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I thought you were doing it recklessly, at least not in the statement that you had any good reason for doing so. Even if you do that because you love your husband, you are afraid that he will slip away from you. That's why I say you're reckless, not wrong.
I also have a girlfriend now, and even though I'm only a sophomore, my girlfriend, like you, has a feeling of distrust of me because most of my communication is focused on women, but in my heart, I didn't do anything to be sorry for her. And because I know she loves me, I try to refrain from it.
For what you're talking about, I think the first thing you should figure out is what kind of relationship is between your husband and that woman. Then it's not too late to drug the certificate. From my point of view, there are nothing more than the following for your reference:
1: It belongs to the confidant type, if your husband and her have such a relationship, then you should not take the initiative to let them stop interacting with each other, but should start from yourself and reflect on yourself. As a wife, she should be the closest person to her husband (except for her mother), why do you like to communicate with others about some things?
And it's a big night, so you have to reflect on some of your own practices with your husband, and you have to contact that woman, from where you may learn about your husband's situation that you don't know for some years, and then make decisions with you.
2: It is purely a relationship at work, you should also know how fierce the current work pressure and competition are, and many jobs have no difference between night and day, so it is understandable to send a message at night or even go out to negotiate because of work, if this is the case, you should be more considerate of your husband, rather than suspicious and strike at him. It is because of his hard work that you have a happy life.
Of course, you should also be credited with it.
3: It's an extramarital affair, if that's the case, then you should have a good talk with him, the specific content varies from person to person, but it's nothing more than what people often say. But I don't want you to take drastic words and actions, at least while things can be reversed.
Through some of my not very mature opinions, I hope that you and your husband can continue your happy life.
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If he doesn't interpret it clearly with you, you better give up, and he will send messages to women like this in the future, and it's useless for you to call ** to women, because it's mainly in your husband, if the two have no relationship, why are you afraid that you know, you should accept it when you get married instead of using privacy to block your suspicions. Are you right? Even if it's privacy, it depends on what it is, and you're not someone else's second wife, why can't you let you know, doesn't he think about it for you, it's too selfish, and now men use privacy as an excuse.
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You're right, I support you, if you do this again, you have to consider leaving, because this kind of love hurts yourself in the end, and the long pain is better than the short pain, or the dog can't change the, unless you want to open it, and find a lover like your husband, otherwise listen to me and leave him.
One thing is clear, there must be something wrong with your wife and her, you have to know that there can't be so innocent between men and women, at least I haven't met until now.
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The most important thing between husband and wife is trust and communication, first you have to trust him, and then communicate with him, you just tell him directly, this matter has caused you a lot of psychological obstacles, don't shout, be calm, don't interject, wait for him to finish, see where the problem is.
Men are also tired sometimes!
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The starting point is good, do it wrong, use your charm to attract him back, don't pose as a shrew at every turn, it will push him further. When necessary, he will return to him alone in his own way, so that he can also taste the taste of jealousy.
A man is like a handful of sand, the tighter you hold him, the faster he will flow.
Think of him as a kite, no matter how high he flies, the string will always be in your hands.
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Actually, it's a personal matter. If your husband is still a person with a conscience, he will turn back, of course, you have to be good to him and don't lose your temper. If he's not, I don't think he'll be able to turn back. You're going to have to think about it, too.
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Mutual understanding and trust, if the other person still loves you, I think that should be enough.
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I've been in a similar situation, so I understand you very well. You can also send him a text message and ask your friends to cooperate with you The following also send you an old text message that you can give a try. It works great.
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Love him and believe in him! Without trust, the two will not last!
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Let's talk about it when there is evidence.
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Another one. There are many good men.
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It's normal, there are a lot of TV series, and I don't know what to do.
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Many people may think that marriage is the most important thing in life, but some people find that the marriage relationship is not happy after marriage, because these girls will find that the other party does not care about them at all. My husband is not satisfied with what he does, what should I do at this time?
If your husband is dissatisfied with you in life, then you can take a look at whether there are some problems in your body, for example, you usually have a more impatient personality, and you like to yell at something, and it is possible that your husband will start to be dissatisfied with you in life, so if you do anything in the future, your husband may feel that it is not good, so he will feel particularly dissatisfied with you.
But I think that the variability of this thing is relatively high, but I think that in married life, if you really encounter this situation, it may actually be because your husband has been prejudiced against you, and it may be because your husband has met other girls in his life. So this problem will also make everyone feel particularly powerless, but if you want to save this marriage, you have to adjust your mentality.
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That's because your husband is relatively strong in front of you and has the ability to stand out in front of you, while you can't do anything, so you are very much in front of him.
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If your husband is not satisfied with you in whatever you do, then it means that your husband is calculating about you, picking his nose and eyes, and picking bones in his eggs, which means that he does not love you.
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It's good that you do everything according to your own heart, so what does it matter if your husband is not satisfied? As long as you are happy, you don't need to ask for his opinion and let him approve of you. As long as you have a clear conscience and do your best, you don't need the approval of others.
