If couples can t even quarrel with each other, isn t it time to say goodbye?

Perhaps this verifies a sentence in the Analects, 50 and ear smooth. Oh.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun. Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the sky.

There is no one right or wrong between lovers, and if you disagree and engage in a cold war, it means that there is something wrong with the way this man deals with problems, and his emotional intelligence is extremely low. Such a person will not have a good career either. Whether in marriage or at work, good communication skills and team spirit are essential qualities.

After a quarrel, he turned around and left and engaged in a cold war, such a boyfriend is too immature and has extremely poor communication skills. In fact, the difference between men and women is manifested in marriage and love, where there are contradictions, men are used to avoiding contradictions, while women are more serious and want to solve problems as soon as possible. As a man, he should show patience and sincerity, be the master of solving family conflicts, start from the root of the problem, find the cause, and try to find a solution, such a man is the most responsible.

Quarrels are serious internal friction, and quarrels should be avoided as much as possible, but there is no bump in daily life, and the key is how to end up after a quarrel depends on the quality of the husband and wife. After a quarrel, the man throws his hand and leaves, probably to give the wife or both of them time to calm down. But if you don't take the initiative to end the situation no matter how sad and sad your wife is, and don't take the initiative to end it.

As the saying goes, boys are the sky, and women are the earth. Men should be magnanimous and tolerant of their wives, although quarrels are a slap in the face, but housework, especially between husband and wife, can sometimes be talked about. Husband and wife are of the same heart, their profits are broken, husband and wife are harmonious, and the family can be happy.

And quarrels can only affect the relationship between husband and wife, and the more noisy they are, the weaker their feelings will be. The prolonged cold war has seriously affected the relationship and physical and mental health of the couple, and even led to the breakdown of the marriage. Love is tolerance, tolerance, and respect.

The husband should understand more about his wife's difficulties, how difficult it is for a woman to do housework for you to give birth to a child, and a woman understands the hardships of her husband to start a family. As long as husband and wife truly respect each other, truly love each other, and are willing to pay for each other, they will not quarrel, and even if they quarrel, they will take the initiative to end up avoiding a cold war. As long as the husband and wife are harmonious, the relationship is more and more affectionate, a smooth and smooth family, and the family business is prosperous, and the marriage is sweet and happy!

Can you accept this behavior of your boyfriend for a long time, and if you can. Then think more about his good and cherish this relationship. If you can't accept it for a long time, then separating as soon as possible is also the best destination for your relationship.

Communicate well with your boyfriend and tell him what you think, so that he understands what you think, so that you can strengthen your relationship.

After the quarrel, the relationship between the two people will become particularly bad, and it is also because they want to save face, so they will not talk to each other.

This is because both people have relatively strong personalities, and then after a quarrel, they both feel that there is a problem with the other party, so they are not willing to take the initiative to compromise and make concessions.

Because both people are waiting for each other to apologize first, and they are both waiting for each other to bow their heads first, they will not talk to each other.

Because the emotional ups and downs of the two people are very large, and at this time, the two people are also afraid of face and are unwilling to take the initiative to speak.

After the quarrel, they are angry with each other, and it may be sad to talk again at this time, and everyone is emotional, and they don't want to pay attention to each other.

1. Don't have to fight over who is right and who is wrong, and the conflict in the relationship is often not because one person is right and the other person is wrong. It's that when many couples quarrel, they don't think the same thing in their hearts at all. Therefore, when quarreling, it is best not to fight over who is right and who is wrong, and only stop if someone admits their mistakes and makes amends.

2. Know how to analyze the real reasons for quarrelsMany things are usually difficult to change in a while, because these behaviors and habits have been ingrained in the original shouting family, so they have been brought into the relationship between the two. 3. Try to avoid accusing each other of quarrelsOnce it falls into mutual accusations and accusations, the door of communication will be closed, which will also cause great harm to the relationship between the two. 4. Know how to give the other party a step in order to avoid the further expansion of the war, you must cool down and extinguish the fire before heating up the quarrel.

Sometimes you can't win or lose in a quarrel, and you can play a trick on you, maybe Zheng Blind Cover can really quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, and the more noisy it is, the sweeter it is.

There are many couples who love to quarrel, and it is a way for them to get along with each other because they love each other and everyone will have their own way of getting along, Most couples will focus on themselves when they quarrel, and they will not even care about each other's feelings at all, always saying that you don't love me anymore, you just don't love me anymore, I just hope you can pay more attention to me, am I wrong? Wait a minute. As a result, communication slowly evolves into vexatiousness.

But this kind of quarrel is not good for couples at all。When you have a quarrel, think about it from the other person's point of view, recall the whole process of your quarrel, think about who started it, whose fault it was, and who provoked it. In fact, what he said represents his opinion, you should understand the meaning of her words, he is actually expressing his hope that you will understand him, try to think about the problem from the other person's point of view, think about who is right and who is wrong in this matter, and think about how you solve this matter if you are him.

Learn to understand each other, be considerate of each other, and think from each other's point of view, and maybe you will have a whole new understanding of your partner. After the couple quarrels, they will enter a cold war period, and no one wants to bow their heads and admit defeat first, and will ignore each other for several days and do not communicate with each other, so no one will take the initiative to reconcile. This is wrong, couples need to grasp the time of the cold war, the relationship will fade after a long time of the cold war, and the relationship will be weakened, which means a breakup.

Therefore, after the quarrel is over, you must take the initiative to contact the other party in the short term, and don't regard the quarrel as a vindictiveness, after all, you can sleep together with the boat for a thousand years.

Love is like this, no matter how unreasonable the other party is, they will choose to tolerate and choose to forgive, so that the love between two people will last longer. There is nothing to do with the small quarrels between couples, and when both of them take a step back, they can be reconciled immediately.

Because it is normal for couples to quarrel with each other, couples need to run in with each other.

Every couple gets along differently, and some couples are like this, and they will eventually get married.

The main reason for this is that they have a relatively peaceful state of mind.

Because there will always be times when they are particularly out of tune, and they will be angry after the quarrel.

Quarrels may be a way for them to develop relationships, and everyone is different.

Because many times some people think that noisy and noisy is love.