How to deal with people who are unreasonable and speak ill of you behind your back?

Crush people under their tongues! "Why care so much? Just let him say go, it's not that you don't know who he is, and there is no way to do anything about his mouth Relax, it's good to be a mosquito!

That kind of person, too cheeky, ignores him, when he is a sick person, after a long time, he is tired, he will not be like this again.

The table affects you because of this kind of person, don't be his existence, live his own life, if he knows what he is.

If it makes you so uncomfortable, then he's going to laugh so badly, isn't he? Don't be because of someone else.

Make yourself uncomfortable and believe in yourself

You have offended him from time to time, and there is a reason why he should treat you like this, you should communicate with him positively and understand the situation, so as to prescribe the right medicine!

Some should expose him. In this way, he said that he was the one who suffered.

Yes, I feel that way, too, he really might like you.

Rectify him like Wang Xifeng, isn't it too hidden, hehe.

Ignore him. I'm about to graduate anyway.

Dealing with this kind of person will only humiliate your identity.

The body is not afraid of shadows.

Your every move is watched by others, and the eyes of the masses are bright. If he is talking nonsense and maliciously stinks you, then don't worry, the stinky person is definitely him. If what he says is not groundless, then you should examine yourself and see what he has to say.

The mouth grows on him, can you control it? Since you can't change others, you can change yourself.

When the time is right, even a sick cat has to be powerful... Hehe, I got my hands on it.

Hey, by the way, doesn't it mean that the more you bully, the more you like it? Could it be that he is trying to get your attention? Huh

Just treat him as insane, anyway, an abnormal person like him has to be endured.

As air, it is inevitable to run into such people.

If only I would beat him.

Or maybe he likes you.

I would have beaten him up earlier, but I'm a man.

Eighty percent of you like you, you should talk to him face-to-face.

As the saying goes, "Who has no one behind their backs, and who doesn't say anything behind their backs?" So in real life, we are not perfect in ourselves, and the situation of being said "bad words" behind our backs will happen from time to time, so should we "treat others in their own way", or should we consider "small and unbearable, then chaos and big schemes, endure it?"

Today we are going to talk about this topic.

The ways to deal with people who say bad things about you behind your back are to pretend to be stupid, tell the facts, confront them in private, turn their faces publicly, and find the leader to complain

1. Pretend to be stupid

In the workplace, everyone hides their emotions well, and only tears their faces when they are forced to do so. Because you will find that it takes a lot of energy to make up for it after tearing your face with others, which is why everyone has paid attention to "harmony is precious" since ancient times.

So, if the other person just says bad things about you for the first or second time, you just assume that he didn't mean to, and the smile is over.

2. Tell the truth

If you get bitten by a dog while walking, can you bite back? In the same way, it is the same at work, sometimes people slander you, frame you, and speak ill of you. You can ignore them completely on the surface, because they are cheap.

We can come up with evidence at critical moments to prove that they are talking nonsense, for example, if someone frames you for being late every day, you can call up the surveillance video to show them.

Speaking with facts is the most effective means of rebuttal.

3. Confront each other in private

Some people are really annoying, they just kick their nose in the face, you take one step back, he takes ten steps forward. He thinks you're a bully and deliberately wants to speak ill of you.

For this kind of person, we can't tolerate it, but we can't be in a hurry to tear our faces, the best way is to talk to him privately first, so that he understands that it is now your bottom line of tolerance.

In this way, everyone has a room for maneuver and does not do things too desperately.

4. Turn your face publicly

There is no need for us to continue to tolerate such stinky and shameless people. Directly confronted him in front of everyone why he said these bad things.

Moreover, the more people around, the better, and the bigger the trouble, the better. Everyone understands the truth in their hearts, even if you make trouble in public, everyone will only favor you, after all, it is his fault first.

Normally, he doesn't dare to continue after turning his face publicly, after all, he thought you were a bully, and now if we give him such a play, he will never dare to underestimate you again.

