What to do if you have a cowardly character? 100

To put it bluntly, you're just afraid, go learn some self-defense skills, I've already practiced, it's still a problem to deal with ordinary residents, and you'll be confident - but this is fake, it's a physical advantage, and only a change in thinking is a fundamental change. But if the change of thinking is simple, then the whole world is a cow - this can only be up to you, you want to change yourself, then you have to do things that can change your character, how to change cowardice? Why cowardice?

I think I was probably educated when I was a child, the way is to go out and break through more, experience more things, and get better after understanding more, fear is not terrible, fear and you will be finished.

By the way, family and familiar friends are used to protect and love, not to let you vent the pressure outside, you are angry at your own people, because you are acquaintances, probably won't say anything, but the psychological side will definitely not be comfortable, I hope you think about it, don't do this. things up.

My friend! You have received the love of too many people and been pampered for too long.

Cowardly. There are no cowardly people. Only those who want to be cowardly will be cowardly.

Maybe what I'm saying is a little less than right. But definitely can help you.

Cowardly people. In fact, it is also another kind of perfectionist. The more negative kind.

I don't want to argue with people. Vocal disputes. Or something else.

Actually, you understand a lot. I don't have to explain too much either. method of words.

You try 2 a little. Be a little stupid. You don't have to be so cautious all the time.

That's the point. Protect your loved ones. to bear what she doesn't want to bear.

Let the person you love feel your cowardice...Make your bluntness and anger feel by the people you hate.

Temperament and temperament. Everyone has it. Very simple. Do it first and think before you think ...Think less about the consequences.

Even if you have to bear the consequences. Also after protecting your loved ones. Let's just think about those things. Nabs.

Well, it can be changed according to the environment, and you can make more friends with cheerful personalities. Enthusiastic friends, do more things in public, such as speeches, singing, speeches, etc., slowly wait for you to be bold, you will encounter some things very calm, you should strengthen your own values, including the love of your lover and family, for some things that should be taken for granted should have a strong maintenance mentality, when dealing with it, you can imply to yourself, for example, this kind of thing is objectively wrong, I quarrel with her out of justice, and others will do the same, since I am doing this, others will definitely support itTherefore, I should be more determined that out of fairness and to protect my own interests, I should continue to do so.

Well, it's nothing, you can be whatever you want, remember to die, protect the people I love, love the people I love, I won't hurt them.

And they are not allowed to be harmed.

How to change a child's cowardly character.

Sit up a little bit. Crazy Boy movie. OK.

Have you ever taken a driver's license? It is recommended that you take the driver's license test, and you will not be afraid of things after the test. The instructors there will work on your character.

Have you found a good way, let's share our experiences.

1. Reshape your character. Anyone can develop a strong character, but most weak people have an introverted temperament, and it is not easy to develop an extroverted strong character. But an introverted and strong personality can be cultivated.

Introverted strong personality has three characteristics: the edge is not exposed but has resilience; Not enthusiastic but assertive; Not strong words, but able to stick to the right opinion.

2. Insist on yourself. Franklin first discovered the helical structure of DNA in 1951, but was criticized by the "strongman" and admitted that this discovery was wrong. Later, two scientists rediscovered the structure in 1953 and won the Nobel Prize.

Because he didn't dare to insist on his own opinion, he gave up his epoch-making discovery in biology to others, and regretted it! Alack! The psychological basis for overcoming weakness is to look up to oneself and dare to insist on oneself, especially when facing the so-called "strong man" who is flying and domineering.

3. Dare to fight back. First, learn to be angry. Weak people often do not have the experience of losing their temper in public, but are accustomed to suffering in silence.

To insist on yourself, you must dare to be angry at the right time, and you can gradually learn. You can choose a salesperson who treats customers abusively and prepare a "line": "It's too bad to treat customers like this, how can it be justified!"

Anyway, just go away.

4. Direct rebuttal. Weak people are always accustomed to compromise with other people's misunderstandings and unwarranted accusations. To overcome weakness is to learn to refute directly and not compromise.

If you are more timid and cowardly, I usually suggest that you can get in touch with the external environment, communicate with people more, and participate in more social activities.

<> anyone can develop a strong character, but most weak people have an introverted temperament, and it is indeed difficult to develop an extroverted strong character. But an introverted and strong personality can be exercised. There are three characteristics of an introverted strong personality:

Not sharp but resilient, not enthusiastic but assertive, not strong but able to adhere to the right opinions. I think you should think on the bright side, you don't want to worry too much about others when they do something wrong, maybe because of your personality, you don't want to have too much intersection and entanglement with others, it's an easy-going character, and it shouldn't be attributed to your own cowardice character, so as to increase your own inferiority complex and fear of things.