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You should ask him what he is dissatisfied with, whether he is really dissatisfied or picky, if he is picky, he should divorce.
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Everyone is unique, and you don't have to change yourself to make your husband happy. If he doesn't feel satisfied with what you're doing, let him do it himself.
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It may be that your husband has some opinions about you, so he is dissatisfied with you everywhere. All you need to do is stick to what you think is right and try to do it well. Don't care too much about what your husband thinks.
In this way, your husband will see that you can do things well, and gradually his opinion of you will change.
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Communicating with my husband about this issue feels that anyone who encounters this matter will feel particularly speechless, because since the two people have chosen to get married, it actually proves to a certain extent that the two people really like it
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Your husband is not satisfied with what you do, then you need to sit down and talk to him about what he wants you to be and what he needs you to do to be satisfied. Also tell him what his bottom line is.
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Then don't do anything, let him do it, do it as much as he wants, and he will find fault with you If that's the case, let him decide everything first, let him do it, and you take everything on you Of course, the place is not happy with you.
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Faced with such a situation, you should improve your ability to make yourself impeccable, and if your husband is still not satisfied, you should divorce the other person, because he may not love you at all.
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This may not be better than you, you must have made your husband happy, maybe he just didn't show it on the surface, but he was actually very satisfied in his heart but was unwilling to express it for some reasons.
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If we are very dissatisfied with our husbands, then it is recommended that we choose to be open to our husbands, and we can also choose to talk to our husbands about this matter, why don't we like them? In fact, we all know that there is no dissatisfaction for no reason, at this time, we are dissatisfied with our husbands, probably because we don't like them anymore, so at this time we will feel very unpleasant to look at them. And here, if we don't want to delay the other party, it is also recommended that you choose to divorce the other party, or open up to the other party to talk about this matter.
After the two parties have been together for a long time, there will definitely be such a phenomenon, so Xiao Ming also hopes that it is best for everyone to talk to their husbands about this issue. Because we all know that you can't divorce at will after getting married, so talking about this issue can also make the relationship between each other more harmonious. After being together for a long time, we can also go to the two-person world, which can also make us feel more comfortable, and it can also make the relationship between two people warm up.
I also hope that everyone can pay attention to this issue and not always magnify the contradictions. <>
After getting married, because we need to face a lot of problems, the relationship between two people will become worse and worse. At this time, we can also go once a month, and we can go to the movies together, or open a room in a hotel, so that we can also let us know some uncomfortable places with each other through a long conversation all night. In this way, it can also be corrected, and it can also make the relationship between the two parties more harmonious.
I hope all couples can know that it is very easy for us to get married, but it is very difficult to get divorced. Divorce is a matter of two families, so we must think clearly, and we must care about each other's feelings at ordinary times.
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First of all, you should try to tolerate your husband's shortcomings, and if you really can't adapt to it, you can communicate with your husband in time.
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You can choose to divorce because you are living with him in such a state, which is torturing each other.
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You should choose to communicate with your husband, and you also need to tell your husband about this situation, and the two of you can choose to divorce.
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We need to understand where this expectation comes from. For example, you like to keep the house clean, but you also give this expectation of yourself to your husband, and you think that if I do this, my husband will do the same. So in such a situation, this man is innocent, so you see that your expectations will definitely be disappointed, and there will be contradictions after the disappointment, so we must first find out our expectations.
Where does it come from, and that's why I expect this from him. I don't know when your dissatisfaction started and when it became particularly prominent. If you found out before you got married, it can only mean that your own vision has been deviated, and you should find out the reason from yourself.
In fact, your heart is not really dissatisfied with your husband, but dissatisfied with your current life, you want your husband to create a better life, but he does not develop in this direction, which causes you to be dissatisfied with him in your heart. If you can't change him, why don't you change yourself? You can try to find a better job or start a business yourself, when your life is filled with work, I believe you don't have time to pay attention to him, men looking for women to marry and start a family, it is a husband and wife relationship, if men and women are equal, men are in charge of farm work, working to earn money to support their families, women hear that it is good to work together to help together, it is a perfect family life for the husband and wife!
It's the same for boys and girls!
Nowadays, social life is better, and today's men and women are different after marriage, the family conditions should be good, the in-laws should also help their grandchildren, and they should help them do things and help money, and the husband should be a handsome guy, and a husband who can make money, and a husband who can make money, and a husband who is a five-good model offender, and a husband who guards his wife's side, and a husband who serves his wife's good and has a good sex life.
It's also good, and the husband can't talk to women more, and it's good to have less interactions, and the husband should help lead the children to be small!
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I think you can choose to adjust your mentality first, maybe it's just that your mood is too impetuous, so it's not good to look at your husband.
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You should communicate with your husband, tell all your dissatisfaction with your husband, and let your husband correct it, so that this problem can be improved.
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