5. Find a leader to complain

Even kindergarten children know this method, and when a child is bullied, he immediately tells the teacher! The same is true at work. If someone says bad things about you behind your back, you immediately go and tell the leader.

The leader will definitely manage this kind of thing that is not conducive to team harmony. And you are also the most powerful counterattack, because after this incident, the leader will definitely not promote him again.

The best way to deal with people who often speak ill of you behind your back is to ignore them and not fight back, because this kind of person will say bad things about you and others behind your back, so you don't need to pay attention to them at all.

First of all, when I encounter such a situation, as long as I hear the voice scolding myself without seeing it, I will feel "out of sight and out of mind". They just say what they like, as long as it's in a place I can't see or hear, I don't care.

Then, if you see or hear it yourself, reason with them and warn them not to speak ill of others in the future. However, it is necessary to grasp the balance and convince people with reason. Don't be like them, worry so much, or be angry, Yang Mi said, "The people who scold you are all people who can't get used to you, and they say bad things about you are all arrows borrowed from your grass boat, you just wait for the east wind to blow and turn them into your sharp weapons."

So don't get angry with them easily, don't be angry with yourself because of their words, it's not worth it.

In the end, you still have to reconcile with them calmly, if you can't reconcile, don't force yourself, just do your own thing.

There are three kinds of people in this society, mediocre and villainous. This kind of belongs to the category of villains, and the villain is not afraid of you face to face with him, and what you can do is three points: 1

Go and win him over, Xiaoen Xiaohui can get by on your face and let him stop saying your words. 2.Go around him, transfer your contradictions with him to other people's contradictions with him, and someone will clean him up.

3.If you can't do it, bring him down.

In terms of mentality, you should put it in a good way: sit upright and walk upright. If you don't have any authority to ask him to say bad things, then if he says bad things, he is disgraced to himself.

At the same time, it will also keep the people around him away from him. Well, if he is the kind of villain who has a deep city, then you can avoid him for a short time. The workplace is a long-term learning process, and the recommended book is thick black learning.

The first method: repay grievances with virtue and repay grievances with virtue, people naturally know in their eyes, some things may become darker and darker, and it is the best way to deal with them without explanation.

The second method: try to find his handle, people will always have some weaknesses, and there will always be handles. Tap it from time to time by the handle.

If someone says something bad about you, you see if they are isolating you.

If you want to isolate you, you'd better win over someone else to get him across.

Questions. I just want to fight back against her, and then there are people who don't call the company, look at jokes, and someone is saying bad things about you, so you praise her hatefully, I don't know if it has any effect.

This also needs to praise her, the most common in the workplace.

First of all, you have to think about your standing in the company, if your immediate boss has a very good relationship with you, whatever you tell him, he will not hurt your actual interests anyway. If his boss can control your interests, then you really have to be careful. The best thing is to be obedient to the villain, first obey and then secretly find an opportunity to him.

In fact, there are too many problems in the workplace, and there will be new problems after you ask me questions today, and I can only recommend you to take a look at the conspiracy and pdd can buy resources. It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish.

Find a suitable opportunity to confront the other person in person. In fact, basically everyone will talk behind their backs, and if it's not a particularly malicious attack, just bear with it.

How to deal with it? The person who says bad things about you behind your back, I think for such a person, I think the best way is to ignore him, and he won't always talk about it, because you ignore her, she said that she felt tired, and he naturally didn't say it, if you want to hold a grudge against them and reason with them, I think such a person should be unreasonable, and you can't reason about it, so don't be angry, ignore him, and after a while, he won't go, and he won't say anything.

The best way to do this is to ignore them. Do things honestly and treat each other with sincerity, and after a long time, I think the person who says bad things about you behind your back will naturally not say it.

Bad words and good words are the way you exist. It's all good words, how do you prove that you're good? If all the bad things are true, how can you prove that you are bad? Good words can know that you are bad; Bad words can know hello. People in the world are not stupid, and they don't need to deal with it.

