How do you think you can keep things fresh in a long distance relationship?

You can chat every day, play ** when you have time at night, send messages when you have time during the day, and then send some interesting expressions to increase the happiness and freshness between each other.

If you want to keep it fresh, the most important thing is to keep a suitable distance, and it's best to keep it fresh for long-distance relationships, because they are always in two places.

Try to understand your boyfriend, give him enough personal space, learn to empathize, try to avoid quarrels, life is full of surprises, not only girls need surprises, men are the same, it will be sweeter to prepare more small surprises in daily life.

In this way, love will be even sweeter. A stable sense of security will maintain the freshness of a long-distance relationship.

You can create small surprises for each other from time to time, such as secretly going to each other's cities, and changing your style from time to time when chatting, so that the other party has a new feeling.

Don't repeat some details of your life every day, you can maintain some mystery appropriately, and of course, you also need to go to each other's cities to see each other after a long time.

You can buy some small gifts for each other to give to each other, and express your love for each other through small gifts, how to keep it fresh even if you have a long-distance relationship.

We need to strengthen communication in letters and on mobile phones, through which we can reduce the sense of distance between the two sides, and we can also share some new things about ourselves with each other to shorten the distance.

If he loves you very much, he will not ask you to do a lot of novelty every day, but you can also tell him every day what kind of things you have encountered, which can also cultivate your relationship.

Long-distance relationships to keep fresh require: 1Stay connected every day.

Both parties have their own things, and if you don't see each other in person, it's easy to feel alienated and unfamiliar if you don't keep in touch every day. No matter how busy you are, be sure to find time to chat with each other and know what each other is busy with, so that not only will you not be estranged, but you will also let the other person see a fresh you.

2.Do something together, like watch the same movie, read the same book. After watching the movie, you can exchange your feelings about watching the movie, or complain about the plot or sigh about a touching plot, and you can exchange experiences after reading the book, so that the two can have a common topic.

3.It is better for both parties to have mutual friends, so that there are not only more common topics but also a sense of groundedness. In fact, in general, long-distance relationships are not often met, so they are already fresh, and more importantly, they maintain a sense of security.

To a certain extent, the above suggestions are also ways to maintain a sense of security.

In 14 to 15 years, I also experienced a long-distance relationship for a year and a half, when I was in Wuhan for graduate school and she worked in Nanning. At present, they are all living in Nanning and have their own lovely baby. I feel like I'm happy in my life right now.

1.Cultivate enough emotional foundation before a long-distance relationship to get through the run-in period. Before our long-distance relationship, we experienced a non-long-distance relationship for more than 4 years.

She graduated before me, and she stayed in Wuhan to work for more than two years without relatives and no reason except me, during which time I was in graduate school. We escaped the curse of "break up when you graduate". I have also experienced small quarrels, but each time we resolve them, we will understand each other better, identify with each other, and have deeper feelings.

I knew she wouldn't have stayed if it weren't for me, so she made a sacrifice for me, and I was grateful to her in my heart.

2.The two have a unified view of the world, values, and love. Before the long-distance relationship, we basically unified the three views. The yearning for life tends to be unified. It's very comfortable to be together and enjoy the time together. It is a loved one, but also a loved one.

3.The two have firm goals for the future and always maintain a vision for a better future. A year before I graduated, she went to Nanning for a better job and her family was in Nanning, and I continued to stay in Wuhan.

However, we made it clear that we would live in Nanning, the "green city", and start our own family, believing that it would be better after this short separation.

4.Know how to appreciate each other's goodness and express it appropriately.

1.Don't cold war.

The Cold War is the most emotionally hurtful, and in a long-distance relationship, the message can't hear the tone, you can't see the expression, and the Cold War doesn't even have the most basic communication, so don't have the Cold War.

2.Chat more, communicate more.

Chat with him more, and then you can share with him the little things in your life, such as you saw a stray cat on the street today, so cute; For example, it's raining here today, and your shoes are wet ......Tell him more about your daily routine, and the two of you can get to know each other better.

3.Find opportunities to meet and surprise.

Although it is said to be a long-distance relationship, but meeting is also very important, every meeting is a surprise, do not make contradictions when you meet, but if you are unhappy, you must also say, because you said, he knows, you don't say that he may not know, and then face-to-face is better communication, you can also take the opportunity to take pictures as a souvenir, after all, every meeting is precious.

1. Write a letter! **Playing every day, you can feel good at first, but after a long time, it has become a habit, and the other party will think that this is the right thing to do. Start with the aspect of connection and find freshness!

Nowadays, people rarely write letters, writing letters is a very effective way to keep a sense of freshness, generally long-distance relationships are far away, a letter may take a week, which can make the other party have expectations, look forward to the content of the letter. And the advantage of writing a letter is that you can write out everything you want to say, and you miss him so much, etc., a lot of things that we can't say in **, WeChat, **.

2. Suddenly appear in front of him and her. It's okay to take a few days off, but don't tell the other person, sell a good ticket, bring the other person's favorite thing, go to his city, buy a bouquet of roses, suddenly appear in front of the other person, and tell the other person, you miss her a lot, love him her. Come to a surprise today, the other party will definitely cry.

3. Secretly buy something that the other party likes very much online or send it to the past. It's also a way to keep things fresh.

Two people in a long-distance relationship must often give each other some gifts to create some romance and surprises, so as to keep it fresh and promote mutual affection.