Hello! It's not terrible to be cowardly, but it's terrible that you give up on yourself. You have to be strong and confident.

Strive to improve yourself and become a better version of yourself. At the same time, exercise courage. In the case of fighting, scolding.

You're going to win the other side. Slowly you will become stronger and stronger.

Summary. Hello dear! I am a listener, and I am good at analyzing problems in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc.

Did you get something bothered? Talk to me, I'll listen carefully and help you solve your problems! You said that you have a cowardly personality and must be often wronged, it's really not easy!

Can you tell us when you feel like you're cowardly?

What is the reason for the cowardice of the character.

Hello dear! I am a listener, and I am good at analyzing problems in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. Did you get something bothered?

Talk to me, I'll listen carefully and help you solve your problems! You said that you have a cowardly personality and must be often wronged, it's really not easy! Can you tell us when you feel like you're cowardly?

The cowardice is closely related to one's own upbringing. Whether you were taken care of by your parents during your childhood, whether you were sent to the elderly or relatives for foster care, whether your parents understand and care more about your parenting style, or beat and scold and suppress you. These will all be related!

yes, I was beaten too much.

He is not hard to speak, and he is beaten at school, and he is cowering, and others feel weak.

Mmmm, it's really hard to live like this, and I feel like I'm worthless. But this person who seems weak is not the real you, and such a you are just some compromises that you have to make in order to protect the real you.

Do you remember a time when you became stronger?

Yes, that was before the age of 13.

So what happened behind the scenes? Why do you feel weaker? Can you still remember it?

I can't think of it, it seems like I've been hit hard, well, it's okay if I can't remember it for a while, you can take your time. So when we think back to the time before you were 13, what did you do when you had a conflict with someone?

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It's not terrible to have a cowardly character, but it's terrible to have a cowardly character, and you don't admit it, and you always deceive yourself and comfort yourself, so that this kind of character can't be changed, so when you feel that your character is cowardly, you must actively recognize the cowardly aspect of your character and make some changes.

Cowardly people should know how to exercise themselves boldly in life, and when they encounter unfair things, they should try to speak out, show that they are not willing to be unhappy, and let more people hear their voices. In daily life, scholars interact with others in a normal manner, make more friends, and make themselves different.

A cowardly person rarely takes a positive step forward in his life, and he doesn't know how to fight against others, and many times he hides in his comfort zone to develop, and in the long run, he becomes a depressed person and lives unhappily.

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Cowardly people are born, because cowardly people are kind, especially afraid of powerful things, afraid of strong people.

Exercise, have a strong physique, tell yourself that you are not afraid of anything, as long as you are reasonable, and you are not afraid of others being unreasonable, nothing matters.

Build self-confidence. Always think about your strengths and don't always look at your weaknesses and get nervous. We must be convinced that "I am born to be useful".

The more you pay attention to your own shortcomings, the more timid you become, and as long as you stand tall and do your own thing with enthusiasm, your wisdom and ability will be fully utilized, and you will be able to succeed. With self-confidence, timidity and cowardice will weaken or even disappear.

Arrange your own things scientifically and effectively. In normal times, you should divide the things you are facing into three levels: first, what you must do, second, what you want to do, and third, what you do not need and do not want to do, and you should concentrate all your efforts to resolutely and decisively do what you must do well.

If you have the energy to spare and have some fun, you can choose to do something you want to do. Don't do what you don't have to do and don't want to do, and don't think about it again. In the long run, you will be pleasantly surprised to find that your decisive and strong character is being formed.

It's too late to deal with it when someone really bullies you, you can't wait for the fire to catch fire and then put it out, but extinguish it from the moment it starts.

There are a few of your own experiences to give you.

1.Don't be a "tease" in front of people you don't know

When you don't understand the personality and character of a new friend, try not to make self-deprecating jokes, and try not to laugh at yourself, which will make the other person subconsciously think that you are a person who can accept vulgar jokes, and then treat you with vulgar jokes, which will slowly turn into bullying. When the time comes, you are still annoyed that he is bullying you, but in fact, you have "cultivated" an enemy.

Only when you respect yourself first can others respect you.

Strive to get in touch with new things, broaden your horizons first, and have confidence to face things calmly. You have to challenge yourself, but if you feel that you habitually want to refuse and want to escape, try to do it once.