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I think the moment when a long-distance relationship feels very sweet is when the other party suddenly comes to see me. In fact, I really don't like long-distance relationships, but I really like you too. So I climb the mountain for you and am not interested in the scenery.
All my efforts are for one word: you. If love is a spiritual practice, long-distance love is as difficult as learning from the West.
Some people do good deeds, some die on the road, and some people always think about you。Three years of long-distance love, the very sweet moment was the moment he got off the bus and saw him, he hugged me, touched my head, and said he missed me. I sleep at night and listen to the radio a lot.
Sometimes I ask him to tell me stories. No matter how late he was, he would tell me stories. It takes days to tell a story because every time I hear the same posture, I fall asleep.
Once, when the story ended, and I wasn't asleep, I heard him ask, "Did you sleep?" "I pretended to be asleep and ignored himThen I heard him whisper, "Good night, baby." At that time, it was a weekend, and I was chatting with my classmates while walking on the road after dinner.
Out of the blue, my girlfriend sent me a message. The information above shows her location, indicating that she is already at my school. Wow, I was excited in an instant!
Once I had a fight with him and he didn't get my letter. I hugged the quilt and wept bitterly.
Seven or eight hours later, he sent me a text message saying that the stars were very beautiful tonight and asked me to go out and have a look. I ran out and took a look. He lied, it was dark, he said you look down, the stars are here.
As a result, he was standing downstairs shaking his phone and smiling at me. Today, I told him that there was a lyric that touched me deeply: "I climb the mountain for you, but I don't want to see the scenery".
I didn't expect him to blurt out, "I'm crossing the ocean for you and just want the monologue to turn into a conversation." ”
Of course, the sweetest thing is to meet. Every time we meet, I believe that this long-distance love will last forever. So I think the moment when a long-distance relationship makes you feel very sweet is to come to see me out of nowhere. The above is a personal opinion.
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Personally, I don't think it deserves a moment that makes me feel so sweet.
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It's every time he's looking for me.
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It's when my boyfriend comes to me every time.
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It should be when you feel that the other party is also working hard for it.
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The more you talk about a long-distance relationship, the sweeter it gets! 3 love tips to keep love fresh and not break up.
Today, I will share the long-distance relationship skills from Winnie, and share the three key points with you, hoping to let more long-distance relationship babies know and improve your current long-distance relationship status.
The most aggrieved time of a long-distance relationship is that I feel that I am in love with a mobile phone, and he is not around when he needs to be accompanied, like when he and his partner are studying in different cities, he also came to our school to see me for a few days. After he left, I went to the store where I used to buy fruit at the school gate to buy apples, but when I paid the bill, the boss told me that your boyfriend had paid for it. I knew that her object secretly added the boss's WeChat, saying that in the future, she Sou Feng went to buy fruit and directly asked him to pay, although it was a very small thing, but at that time it made me feel that even if you are not by my side, I still have you in my real life.
It's very heartwarming. You can learn from it, and then when you are in daily contact, if you can make a call, don't just send voice, and when you can send voice, don't type. Let him see, hear, and feel you alive.
Key point 2: Create exclusive memories.
Long-distance relationships fade many times, because they have too little time together, they can't create new memories together, and slowly there is nothing to say. But in fact, every day that you don't meet, you can also record it with ** and text. For example, if you get up and send a ** to each other or you have lunch, put these in different places, but do the same thing** together, you can secretly accumulate it.
When we meet, let's look through it together, this is an exclusive romance of a long-distance relationship. In addition, couples who don't meet each other can also play games and watch movies together. When playing games, you can also pull each other's friends together to cover them, so that you can better integrate into each other's lives and worlds.
Key point 3: Give the other party enough security and trust (the most important).
It's so difficult for people to be together every day, and long-distance relationships are more likely to make people panic. So don't let the other party not be able to contact you for a long time, even if your phone is running out of battery outside, be sure to tell her in advance, and don't do anything that may make the other party misunderstand. For example, getting too close to friends of the opposite sex around you, even if they are really pure friends, can easily make people uneasy.
So whether it's a boy or a girl, please try to build a sense of security in this long-distance relationship.
Finally, try to maintain a sense of ceremony, or a small surprise, if you have time, you can secretly go to the city of TA on special days such as the other party's birthday and anniversary. If you can't meet for the time being, you can create a little surprise in the bits and pieces of life. It doesn't have to be a festival to create such a small surprise, but to intersperse the small world blind surprise in the lives of the two of you.
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1.Don't let the wait be long
Long-distance couples can agree with each other to meet for a suitable period, so that every time they separate, they will look forward to the next meeting, and they will be more happy because of this expectation in the days when they can't see each other. Don't let each other's wait always be far away, even if it is true that due to some special reasons, the agreed time will not be able to meet, but at least after communicating with each other, there is a plan for the next meeting, and both go to the same happiness.
