Relationship problems. Help, help for emotional problems???

You think you're Andy Lau, you pretend to be cool when you're rejected, just say it if you're not convinced, stupid, you still hurt others, it's good if people don't hurt you.

There is nothing wrong with the choice.

No one will find true love at one time, and if it is not suitable, they will break up.

If you don't want to hurt someone.

Just remember. Be affectionate, stop polite.

Due to the previous relationship.

A psychological shadow was created.

Let's have a heart-to-heart consultation.

You are a typical loveless boy, a boy like you, so easy to chase a girl, so easy to be a girl in the city, it means that your love attitude itself is problematic.

You should take a good look at the girls outside, choose a good one, chase it sincerely, don't go on it if you think it's suitable, you have to like it, you like it very much.

Or you can choose to wait, wait for the good girl who knows how to appreciate you and won't leave you easily, and passive may sometimes help you find true love

This is due to the character, I decided that I should prescribe the right medicine, people like you, should let your own feelings precipitate, no matter which girl you really love, as long as you are together, as long as you feel suitable, then deal with her for a year or two, so that you will feel reluctant to separate, and gradually you will truly experience love!

It seems that you have not stepped out of the shadow of the failure of your first love! Then don't look for a new girlfriend so quickly, because what you want to find at this time is just a substitute for your first love! It's useless!

If you're still a student, put your energy into your studies! Time, the time you want now! One person's time!

Don't be afraid of loneliness, because you come to this world and there are many important things waiting for you to do besides finding a girlfriend! You know?

Why do you have to have a companion by your side, you can cool down for a while first......A lot of feelings are not love, just a shallow appreciation, and appreciation doesn't have to be transformed into love.

Concentrate on doing things, go with the flow, and don't reach it if you want to hurry.

No matter love or anything, the more you think about the bad ending, the more off-topic, the less motivated, you might as well think about how to love her! Feelings are a manifestation of high emotional intelligence!

Go see a psychiatrist. Buddy. ，

You haven't met someone you really love, and it's definitely not like that when you really love. I believe that there must be your destiny in a certain corner of this world, but you just need to wait. Don't hurt others emotionally easily, you can't afford the consequences.

Go with the feelings, because one day you will regret what you didn't do instead of what you did.

If you really treat her well, treat her well.

Just treat her well.

It is in the process of dating between men and women that I think emotional problems should be the most difficult to deal with. It is also the best to deal with, you should understand each other and tolerate each other, so that your feelings will be harmonious.

Girl, emotional matters are not carried by one person, and there is no one right or wrong in love. In the end, there will be a lull period after a long time. If your boyfriend was very kind to you some time ago, but he was impatient or cold to you later, you can switch your positions to each other (that is, empathize) and see if he took care of you when you were sick, sent you home, and fed you food, and if he was sick, did you cook for him, ordered takeout for him, etc.

If you have considered all these things and done them, it means that you have no place in his heart, in other words, you are tired of it. Feelings are managed together, not one party's blind efforts and not being reciprocated, and occasional small surprises and small romances still have to be had.

In fact, for feelings, it is more important to learn to understand and tolerate, and to get along with each other is also in the groping, learning to move forward. Because they are all the same age, they don't have much rich emotional experience, and they may be far away from their ideal perfect boyfriend and perfect girlfriend. Nowadays, young people, in their own homes, are pampered by their parents, and when they walk into the gate of the university, they suddenly have a 180-degree change, and they become able to understand people, take care of people, and accommodate people, I'm afraid it's a bit unrealistic!

As far as you and your boyfriend are concerned, each of you has your own personality, your own habits, your own ideas, and it's good to be able to get rid of your own principles, your own ideas, and make some changes. Sometimes don't always ask others what to do, what have you done that moved others? If you are always entangled in some small things, you will never forget, such things may be more and more, if you love a person, you may love all of him, magnify the advantages, weaken the shortcomings, if you can't, then you say goodbye is not far away.

A little bit of personal understanding.

Since your boyfriend is very good to you, this is what he has to pay, but if you quarrel, maybe he is more stubborn, not the kind of person who is particularly easy to give in or wants to make you happy, because there is a quarrel, if he thinks he is right, he may insist, some details he may not notice, but in general, he is still good to you, there is no need to have an opinion on him.

Love is mutual, it is to treat each other well, understand each other, care for each other, care for each other, there is not so much arrogance, it is natural, no one wants to find a giant baby.

Love is not 1+1=2, but.

He may be a straight man who doesn't understand the romance that girls want, but in terms of his behavior, he should like you, you can talk to him more, understand what he is thinking, and be more tolerant of him, so that your relationship should last longerCome onStranger.

Most of them are not only in love, but also in family and friendship, and you will always feel pressure. This is due to the "excessive lack of love" in childhood: once you grow up, once there is warmth, you will reflexively grasp it, suffer from gains and losses, and care too much.

3. Low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence, often have a sense of powerlessness, and feel that they cannot reach the expected height. In the relationship, he always has doubts about his own worth, fearing that he will be abandoned, because of his inferiority complex, he feels that he is "worthless". 4. Too dedicated to it:

You regard love as the main thread of life, while the other party regards love as the auxiliary material of life. This gap leads to a different attitude towards the relationship, and you will always devote yourself to it, happy and sad; In contrast, the other party seems to be careless, and the so-called affection is always ruthlessly hurt, which is your pain.

Judging from your description, this boy still likes you, but you yourself are still too much, you don't know how to love at all, you don't know how to love others, you just want to enjoy other people's love for yourself, you can't give, you don't want to pay, and you are destined to get other people's love for yourself.

You are his bed that doesn't cost money, he spends a little money when he's happy, and makes you fun, and when he's unhappy, who are you? Besides, you are far from love, and it can only be said that he sometimes needs you to resist the gossip of empty nests and others. If you enjoy this kind of life very much, I don't advise you to do anything, you can do it yourself.

You are a fly on the glass, there is light but no future, and it is difficult to achieve positive results. Take care of yourself and take care.

Although straight is a possibility, but he is actually content with the status quo and does not change, he took good care of you at the beginning Later, you had more contact, he didn't care about you more and more, and let you perfunctory again and again, really, my boyfriend was like this before, he was very good to me at first, and then he slowly treated me well and coldly, and he didn't talk to me for ten days, after I told him, he didn't pay attention to not reviewing his own problems, and blamed me for not understanding him, I was very angry at the time, just because he didn't understand or was I wrong? The love that we girls want is not like this Just want to simply do things and respond, share and respond, instead of repeating him, I sent him a lot of small essays, he was also very perfunctory to me, and finally we broke up, he actually said that he loved me very much but had to leave me, laughed at me, I know that if a boy likes a girl very much, he will really leave the best for her, when your boyfriend makes you think more, it means that you have begun to be disappointed. We originally wanted to be emotionally sensitive, but these were not taken care of by our boyfriends.

He is very stubborn, and at the same time does not like you to talk about love on Douyin, in some things your lack of communication makes both of you feel that the other party does not understand you, this is the key to the problem, you have to let go of your arrogance, calm down and openly express that you want to talk to him, this is so that you can understand each other's thoughts, if he doesn't want to talk about it, then you can break up, because it means that he has lost interest in this relationship or you.