You can find some topics that the other party likes to chat with every day, but also understand some of the other party's interests and hobbies, and then go to the place to chat with the other party, but also say some sweet words every day to make the other party happy, and you can also create some small surprises can also enhance the freshness of the two of you, and you can share some of the fun you encounter in life with each other.

Two people in a long-distance relationship must keep in touch every day, communicate every day, and also set a time for two people to see each other, so that they can have a fresh feeling with each other.

Long-distance relationships should keep in touch every day, express how much they miss each other, and also send some gifts or surprises to each other in life.

Two people have to play ** every day, share what they see, and keep it fresh, so that it will last a long time and will not break up.

Many people say that long-distance relationships are very difficult, in fact, the distance of long-distance relationships is not in geography but in the heart

1. Make the other person feel needed

Because I love you, I need you. Whether it's love or liking, it's important that a person needs to be needed by the other person, especially for long-distance couples. You can set a time**or communication** every day, as long as you think about the other person, you have to tell her, to make the other person feel that you are needed, so that the other person can always feel the importance of yourself in your heart.

These are the ties between you, and they bind you together.

2. Share your daily life

No matter how busy you are, take the time to tell the other person about your daily life, so that she will feel that she is involved in your daily life. Whatever happens, as long as the two of them have time, they can share it like this, so that the two of them will feel like they are next to each other. If you don't share, the other person won't know what you're doing, and they'll be blind.

3. Don't get angry overnight

It is very common for lovers to have emotions between them, but they must not be angry overnight, in fact, many times one party coaxes and gives way, and the other party will be soft-hearted, at ease, and say that they are not right, and understand each other. In fact, you can try to adjust your mentality, you think, as a long-distance relationship, others can be coaxed at any time, but you can only coax through the screen, so you can easily understand each other.

4. Life needs a sense of ritual

Whether it is on an important festival or in daily life, you can occasionally create some small surprises for each other to express your deep love and concern for each other. Whatever it is, the other party will be happy as long as they receive it. It is better to write a letter on it, and in this information age, writing a letter is still a romantic thing.

5. Create opportunities to meet

No matter how much affection, you can't just rely on the network to maintain contact, you can discuss a time between the two parties, take this meeting as a common goal for both parties in the short term to work together to look forward to, the fare is expensive, then go to earn this fare, I believe that the delay after the meeting will heat up the relationship.

6. Plan for the future together

Even if you are not in the same city now, you must tell each other that you have her in your future life plan. Two people in a different distance often have the idea of giving up, which is the motivation for you to continue walking.

7. Trust each other

Trust is the foundation of the relationship, and most of the breakups in long-distance relationships are because of suspicion or distrust, so there must be trust between each other. Trust is two-sided, and if you want the other person to trust you, then you have to trust the other person as well.

A long-distance relationship is indeed very painful, but if you can survive the long-distance relationship, most of it will be a positive result. Therefore, in a long-distance relationship, you must persist and persist, and one day you will be able to see the moon.

I'm Zhou Xiaopeng, a psychological counselor, emotional mentor of the love defense war, contact me if you encounter any emotional problems!

Spend more time chatting and communicating. Originally, because of the distance, I often can't see it, and if I don't communicate often, the two people will have a distance, and the relationship will become weaker and weaker.

Trust the other person and believe in your feelings. Long-distance relationship hesitation and Xun Xun do not see each other for a long time, and when you can't see each other, you will have suspicions, thinking that the relationship will fade after a long time, and sometimes there will be contradictions because you don't believe in them, and the contradictions will make the two Chang lead individuals go further and further.

Plan well and give the other person a sense of security. First of all, you have to understand what a sense of security is, when we learn to give, we will feel grounded, give trust and care, when giving becomes a habit, we can gain security and trust, giving does not mean ' Silly', we are in love or in our interactions with people, if we can't feel each other's sincerity for a long time, we can choose to leave each other, it is not a good choice for both parties, we must make a long-term plan and short-term planning, long-term planning, such as when the two end their lives in different places, which city to develop together, these must be planned in advance, so that each other can have a sense of security. The short-term plan is how often we will see each other, and what efforts we can make to get together.

Establish goals together and work together to accomplish them. Of course, the current love must have a more or less material foundation, the relationship will be solid, and the era of getting married without nothing has passed, but I think that feelings should not be built on money, marriage is two people working together to work hard, and only the love that two people have struggled for is tested.

Long-distance relationships can be kept fresh by:

To give each other a sense of security is to affirm each other. In this way, love will be even sweeter. A stable sense of security will maintain the freshness of a long-distance relationship.

2.You have to see each other once or twice a month, and the saying "distance produces beauty" is sometimes true, but if time goes by, the phrase "time will dilute everything" will also be fully reflected. Now with the development of science and technology, everyone has a call, and every day, love will last forever.

3.When you feel that you have a psychological distance from the other party, you should find a time to come out and go on a date with him, calm down and talk about it, and at the same time, you must be honest about your psychological doubts to avoid misunderstandings between the two, so it is best to make the doubts in your heart clear. Originally, they were separated by two places, so it was essential that there would be a gap, and this should be mentally prepared to resolve it.

4.Love needs to be preserved, surprises are always the preservative of love, and every couple will like the unexpected surprises that each other has carefully prepared for themselves. Therefore, the best love technique in a long-distance relationship is to have a surprise meeting, bring a surprise to the other party, bring their favorite things, and use snacks to create romance, which can keep the relationship unchanged and even warm up.