Who can untie the knot in my heart, and how to untie the knot in my own heart

Every successful man must have a woman, and the role of a woman does not necessarily require much auxiliary ability, at least, to motivate men's ambition to struggle and improve men's morality. "After reading this sentence last night, I felt that maybe my previous opinion was wrong, I used to think that women should be self-reliant, how should they be, and after reading this sentence, I realized that no matter how strong a woman is, she can't compare to a man. To be a good woman, it turns out that you can play a role in another way, indeed, sometimes a more capable woman will unnaturally support the men around her, but there is always a feeling of hatred of iron and steel, in fact, it is not that the support is bad, it is used in the wrong place.

I may be a little more autonomous, like to do what I think, and am a perfectionist, but after reading this sentence, I realized that it is not that I can change what I want to change, people are always people, have their own thoughts, and it is impossible to be changed by another person, but what we need to do is to let him change by himself, only when he wants to change, he will change, this change is thorough and active.

I have never known, there are so many truths to be a man, whether it is to do things or people, you have to use your brains, how to do this thing best, how to achieve the best effect, there will always be troublesome things, what I am most afraid of is trouble, but this trouble is gone, there will be a lot of trouble waiting for me, how can I avoid it one by one, rather than that, it is better to come out and face it, or this will turn the trouble into a good thing. Being a man is a very troublesome thing, is it because of trouble and not being a man, of course it is impossible, who gives up survival because of trouble, I always said before, happy is also alive, unhappy is also alive, since they are all alive, it is better to live happily. These two principles should be the same.

You really want to be a strong woman behind him, want to be good to him, understand and support him in everything, but when you encounter something, you will still get angry because of some things, and in the end both of you are unhappy.

It feels like you don't really want to do that, all you really want is to make him love you forever and never leave you, so that he can feel your love for him. You want him to know that you care. I want him to care about you.,So,In reality, you're still going to get angry and lose your temper.。。。

True feelings can stand the test.

It's not all your fault, but you should think more about that man. If you're the man and the woman doesn't understand you, then how much pressure do you say the man should have. What you can't bear can be slowly endured, slowly controlled, and what about the people you love?

He not only has to solve his own problems, but also bear the pressure you give, you say that he is not particularly hard, try to think more about things in his position, get used to it will be better, remember.

Most girls are like this, mainly because of psychological factors, and women are born to plan small things.

You have to learn who to be, put yourself in your shoes and think about it when you encounter problems, and overcome it slowly, this kind of thing can't be rushed.

Divide it, sooner or later, willfulness is not a woman's privilege, it is a character defect, and most of it is also related to the family.

The knot is not solved by others, the main thing is that you can figure it out yourself!

Don't criticize yourself, it's useless to ask for everything, why bother so hard.

1. There is a good saying that "the bell must be tied to the bell" If a person often has a knot, then only the person who ties the knot can help open it, which may contain a lot of people and things that do not want to face it anymore, but to face this matter or someone to say that the filth is the most effective way to untie the knot.

2. If you don't want to touch it, then divert your attention, try to find new things to do, distract yourself, such as reading books, running and searching for radical steps, listening to **, talking to friends, etc.

3. Of course, having a strong heart is also what we should have, this society no longer allows recognition like Lin Daiyu, and sometimes it takes a brave heart and a strong heart to untie the knot. Look for opportunities to make yourself better, maintain a good person, and maintain a tolerant heart towards people and things.

It is very dangerous for two people to be together without a common language Sitting together relatively wordless will not feel embarrassed If there is really embarrassment It is really not suitable Think about the future days are still very long Wouldn't it be very boring to live together without a common topic And there will be contradictions Marriage is not a big thing because it is at that age It is not necessary to hastily do things Or the happiness in the future is the most important.

It's actually very simple, find common ground! (Just like the two of you, it was originally two parallel lines, but because of some fate, the two days of straight lines have an intersection point, this is your "love").

In the same way, you have been together for a long time. They are familiar with each other's habits and lives, so there are no interests or topics. But you have a future, you have dreams, you have an opinion on something, you have a common favorite, and so on!!

That's what you're talking about. This is your breakthrough!!

Whether it is now or in the future, topics, interests, opinions, etc. It's all a crisis in your marriage, and only if you learn to turn a boring thing into something interesting, that's the topic. To use an analogy:

Seeing other people's children, very cute, very lively, you can give praise to others, but also hope that you have a child, how good you want them to become, who you want to be as good as they are, etc.

Oh, you're still sensible, you can know that this is a knot and a frustration! Prove that you have the ability and ability to conquer difficulties, and may you use setbacks as a workout for your marriage. Unraveled, one of the major difficulties of marriage is solved.