I m ready to go to work, I m scared, I m afraid of being scared of all kinds of problems!

Thinking too much, there is a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the problem of going to work will be solved naturally.

Thinking too much, watching too much TV, watching less TV and doing more outdoor sports, no one will do this to you when you are a pawn, if you own a company or do an important position in a big company, someone has a fancy to your position and there is such a possibility, the rest is complete.

It's normal, just getting involved in society. There's nothing to be afraid of, just do your job.

Slowly, you'll become an old fritter.

Alas, it's all like this, you're done with it like this, I'm a living example, what are you afraid of, think like this anyway, I'm a person who has nothing, I don't care, as long as I live, do it bravely, think too much and achieve nothing, the newborn calf is not afraid of tigers, it should be you, society is complex and you will inevitably bump and bump if you want to survive, unless you are a rich second generation. If not, be brave.

Just give full play to your existing abilities and work hard to do it, and don't suffer from gains and losses, because it is useless to suffer from gains and losses. Of course, it's even more useless to be afraid! There's still a long way to go!

The most basic core of Confucius's Confucianism is to achieve the present bare cognition to the end. That is, to do the limit.

Me too, I was very scared when I went to work for the first time in a few days, and what I was afraid of was not the trickery of my colleagues, but the distrust of my boss.

The problem is that you are not afraid of spending hundreds of thousands of dollars to go to school, what can you do with work?

It's all a learning process, constantly adapting to the environment.

Correct the psychology first, let the attitude be correct, take a look with the psychology of trying, don't be afraid of the bloody wind in the workplace, just face it with the right attitude.

You can't hide from being afraid, so face it bravely.

After a while, it will be gone, the work is not so scary, there is nothing to worry about.

If you don't experience it, you will never know, but if you experience it, you will know it, and you won't leave a piece of armor to kill them. But you still have to keep your heart.

Calm down and don't be public. Handle the interpersonal relationship of the unit well. There are still many good people in this world.

Don't be afraid, what should come will come.

Rookies have to face this kind of problem, and it's good to get used to it.

Be diligent at work and keep your eyelids alive.

What are you afraid of!! Remember, the opponent is actually more nervous than you.

Just be confident in yourself.

Think too much, it's not that complicated.

Don't be afraid, that's how everyone came, did you see anyone fall?

1. Fear of work

Because of various internal factors such as lack of self-confidence, lack of social adaptation experience and ability, unclear goals for the next stage, and pressure on employment prospects, people feel that they are not interested in any work, they are afraid of work, and the various things brought about by work also make people feel psychologically uncomfortable.

2. How to overcome fear of work

1. Calm down with a blank piece of paper, list your fears one by one, and then enter the ** scene simulation to analyze the situation that will cause your fear, find the reason, maybe not as fearful as you think. This method is also applicable to some other phobias**.

2. Don't set some unrealistic goals, which will only increase your fear, you should set phased goals, and set goals every time you do what you can, one step at a time, which can help alleviate the fear of work.

3. Consciously train self-confidence, when a person is full of confidence, any problems that seemed difficult before will be solved, sometimes it is not your ability to problem, but the problem of confidence, with sufficient self-confidence to overcome the fear of going to work, and at the same time to learn self-regulation, improve the ability to resist frustration.

4. Self-enrichment is also very important in the phobia of work, fear and other negative emotions are often due to people when they are very idle, because they will think about the west, afraid of the west, when your life is full, you will not have the time and energy to fear, so a fulfilling life is very important.

5. Strength determines everything, when you have enough strength, you will have enough confidence, you must strengthen your own strength, make yourself relaxed and happy at work, and get satisfaction at work, so that the fear of going to work will disappear, and then it may be the pleasure of going to work.

Hello, you said that you are worried about the bad relationship between colleagues, and I understand it.

1. I would like to ask you if you have ever tried it? You said that you were scared and didn't dare to go to work. If you have ever gone to work, have you encountered something unpleasant that makes you worry that something similar will happen again?

I think that must have had a big impact on you. But don't we just grow up in misunderstandings and setbacks, this is a bit ridiculous, but I like this passage very much, "How to get along with people you don't like but have to work with?" Beginner Rank:

Treat him as a sick person, he is pitiful, and you must love him. Intermediate: Review yourself, because you accidentally drew out the evil in his heart.

Advanced Rank: Smile at him every day, laughing at him to the point of creeping. Top Rank:

Loving him is like loving a stupid child with flaws. > Each of us is a part of society, and the path out of school, out of the family, and into society is almost similar for everyone. We walk into a new environment, meet new friends, accept new challenges, this process may bring a little bitterness and pain, but after adaptation will also be enjoyable, adaptation, yes, is adaptation, only we take the initiative to adapt to the environment, in order to live easily, the environment is there, it is changing, provoking us, we can not escape, let alone escape.

There may be occasional fears, feelings of loneliness and incomprehension, but only by moving forward can you overcome all kinds of difficulties, take the first step, and bravely persevere, and you will see changes in yourself.

Second, if you have never been to work, has not entered the society, then I hope you can let go of yourself, take the first step, in fact, not as terrible as you think, if you pay sincerely, sincerely get along with others, will always be welcomed by everyone. Work hard, study with an open mind and sincerity, treat people sincerely, and there will always be people who will accept you. There is also the need to know that everyone in this world has a different personality, which can be said to be very different.

Everyone's preferences are different, we don't have the luxury of being recognized by everyone, as long as there are some people who support us and accept us, that's good. Some people like us, some people don't like us very much, this is normal, we must live ourselves calmly and confidently, youth is very precious, life is also very short, spend every day well.

Bless you!

I was also scared, and I didn't dare to go to work, so I became an otaku for 2 years.

Attitude: What are you afraid of, have you had any unpleasant conversations with colleagues before?