, make more friends.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There is a kind of love called letting go, as long as you see the person you like happy, no matter who you are with, you should be happy, give up or be with the beginning of another relationship.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Then leave it to time to deal with it, and time will give you a satisfactory answer

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Since we have chosen love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him when he (she) is in difficulty, encourage him or her when he (she) is happy, and comfort him (her) when he (she) is happy. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

    Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a never-fading token. All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

    The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time that belongs to him/herself, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together.

    I am sincere and sincere, and I hope to get your affirmation.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Since you have to let go, forget about her, love deeply, hurt more deeply to right and wrong, it's hard to tell, it's good to love, keep this beautiful feeling, isn't it.

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