Why do men give bride price? Why does the man give a bride price?

In fact, if a girl gives you a bride price and asks you to marry, are you willing?

If not, why not? Just because the inverted door will be looked down upon? Don't you think it's awkward and strange to go to the woman's house to live with the woman's family, and even it will be very painful to meet parents who love to make trouble?

If I could, I would rather give the boy a bride price and let him marry and live with my family. In addition, if you give a bride price, you must live with my parents when you get married, and honor my parents and my parents, and there are not a few boys who have this idea, right?

When I got married, the bride price was 19999, and at least 10,000 of it was mine. No, my premise is that I live separately from my parents, even if I can't afford to buy a house and want to rent it, I am willing.

Marriage for me, is not to find someone to live with, but to form a new family, he is the host, I am the hostess, this family is up to the two of us, he loves me, I love him, there are hardships to bear together. If one day he has a child and needs the help of his parents, his mother will forget it if she doesn't want to come, and if she wants, she will pay her salary on a monthly basis. The brothers are still settling accounts, and there is no one between parents and children.

Why do men give bride price? The key issue is that there are more men and fewer women. The market determines supply and demand. If there are too many women, then the women will have to pay the bride price.

In a way, what you say is right.

The premise is that you are good enough for the woman you want to marry and live without a bride price.

Or you lower your requirements and find a woman who is much weaker than you to marry and live.

Wanting everything to go your way is nothing but daydreaming.

If you don't want to give, you can not give, just find someone who doesn't want a bride price.

Everyone wants to have a good life. One of the most important things is to have a happy marriage.

For marriage, the most important thing is that both husband and wife truly love each other. However, this is by no means the only factor ......Whether the families of both parties support the marriage, especially whether the man's family supports the marriage, has a very important impact on whether the marriage can be happy and long-lasting.

This is the case for several reasons:

1. A marriage supported by the family can have harmonious feelings between family members and a happy and long-lasting marriage.

An important indicator of a happy marriage is the harmony between family members.

If the rest of the family does not support the marriage, there can be no harmony between the family members and no happiness in the marriage. ......Only with the approval and support of family members can the relationship between family members be harmonious and the marriage be happy.

Therefore, family support is very important for a happy and long-lasting marriage.

2. For the woman, she must marry into the man's family, so the support of the man's family is very important.

Another way to get married is to get married.

This means that after marriage, the woman will marry into the man's family and live with the man's family. ......In this way, it is very important to ...... whether the man's family members support the marriageOnly under the premise of the support of the man's family, can the woman be recognized and supported after marrying into the man's family, and the family members can get along harmoniously with each other, and the married life can be happy and long-lasting.

3. Marriage is actually a matter of two families. Therefore, the support of the family is very important.

On the surface, marriage is a matter of two people.

But in essence, marriage is really a matter of two families. ......Both parents, and even other members of both families, can have a very big impact on married life......Therefore, only with the support of the family can the marriage be truly happy and long-lasting.

4. The relationship between in-laws and daughters-in-law is very important for the stability of marriage.

The attitude of both parents is very important for both couples after marriage.

If the father-in-law, mother-in-law, father-in-law, and mother-in-law support this marriage and are satisfied with the son-in-law and daughter-in-law, then after marriage, the relationship between the family members will be harmonious, and the marriage can be happy and ......long-lastingAmong them, the recognition of parents-in-law is the most important. ......Because after marriage, the woman has to marry into the man's family and live with her in-laws, so the approval and support of her in-laws will have a very important impact on the happiness of the marriage.

Because of this, the support of the man's family is very important for the happiness of the marriage to last.

The above is the important impact of the support of the man's family on the happiness of ...... marriageOnly with the support of the man's family, but also the support of the woman's family, can the relationship between family members be harmonious and stable, and the life after marriage can be happy and long-lasting.

China is a country of etiquette, and has a deep cultural heritage in weddings, funerals, and weddings.

Since ancient times, it has occupied an important position in marriage customs, and since it is now important to pay attention to the equality of men and women, why should the man give the woman a bride price before marriage?

If there must be a reason, you Shujun believes that the following points are the most convincing:

1. Non-replaceable.

No matter how the times develop, no matter how much society progresses, no matter how equal men and women are, their natural attributes cannot be changed, and women, as wives and mothers, are irreplaceable in giving birth to children.