2.Recording strengthens feelings
You can use some software to record each other's daily life, or you can agree on time synchronization to watch**, which is equivalent to having a small space belonging to each other. In this small space, there is no limit to the way of recording, such as daily food, recording special days, one thing we did together for the first time, or interesting things in my life that I met Pai Buhong.
3.Some habits that belong to each other
On days when we can't usually see each other, Dustbook can have a daily habit to keep communicating, such as at lunch or dinner**. In addition to the regular good morning and good night, there can also be some special moments, such as the two of us sometimes saying "I love you" at 5:20 p.m., or having each other's nicknames, etc.
4.Resolve conflicts in a timely manner
The most feared thing about a long-distance relationship is a quarrel, because many times if you talk about it with a hug, it will be solved, but you can't see or touch it in a different place. For contradictions, it is necessary to communicate with the mentality of "solving problems", and it is best to solve the contradictions of the day on the same day. Don't be cold war and cold violence, if you want to go on for a long time, you must go through some run-in periods, communicate when you encounter contradictions, propose reasonable solutions to each other, and make changes for each other under the premise of "not sacrificing yourself".
5.Pay attention to the sense of ceremony
It may be easier to flatten the relationship to a certain extent during a long time, so some anniversaries like between you are important. Don't think too much about it and don't have to buy expensive gifts, but at least keep it in mind. In fact, life is full of rituals, and you can also create small surprises, depending on whether you use it or not.
6.Trust each other and give them a sense of security
A sense of security does not come out of nowhere, it needs to be given by both parties. Give the other person enough security, reduce friction, and increase happiness. For example, you can say hello before you are busy, and you can describe it a little after you are busy.
Keep the desire to share, involve each other in your own life, introduce each other's friends to each other, etc. Secondly, you also need to trust each other, don't be overly suspicious, and fully understand each other.
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1.Firm beliefs: Believe in each other's feelings, believe in your own choices, be firm in your beliefs, and don't be swayed by the voices around you.
4.Plan for the future: Make plans and goals, plan for the future together, trust each other's commitments, and pursue happiness together.
5.Contact life: In a long-distance relationship, the lives of both parties are very different, and you can learn more about each other's city, culture, customs, etc., so as to enhance mutual understanding and return to work.
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Although I can't see it every day, there will still be ** porridge in the evening; Although he may not be around when he is sad, he will also tell the person who came because of this; Although the time frequency is different, the things shared are also strange and strange; Although the road is unbearable, but the full ticket is also a kind of memory, although rarely shopping together, but your express delivery has been frequent, although the distance is far away, but two places two experiences.
Though. But.
On birthdays, both of them bought tickets in advance to each other's city to make a fuss, and he or she suddenly appeared in the mall "long-planned", when he or she saw the surprise he and his girlfriend conspired to prepare together, a certain handmade gift that suddenly arrived one day, and was particularly excited when he saw each other for a long time, anniversary gifts, birthday gifts, Valentine's Day gifts, New Year's gifts, etc., etc., etc., you will never know what it is in advance, and you may receive a response after a few days of unintentional words in **, when you meet againHe can see the slightest change in you at a glance. Receiving couriers, receiving gifts, receiving blessings and other news, waiting for **, waiting for him to come, are all beautiful things, because they are precious, so harvested. Because it's worth it, wait.
There will always be unexpected surprises and gains in long-distance relationships. Because of the less time together, together to cherish more, there is a saying called "distance produces beauty", it is not unreasonable, the two of you will be more recorded, memories seem to be sweeter.
If two people really like each other or even love each other, then don't propose to break up because of a certain difficulty in a different place, the breakup may really be missed, and you will regret it. Hold on, and your relationship will be stronger and precious. Of course, if it really doesn't fit, or if there is something excessively wrong, then the breakup is another problem.
Communicate more and communicate more, and give the other party enough security and enough trust. Learn to talk about long-distance relationships, two people manage well, love well, and treat them sincerely. I hope that we don't see the daily life of a long-distance relationship as suffering, but as an expectation and a kind of happiness.
You can chat every day, play ** when you have time at night, send messages when you have time during the day, and then send some interesting expressions to increase the happiness and freshness between each other.
My boyfriend and I are in school, he is in Beijing and I am at home, it has been four years, the relationship is still very good, now he goes home to work and I go to Beijing to study for graduate school, he works while taking the postgraduate examination, can see each other for two months a year, probably, but the goal of the two people is the same, in order to be happier together in the future, long-distance relationship is good, every time we meet, there is a sense of freshness, and we can test each other in the time when we don't meet, you can send small gifts, you can stay all night**, you can do a lot of things that couples who stick together all day long can't do, So, if you love him and he loves you even more than you love him, then don't care about that!
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