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Only child: This kind of person has been pampered and pampered since childhood, and has been respected by me since he was a child, deposited in his own world, and deposited in the world of his parents' doting. This kind of person has never taken care of them since he was a child, has restrained them, has never suffered since he was a child, and has been tired, so he is also afraid of hardship, and his sense of responsibility is weak, and he can't bear too much pressure.
Once someone restricts them after marriage, it will be difficult for them to accept it, and it will be difficult for them to tolerate each other, because they have been used to it by themselves since they were children, and they don't know how to tolerate the word in their hearts.
I have a good friend who is married to an only child, and has been subjected to domestic violence no less than 5 times in two years of marriage. Every time it was because of the small things that were big with sesame seeds, once he wanted to push the electric car up the steps, and he had to ask his daughter-in-law to help him get out of the car, but his daughter-in-law didn't help, and the careful-eyed man kicked the pregnant daughter-in-law's feet. Can't a big man push a cart?
The man who looks down on beating women the most, is the man who beats a woman considered a man? , beating a pregnant woman is not educated at all, and she is not even as good as a brute. After the child was born, once the child kept crying, and was kicked several times by this domestic violence man, and couldn't get up when he sat on the ground, and once her mother-in-law had to tell her son at night, the thick quilt was too hot recently, and the cover was thin and cold, why didn't we have a quilt that was not thick or thin, and her son went to beat his daughter-in-law after hearing it, what are you doing every day?
I don't know how to buy a quilt for my mother.
If a woman has no economy, she has no job. will lose their position in this family, so the woman must have the financial ability to support herself. When marrying, you must also see the essence of the other party.
The essence of a person determines what kind of person he is. The most important thing is to choose the right person for you, and choose the right person to go through your life with. Otherwise, it will ruin three generations of a family.
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You know, there is a person who has never left in the depths of memory; You know, there is one person who can touch all your joys and sorrows; You know, there is a story that is always just a rendition of two people and then becomes a one-man show; You know, there's a place only we know!
There is an impossible person in everyone's memory, and it tugs at all your sensitive nerves, and you know you haven't forgotten. It seems to be this kind of relationship with Dabao, we have been in contact for ten years and have lost all our greetings. So in this year, I hurriedly agreed to a marriage contract with my husband, and I had a time that made me confused and entangled.
Dabao is my junior high school classmate because he has a cheerful personality, and during that time, Dabao's sod honey advertisement was a hit, so he was called a common Dabao by his classmates. And Dabao is also such a late autumn season began to be familiar and connected, that time Dabao and a few other classmates came to my dormitory to say that the talented girl, get to know me. We chatted late that day, and we discussed a lot of debating things, <>
Speaking of autumn, I took out a notebook and asked him to read what I had written. He said that I was very sad, and I wrote all about the sigh of the autumn rain and so on. At that time, Dabao's father and I were both school teachers, so when the students were going to study in the evening, Dabao and I went to the teacher's lounge to review.
At that time, there was no teacher for evening self-study, so many times the two of us next to each other became our common study place. At that time, Dabao would come to my room to study with me a lot of time, I was not good at math, he was not good at Chinese, and we listened to my learning machine together. Sometimes I put some secretly brought song tapes and one headphone per person, and the two fourteen-year-old children stayed quietly until late.
After a long time, many rumors began to spread, and when I knocked on the door of Dabao's room during the first snow in the winter of 16, he was gone. I walked along the school alone for a long time that day, and the first footprint was with me. Dabao was a repeater, so he told me that his mother had asked a teacher at school to supervise him and not let him wait with me, and that he would still buy hot meals in the afternoon for other classmates to call me to eat.
Probably we really didn't get in touch with each other because our homeroom teacher chatted with us, and at that time we were regarded as early lovers, so that I really fell in love with this man in the future, and I found out that many loves sprouted from youth!
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Personally, I think what kind of man is more violent, I think it should be um, the kind of person who has an incomplete family or has been violent since he was a child, and his thoughts are interesting, he may have violent tendencies
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People with a tendency to domestic violence are generally very short-tempered. The personality is also very impatient, such people generally have a tendency to domestic violence.
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When a man hides everything about himself, you don't even know. Therefore, it will be clear whether he has violent tendencies or not, and it will be clear after he gets married.
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You can't see it from the outside, only scumbags can do it, and people who really love you will not have domestic violence.
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What kind of man has a tendency to domestic violence? Looks very honest, the kind of person who drinks heavily.
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It's just your empty spiritual sustenance, your relationship with him is vulnerable in the face of reality, and you always have to return to the family
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Mo Yu: How to identify a man with a tendency to domestic violence? 4 Ways!
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Some men with a particularly bad temper have this tendency to be abusive.
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There are many reasons why men can be domestic violence, and the common ones include the following:
1.Controlling: The abuser wants to control the behavior of everyone in the family and keep himself in a dominant position.
2.Jealousy: Some men will admit that their spouse should be their own and should not allow intimate contact with others, and will be violent when they find that their spouse is in contact with others.