Although modern society is highly civilized, and inheritance is no longer the purpose of marriage, children as the hope and future of the family, if conditions permit, for couples of appropriate age, still hope to have their own love crystallization.

Second, a lifetime of dedication and waiting.

After entering the palace of marriage, women will undergo a change of identity, and as wives and mothers, they are the core of the cohesion of the family.

The world says that mother's love is great, and a woman can give up everything she has for the sake of her child, and as long as the child needs it, a woman can also give everything she has.

Behind every successful man there is a woman who pays silently, in marriage women are often the one who forbears and pays, and they choose to wait and pay for the future of the family.

Third, the value created is much higher than the bride price.

Some netizens said: Marrying a daughter-in-law home, according to the average dowry of 100,000 yuan, if the daughter-in-law can accompany you for 50 years, then the average day is more than 5 yuan.

As long as 5 yuan, in addition to going to work to earn money during the day, she will go home at night to do laundry, cooking, and sanitation ...... for your baby

After reading the complaints of netizens, what you want to say is that "nanny + mother" who is cheap and sincere like this, and one person plays multiple roles** is looking for it. The value created by marrying a daughter-in-law and returning home is far greater than the bride price itself.

Fourth, etiquette is indispensable.

Mencius said: Those who love others will always love them; Those who respect others will always respect them.

An ancient Greek philosopher once said: Politeness is the second sun of a cultured person.

Chinese pay attention to etiquette, and the bride price in modern weddings is also a continuation of the "three media and six hires", which is part of etiquette.

Whether the man gives a bride price at the time of marriage can also reflect to some extent whether the man's family is a family that is "knowledgeable" and "understands etiquette".

Rather than saying that the bride price is related to the equality of men and women, it is better to say that the bride price is related to traditional customs, and some scholars believe that the basis of marriage is love, and on the premise of respecting tradition, about the bride price: moderation is love, and overspending is harmful.

Because China is a country of etiquette, the bride price is also a tradition, a kind of respect for the woman's parents, if you don't want it, you just don't respect your parents, so if you want to marry him, don't care about the amount of the bride price.

It is now a civilized society that prohibits the buying and selling of marriage bride price. The man is not required to pay a bride price. If the man gives the bride price, the woman accepts it. Both the man and the woman go to jail.

The bride price is the sincerity of the man's family to marry the daughter-in-law, just a ceremony, the ancients were heavy money to marry a wife, I don't understand what is wrong with the people now, I think a little bride price is a lot.

The bride price has always been of far-reaching significance.

The bride price originated in the Zhou Dynasty, and the marriage etiquette in the Zhou ceremony was divided into six rites, namely, Nacai, asking for names, Najib, Nazheng, inviting the period, and welcoming in person.

And Nacai is the "gift of Naqi Cai", that is, the ceremony in which the man proposes marriage to the woman, and the two parties agree on marriage.

Usually, Nacai only needs a pair of live geese to express his word and faith.

There is another important link in the Six Rites: Recruitment.

After going through the first few steps and the marriage is basically finalized, the man sends someone to send the engagement to the woman's house, for example, in the pre-Qin period, it was valuable hard currency such as cloth and deerskin, and later it developed into money and property, and even shops and real estate.

And the gifts given by these men have become the customary bride price in later generations.

In the past, the meaning of the bride price was like this.

In the new era, the meaning of the bride price is different.

For men, the bride price is about commitment and respect for women.

There is a saying: "Some women want a bride price, not really a bride price, but want to see the other party's attitude towards marriage?" ”

I think so.

Because some people really don't really want a bride price, but just to see the other party's attitude towards themselves.

As the saying goes: "A man who is willing to spend money for you does not necessarily love you, and a man who is unwilling to spend money for you must not love you." ”

For a woman, many times she just wants the man's attitude towards marriage.

Therefore, for men, giving a bride price has always had a deep meaning.

A man takes the initiative to give a bride price, which is not only a promise to a woman, but also a respect for a woman.

Because of the man's behavior of taking the initiative to give the bride price, in the eyes of the female Tong Bu people, he has a feeling of being respected and valued.

Sometimes, being poor and being perfunctory are really two different things.

This is a very normal thing to collapse brotherhood, after all, parents have spent so much energy to raise their children to grow up in orange shirts, and it is understandable that Yuanyan wants a bride price, and these bride prices will be given to the children, so that they can start their own businesses, I wish you all the best.

Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, it is difficult for girls and boys to discuss calmly when it comes to bride price, and the first thing that comes to mind is that two people have different views.