What about the people who speak ill of you? You ignore him? Whatever happens, don't let him know. He can't speak ill of you. Especially if you don't let him know about personal family matters, don't tell him. He didn't send it. Say bad things.

I won't care about people who say bad things about others behind their backs, just ignore him, as long as they do things right, they are not afraid of others saying bad things behind their backs.

Whoever doesn't say it to his face and behind his back is a villain!

Learn to borrow external forces to combat the villain's arrogance, the villain is called a villain, most of the time is that you are stronger than him, your popularity is better than her, he feels pressure, you are a stumbling block on his way forward, so he regards you as a thorn in the eye, a thorn in the flesh, often in front of your leader and boss to say bad things about you, provoke the relationship between you and the leader, and cause the leader to distrust you.

What should you do in this situation? Don't confront him head-on, just treat you as if you don't know anything, as long as you have the opportunity, you will say good things about him in front of the leader, say his advantages, say that his ability to do things is strong, and exaggerate his advantages infinitely, for a long time, the leader will feel that you are a very upright person, very generous, regardless of personal gains and losses, it will improve your personal temperament, and relationships.

When the leader is accustomed to your generosity, your selflessness, and trust you, if the villain still says bad things about you in front of the leader, the leader will think that this person has a problem, is narrow-minded, not generous enough, and after a long time, he will also think that he is a villain.

Summary. Okay, dear, I asked you about the question: how to deal with the person who says bad things about you behind your back?

The answer is: Re: The first move:

It is written in the chapter of Guiguziquan to attack and defend that the first division is not enough to suffocate the non-anti. Guiguzi's approach is very realistic. He won't talk to you about the pattern, he won't reason with you, and he won't let you tolerate it, but just put aside the facts and expose the other party's mistakes, what do you mean?

It is to give back to the other in his way. Since others are unreasonable, then you should not reason with him, and since others spread negative information about you, then you should also double your dedication, and still people respect me a foot, and you respect others. In fact, attack is also a part of defense, let him know that you are not easy to mess with, and he will not dare to trouble you casually in the future.

Therefore, you also need to find the other person's shortcomings and understand his weaknesses. Instead of proving your innocence, it is better to directly condemn his mistakes in return, so that the person who hurt you can also feel the taste of being slandered. I really hope it can help you, if it helps, give me a thumbs up and support it, I wish you peace and smoothness

Okay, dear, I found your question: How to deal with people who say bad things about you behind your back? The answer is:

Re: The first move: It is written in the chapter of Guiguziquan to defend the Guiguzi Quan that the first score is not enough to suffocate the non-anti.

Guiguzi's approach is very realistic. He won't talk to you about the pattern, he won't reason with you, and he won't let you tolerate it, but just put aside the facts and expose the other party's mistakes, what do you mean? It is to give back to the other in his way.

Since others are unreasonable, then you should not reason with him, since others spread negative information about you, then you should also double down on Jian Li's old age, and still people respect me, and you respect people. In fact, attack is also a part of defense, let him know that you are not easy to mess with, and he will not dare to trouble you casually in the future. Therefore, you also need to find the other person's shortcomings and understand his weaknesses.

Instead of proving your innocence, it is better to directly condemn his mistakes in return, so that the person who hurt you can also feel the taste of being slandered. I really hope it can help you, if it helps, give me a thumbs up and support it, I wish you peace and smoothness

The second trick: When he is farting, the reason why others dare to say bad things about you behind your back is that he is jealous of you, and the more you ignore him, the more he speaks, which is like the crab effect. The crab effect is that if a fisherman hits a crab, he needs to cover it with a hug, because the crab will crawl out on its own, but if you hit a group of crabs, you don't need to cover it, because once there is a crab, when he wants to climb out of the cuddle, he will be dragged down by other crabs, and none of them can run out.

So when someone slanders you and says bad things about you, you can't drag him like a crab, and in the end you will be dragged down by the other party, what you should do is not to be in a cage with him, ignore him completely, and only focus on doing your own thing, so that he has nothing to do with you.