Confess to someone you like and she says to keep being friends What should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Take the money and smash him!! Just hit him with money!!

    Who: Rock Jesus - Probationary Level 1 12-16 22:43 Despise Upstairs.

    You can't smash it with money...

    By: I can play nunchucks - Assistant Level 2 12-16 23:00

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What should you do? The answer is yes, keep chasing. Care, care, understand, say more unintentionally, as long as you continue to chase there is hope.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it's really rare to have such a girl now, she is a sophomore and doesn't have a boyfriend, I think you should grasp it, she or as you said, if you have been good to her, she should agree, the girl said, there is a boyfriend who is really good to them is the happiness of their life, I believe you love her, I support you, as long as you keep persisting, she will promise you, aren't you still friends now, then you care about her as a friend, come on!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's very simple: the girl hasn't completely given up on you, which means that you still have hope!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Despise the upstairs.

    You can't smash it with money...

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, big man, can't cry!

    Secondly, agree with the upstairs.

    Ha ha!!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Take your time and be her brother first.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you like him, don't give up, he will eventually know that you are good, really.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After confessing to each other, they can only be friends, this situation may make people feel regretful and lost. But don't be too sad, there is a way to continue to maintain a good friendship, here are a few suggestions: 1

    Accept the reality and adjust your mindset. The reality is that you can only be friends now, and you need to accept this fact and adjust your mentality. Continuing to have unrealistic expectations will only make you more and more miserable.

    Once you understand that you can't be together, try to switch roles and treat each other as if they were genuine friends. 2.Give each other the right distance.

    At first, it may be difficult to immediately treat each other as ordinary friends, so it is better to give each other some distance and rebuild the friendship when the mood has gradually calmed down. Don't get too close to each other and avoid being alone, which can add to the awkwardness of the vow. 3.

    Reconstruct the interaction mode. It is necessary to re-establish the mode of interaction between friends, adjust the tone and way of speaking, and avoid being too intimate or ambiguous. Grasp the degree of goodness, chat and joke naturally like a normal friend, and gradually adapt to this transformation.

    4.Start dating someone else. If you wish, one or both of you can start dating other interested people.

    This helps to distract and also makes it easier to see the other person's presence as a friend in real life. Don't worry if the newcomer will mind your friend, it's not the right person for you. 5.

    Cherish what you have now. If you can only be friends now, then you should cherish this friendship. Instead of dwelling on the regret of not being able to be together, we should be grateful for the time we can be friends now, and continue to support each other and be happy in life.

    This sincere friendship may last longer. Hopefully, the above advice will be helpful to you. It's natural to be lost, but don't let negative emotions dominate you.

    Learn to go with the flow and cherish what you have, and happiness will come slowly before you know it. Believe that everything will be fine.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's good that you don't have a brother or sister.

    First of all, don't rush and calm down for a while.

    Confirm that it is Mowu and whether they really like each other.

    Confirm what is the reason why you can't be boyfriend and girlfriend.

    Whether the problem can be solved, how to solve it, several ways.

    If you can't do it, then it's time to be friends first, and if you really like it, then use time to prove it slowly and solve it slowly.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, it may be better to be friends.

    If you are a lover, you should also be trained to see your age at this time, if you are only in your teens, I still recommend being friends, because lovers don't last long.

    If you're already working, it's probably that both parties don't like it, and it's hard enough to be coarse.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then be friends, get to know him (her) slowly, and try to lean on your lover.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you feel that the other party is worthy of dating and can bring you growth, you should not give up easily, you can still continue to be friends, if the other party makes you miserable and makes it difficult for you to sleep, then you can consider giving up contact.

    When we confess to our beloved with great anticipation, there are generally only two ends, if we succeed, we will become a sweet lover, and if we fail, we will become the most familiar stranger. But many also believe that confession is a clarion call for victory, not a gamble. It does make sense, only when you have enough understanding of yourself and the other party, or when both parties are silently maintaining this ambiguous relationship, the confession can be successful!

    But the reality is that there are many people who have a crush on each other without the other party's knowledge, and they are afraid that they will lose each other, so they will always take a certain risk to try to confess. Needless to say, the odds of such a confession winning are almost small. Not only will you not get the approval of the other party, but you will also lose a precious friendship because of this.

    After the confession fails, it is difficult to take the initiative to contact the other party, first, you will feel that you are interfering with the other party's life, and second, you will feel that you are licking a dog, which is undignified. There is nothing wrong with this feeling, but what we have to be clear about is that it is a question of whether we can be friends after a failed confession, not whether we can be friends after a breakup! The two are not the same, and it is easier to continue each other's friendship than to confess defeat than to break up.

    Don't let this friendship come to an end because of your wrong feelings of lack of dignity or so on. Before the confession, the two sides have endless topics, but after the confession fails, there will be an inexplicable estrangement between the two parties, and the key to whether you can continue to be friends is to see how you deal with this estrangement.

    In my opinion, I think a friendship worth cherishing is more important than the so-called face, and a person who is worthy of your confession will definitely have something for you to appreciate, and such a friend should not be given up easily. We should be rational about love and friendship, love and friendship are separated, and no love does not mean that there can be no friendship. Life is short, it is rare to meet a lover, and having a friend is an important network resource, so I advise all friends who confess failure, love is gone, and friendship must be firmly controlled!

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