My husband always checks my account balance, what does this mean?

Updated on society 2024-02-20
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are many reasons for doing this, and everyone is different, so it is recommended that you analyze it based on your actual situation and family situation.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your husband cares about your income and expenditure and consumption, which means that you have the right to know your account.

    At best, he cares about whether you have enough money, and if it is not enough, it will be transferred to you, and at worst, he actually starts to pay attention to your spending, where every money you spend goes, and he wants to know.

    The husband checks the balance of his wife's account, it is nothing in front of you, if there is no contradiction between you, if it is behind your back to check your balance, then you have to ask him. Communication between couples is important.

    If you earn the money in your account, you don't have to worry about what will happen to you, even if you want to check it, then check his mobile phone, so that you can be treated equally.

    I think it's good for two people to divide their own money, everyone is an adult, and they always have a little bit of their own control, if his salary is handed over to you, and your account is always queried, will you feel that he actually has to be in charge of his own money, you spend his money, he will naturally care and want to know that the money has gone**.

    Sometimes he wants to use the money, and he is embarrassed to ask, so he quietly inquires about your balance, and has a bottom in his heart, thinking that your balance is enough for him to use, and then ask for money, make a preparation, wow, so scheming, such a husband, talk to his wife well, worry that his wife will not give, if he grasps his wife's account balance, his wife will not shirk and not give money.

    My husband always frequently inquires about your balance, that is, he cares about your money, what does he care about, you can ask him, as long as his wife spends money for this family, there is no need to be afraid of him checking the post, you should buy it for yourself, and you are also a member of the family.

    No matter what the purpose of checking your balance, you have to be calm, things always have to be communicated and resolved, and don't be too suspicious, as long as you haven't done anything sorry for him, let him check it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not very clear about your question, is the account balance you are talking about the balance of the mobile phone account or the balance of the bank card account? These two balances are completely different mental thoughts. If it is the balance of the mobile phone account, I can only sigh, your husband cares for you meticulously, even if you don't spend it one day, you can't be contacted, so pay attention to your balance anytime and anywhere, so as to replenish your expenses in time, it is really a good husband in China.

    But if he's looking into your funding account, there's a problem. This shows that he is very important to money and is sensitive. He usually controls money very strictly, and he is also very rational about consumption.

    This kind of man should be very good at living, budgeting, and have a long-term plan for the future. But there's one thing that's wrong, his desire to control is more than his own, and it's up to you. In his opinion, since you are married, then the woman can no longer spend money indiscriminately, and he feels obligated to control you for the sake of your common future.

    First of all, this reflects his distrust of your consumption concept, he feels that you can't control yourself, you will squander, lose money, and eventually affect the whole family. This is a good intention, but this practice will make you feel that you are being monitored and constrained, and you need to open up and have a good psychological communication with your husband.

    To put it more seriously, if you are independent of money, he may still covet your money, which comes from his instinctive love for money, and he can't control his desire to grab all the money he can get around him into his pocket. If the relationship between the two of you is strong, and you also believe in him as a person, you can also try to discuss it, let him take charge of the finances, save him from always spying on you like a spy, and you will be able to easily end up with no worries about the food, rice, oil and salt at home.

    The above is also my personal opinion, the main thing is that you husband and wife can sit down and have a good talk, clear up the doubts in your heart, and let him tell you what he thinks in his heart. You can also discuss how to solve it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Is there still money to spend if you are cared about by others? Are some of the recent household expenses still sufficient? Otherwise, it's up to you to see if a stranger transfers money to you. As for which situation it is, it needs to be confirmed according to the actual situation.

    First of all, if there is no problem with the relationship between two people, it may be that he is not good at expressing it, causing you to think too much about it. He may be worried that your money is not enough for family expenses, personal contacts, or something. You can ask him honestly, is he always staring at that balance, is he afraid that you will transfer this home?

    Or do you want to see if the money can give birth to you a few more times? Haha, sometimes it might be better for a couple to chat in a different way. This also fully shows that he is a very careful and considerate person.

    It may just be that he is not good at expressing his true emotions in his heart. In addition, there is a kind of incompetent man, he is unwilling to earn money or will not manage his own money, often stretched, maybe he has encountered some problems recently, need to spend money, and embarrassed to say directly, just use this way to remind you, ask him to ask, there are indeed many such people, here, is his careful consideration or ulterior motives? You need to judge this according to the actual situation, and if you don't understand the situation, you don't dare to make a conclusion at will.

    Secondly, if there is a problem in your relationship, he should be suspicious of you. Maybe he knows your salary and thinks that your recent spending is completely different from what you used to be. He suspects that you have a new financial backbone, so check every now and then to see if your balance has changed, and what is the details of your fund transactions?

    If so, this situation should be your unilateral dislike of him, if he has ideas and doesn't want to have a good time with you, he doesn't need to doubt you, just do what you want. Maybe a person who cherishes you is silently heartbroken, and you only see him who is silent on the surface.

    In view of this, most of the reasons for this situation are most likely to be these, and how to face it in the end, how to choose, depends on your own will.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This may just be that he wants to know the financial information of the family, you can think optimistically, of course, it may be that he does not trust you so much, worried that you are not managing your money properly and spending money indiscriminately, so if this is the case, I suggest that you manage each other's salaries separately, so as to effectively avoid unnecessary conflicts.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your husband is really a cautious eye, I'm afraid you have private money, my husband will also look at my consumption records, I really hate this, it means that this man's heart is too small, too unmanly!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Set a gesture password for your Alipay, and your husband won't be able to enter your Alipay if he doesn't know your Alipay's gesture password

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The current available balance of the account is the real-time phone bill, and you can also check the phone bill of China Unicom Card in the following ways: 1. Call 10010 to inquire about the phone bill. 2. Log in to the online business hall and click on the home page to inquire about the account balance of the phone bill business inquiry in real time; 3. Log in to the client of the mobile phone business hall, click on the service inquiry, phone bill business inquiry, real-time phone bill account balance; 4. SMS business hall:

    Free SMS "102" is sent to 10010, and the current available phone bill balance can be queried; 5. Micro hall users can pay attention to the "China Unicom micro hall" WeChat***, bind the mobile phone number, and click on the "Mu Duan Service" to inquire about the real-time phone bill.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The current available balance refers to the remaining usable expenses, which can be checked by logging in to the official website to check the source of the state, or to the business hall to inquire, or through SMS inquiry, or by calling the customer service trace to inquire about it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Different platforms may have different meanings for the current available balance of their accounts, so please consult the official customers of the respective platforms.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's the amount of money that can be used now

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you know all your bank account numbers and passwords, you must know all your bank account balances, and it will be difficult for him to know if you change your password.

    You've got loofah silver, haha

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, unless you have the card and know the password.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It can't be checked unless he asks the ** department to check it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You say very generally, for example, can he get your card, or online banking Nima.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In principle, it is a deposit balance!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is available amount.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes, **The account balance is easy to check, and the call record needs to be checked by password or ID card.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, provided he knows your mobile phone number and service password.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, you can check the phone bill ...... with your ID card

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    What's the matter, only you can see it, others can't see it, and if you can see it, it's not a leak of secrets.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You can check the bank card in the following ways: Branch inquiry: Take the bank card to the bank branch, and hand it over to the staff at the counter to check the balance of the card.

    ATM inquiry: All ATMs with the UnionPay logo can check the balance of the bank card, just insert the card, enter the password, and select the inquiry service according to the catalog.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Bind his card to your mobile phone number.

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