First of all, many couples around me broke up because of the pre-marital bride price, in fact, I think that for the bride price and dowry are each other's parents' love and support for a new family, I think they are all good wishes. Why do you argue when it comes to money?

Secondly, with the development of society, people's life and work pressure is increasing, most of the modern young people have been different from the past, the change of concept and the pressure of life, late marriage and late childbearing have become the norm. In today's social reality, some families may get married because of their children, and the whole family will face poverty for a lifetime, and they will pay off their debts for this marriage for the rest of their lives.

In our affluent era, some people say that the bride price or gift money given by the man to the woman in marriage should be determined by the requirements of the woman's family and the economic situation of the man's family. In fact, the bride price is not how much the woman's family has to ask for you, or sell your daughter. The bride price also indicates the value of a modern girl, and in some cities and regions, it is called a value gift.

I hope that couples will not rise to the problem of three views because of the bride price, I hope that the simplicity and purity of love will not rise to the bride price, it has nothing to do with anything in the outside world, it is not related to the origin, and it does not care about the eyes of others, everyone understands differently, sometimes there is no need to impose it on each other, if the other party does not understand, it cannot be said that the three views of others are wrong, but everyone's experience and living environment are different. I hope that everyone will encounter love and will not be defeated by reality.

I hope I can help friends in need.

The bride price is only an appearance, and the essence is to represent the man's attitude.

1. It has been a custom since ancient times for the man to hire and the woman to accept the lottery. It is said that when the man wants to marry the woman as his wife, he needs to give the woman a gift (goods and money), which is commonly known as the bride price in our Shanxian Tan, 2. The meaning of the bride price is that the man treats the woman as a treasure and sincerely asks to marry, and it is also a thank you salute to the father-in-law and mother-in-law for raising a good daughter.

3. You must know that the woman wants a bride price, not a daughter, most women will return the money plus their dowry to the man, in case there is a change in life in the future, you can have the money at the bottom of the box as an emergency, and your life is more secure.

4. As for how much the bride price is given, this is also in accordance with the local situation or other factors, the reason why everyone now mentions the bride price is different, it is nothing more than that the modern sky-high bride price has made the form of the bride price has been given too much material meaning, and some also carry a heavy burden, losing the original intention of the bride price. If you don't raise the bride price, you have to admit that marriage is a happy event, and it is normal for the woman's family to ask for a lottery.

I believe that many people are very looking forward to marriage, because many people know that marriage is happy, and it is very beautiful, especially when they meet someone they like. It is very happy and joyful to be able to be with the person you like.

So we see a lot of people who are able to be positive and proactive when they meet someone they like. They care for each other very hard and love each other, because they hope that through their care and love, they can be with the person they like, and finally they can have a happy and beautiful marriage.

Although marriage is happy and very beautiful, we see that there are some people, especially some girls now, who will ask for a large bride price before marriage, so some people want to know whether you will choose to get married without a bride price?

I see that there are a small number of girls now, and they are very realistic, especially in love. They always make all kinds of demands on boys, they ask them to have a good job and a good family, and they will ask them for a large bride price when they are about to get married. If the boy does not meet or cannot meet the girl's requirements, then the girl will definitely not want to be with the boy.

So we see that although there are many boys who want to be with girls, they can't get married because they can't meet or meet the girl's requirements and conditions.

Of course, we also see a small number of girls. They know that in love, although material conditions are important, what is more important is the relationship between two people. So as long as two people can care and love each other more attentively, then even if there is no bride price.

As long as two people can care for and love each other well, then they are also willing to be with each other.

So each of us knows that marriage is happy, and it is very beautiful, especially when we meet someone we like, many people want to be with the person we like. But we also see that there are some people who will ask the boy for a large bride price before getting married, so some people wonder if you would choose to get married if there was no bride price?

We see that for a small percentage of girls, they are before they get married. There are always all kinds of demands on the boy, they ask the boy to have a good job and a good family, and even ask the boy to give him a large bride price, so that he is willing to be with the boy. If a boy doesn't meet the requirements, then they probably won't be with him.

But we also see a small number of girls. They know that material conditions, although important, but more important are the feelings between two people. Only two people can do a better job of caring for each other and caring for each other, so that two people can be better together and get along, although they may be.

There is no bride price, but it is precisely under the mutual care and love of the two that they will have a deeper relationship, and I believe that this will eventually make their married life happier and better.