3.Inferiority complex: Some men have a strong inferiority complex deep down in their hearts, and force their spouses to become more dependent on them through domestic violence.
4.History of violence: Domestic abusers may have been subjected to domestic violence from an early age, and long-term physical and psychological trauma has filled them with anger and fear when dealing with their family members.
The combination of these factors affects men's mental and behavioral behavior, making it possible for them to use physical violence to control family members. Domestic violence is illegal and reprehensible, requiring intervention and action from multiple dimensions.
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Family influences or things influence.
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Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you, the characteristics of men with domestic violence tendencies: First, machismo is serious, paranoid personality, and loves to drill the horns of the bull when encountering problems. This kind of man is self-centered, and he will use force if he disagrees, and the second is that he has a temperament that is irritable, impulsive, and not calm when he encounters chiropractic, and he gets angry at every turn.
Third, they are very introverted and silent, this kind of person has a cheerful personality, likes to hold it in his heart when he encounters things, and accumulates more bad emotions, so he is easy to show it with violence.
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There is no performance, just look at what kind of attitude he usually has towards things, what attitude he has towards you and other people, analyze it.
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This kind of man may be very hidden in the early stage, you can't see it at all, and it is generally shown after marriage.
Such a person has a brutal and indifferent personality, is indifferent to the affairs of others, is very lenient with his daughter-in-law, and is very suspicious and jealous, does not let his daughter-in-law talk to strangers, treats her as his own private property, does not know how to respect, is easy to be jealous, cautious, and is particularly extreme.
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He may also have a slight tendency to be violent, or he may have a strong desire for possessiveness and control. In addition, there may be a little bit of machismo, because such a person, he will think that you don't listen to him, and he will clean you up.
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Generally, men who have a tendency to domestic violence, I think they don't have a good temper, and they are impatient, so when they encounter some things, they will beat people, scold people, or directly commit domestic violence, so you still need to be careful of this kind of person.
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It may not be easy to see just ordinary observation, it can only be said that people who are usually irritable and short-tempered are a little more likely to have domestic violence, but it is not absolute, it still depends on the actual situation of getting along.
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This kind of person is easy to get angry, emotionally unstable, only likes others to say that he is good, but does not allow others to say that he is not good, when getting along, you must observe carefully.
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The boy who is like a group of domestic violence, his performance is that he has a bad temper, he gets angry when he speaks, he wants to do it when you speak, he just starts to drop things, and then he will slowly become domestic violence.
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During the relationship, you can see that it is the kind of irritable physique, and sometimes you can't help but hammer or throw things, which belongs to boys who have a tendency to domestic violence.
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Irritable, often hands-on, or rude.
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1. Observe how he treats animals or his relatives and friends.
If a man has a tendency to abuse animals, then he is likely to be a domestic violence man or will become a domestic violence man. Usually people with violent tendencies have a habit of cruelty to animals, and this habit also translates to women who are not as physically fit as them.
Treat relatives and friends, if a man will look at his relatives and friends coldly, or even fists and feet, then even if he is good to you at the moment, he will one day treat you in the same way as relatives and friends.
2. Observe his living environment.
Most of a person's behavior patterns are learned later if his family has familial tendencies. Then there is a high probability that he will also subconsciously learn about domestic violence. In the subconscious, domestic violence is something that can exist in the life of husband and wife, and since it has become an acceptable range, then he will also bring such a behavior pattern to his life in the future.
3. Observe whether he consciously mentions domestic violence.
If a man says, "I never hit my girlfriend." "Then you should stay away in time.
Many people may wonder why he stayed away when he said that he would not beat his girlfriend. A normal person will not actively mention things that he is unconscious. When he took the initiative to mention that I never hit my girlfriend, it means that the matter of hitting my girlfriend exists consciously in his heart.
Since it is a matter of consciousness, sooner or later it will be carried out. And taking the initiative to mention this negative matter also shows that he is a little weak-minded. I want to fill in my heart by telling my own story.
It is very likely that he has now committed domestic violence against his ex-girlfriend.
The confession of not being in a hurry, not sudden, and not nervous makes it easy for girls to accept. Judging from these aspects, you are reliable, and girls feel that you are a usable talent and will not contradict you.
What is a good man like? He doesn't have to be romantic, but he has to be responsible. You don't necessarily make money, but you have to take care of your family. It doesn't have to be with you all the time, but it has to love you. It doesn't have to be machismo, but it has to come up with ideas.
Love your man! Men who care about you! Good to you man! The man who takes care of you, the man who helps you with everything, the man who makes mistakes and reasones with you! But there are very few men with the above points now! ~
There are introverted men and cheerful men, how to say it? Some people are good at expressing themselves or like to express themselves, and some people like to do something for you silently, although they are not as useful as sweet words, but they are indeed like the warm sun in winter and the cold in summer, which are melting on the things around you. Now that you know he cares about you, why ask for those linguistic clichés? >>>More