Am I going or staying

Emotional things can't be forced, since he has changed, you are trying to keep something, what can you get, and the result is only to let yourself be hurt more, rather than let yourself live in pain, it is better to be free and easy, let him know that although you love him very much, but without him, you are still the same, you have to let go when it is time to let go, if he still loves you, I believe he will still return to you, believe in yourself!

Hey, let's come to Shanghai, forget everything to have a new beginning, maybe you won't be sad if you don't meet.

It should be called the eldest sister, right?

Although I am younger than you, I would like to take the liberty of saying a few words about your question.

Falling in love is the same as finding a job (career), which will produce a kind of "path dependence".

Being together for 5 years is not a reason for you to remember him, on the contrary, you should leave.

Two people are together, the longer it is, the harder it is to break up, why?

Because I can't bear what I have paid in the past, not just "I can't bear him" to you!

The authorities are always confused, and maybe after a few years you look back and feel different.

When looking for a job, do you have a feeling that only the work you like and are good at is long-term?

It's the same with feelings.

Gently I go, just as softly I come ......”

Wishing you happiness!

Well said upstairs! Do you still love him, or are you reluctant to spend the bits and pieces with him? Don't always live with memories, slowly they are just fragments Start a new life, this is your present, this is your reality

When love is not there, wave his hand and let him go.

You can see that you are an emotional girl. In fact, the more such people, the more vulnerable they are! I'll give you a note.

Imagine that you are more important or as important than this other than being with him. Hurry up and do it! I believe that time will change everything!

Let's go, in fact, the sky outside is bigger than you think, since he has another woman with you, it's not you who should be sad, it's him, because you've just lost a man who no longer loves you, and what he's lost is a woman who loves him dearly, I hope you can understand.

There are many good men, don't give up a forest just for a tree.

Let's go. That heart must have hurt so much that it was hard to breathe. Then let it hurt little by little, to the end, and let it be numb.

Since he has gotten along with someone else, there's no point in you staying, instead of doing senseless entanglement, it's better to leave in style, at least get the respect of the person who loves you or the person who doesn't love you.

Give it up, really. There's no point in staying any longer. Although it is very uncomfortable, time should be able to dilute it, change the environment, there is no place for him, and start again.