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With my character, I will never look back. I don't think I'm so lucky to have him change for me, so I think if he hurt me the first time, there must be a second or a third time. The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change, this is the reality.
What's more, where is there no grass at the end of the world? Therefore, my proposition is: rather lack than abuse, and never eat back grass!
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Good horses don't eat back grass, I believe that this sentence may be seen by most people on Douyin, and it should be seen in **, but this sentence may not be applicable to most people, because when he really happened to him, including the change in his position, he may give different reasons. On Friday, I received a message in the background, saying that Mr. Jin, I have been separated from my boyfriend for a period of time, but the other party is after a period of time, and takes the initiative to get back together, whether I should agree or not, so about whether you want to agree, this is your business, it is impossible for us as psychological counselors to help you make decisions, because any relationship, as a professional psychological counselor, he can't help you make decisions, but he will help you analyze the pros and cons.
So based on this situation, I would like to make a few suggestions to the teacher, the first Jianqing only stares at the suggestion is that you have to figure out what the reason for your breakup was first, I believe that any relationship, from the beginning of your subway intimacy, has a long-term business that wants to continue, this attitude, but why do relationship problems lead to a breakup? So it's clear that something is wrong with your relationship, so do you have a solution to this problem so far?
After getting back together, you have broken up in the past, and this question is through your reunion, will he break out in the future intimate relationship? Now that we've figured this out, let's tell you a very important method, if you don't know how to make a sweet potato right now, it doesn't matter, you have to take the separation of emotions and actions, what does it mean? That is, when the other party is connected with you, don't directly express your attitude, express zero emotions when communicating with him, and at the same time, your actions must not be labeled by the other party in the past.
When you do these two things, it makes people believe that as time goes by, you will naturally have the answer in your heart, because in the process, you will really understand what your ex is looking for you to get back together. Why? Is it because of love or because of pen pals?
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Not applicable. If the other party really knows that they are wrong, then why not turn back. If you don't look back, you may miss the best partner of your life
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Not necessarily, sometimes eating Huihui grass is also very fragrant, after all, two people will be very happy together, so I don't care if I eat Huihui grass.
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I think it's really like this, once you miss it, don't look back, since you were separated, there must be irreconcilable contradictions.
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People who don't know how to cherish are not worth looking back, they don't have to be nostalgic, life is a long road, cherish every encounter.
Others don't know how to cherish, it's not worth looking back, and you don't know how to cherish, so why mess up each other's lives again.
So no matter how you have gone before, it is true to cherish the present.
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Good horses don't eat back grass.
I read an article that said that there were two horses walking on the grassland, and there was no grass in front of them, one said let's go back, and the other said that I am a good horse, how can I eat back grass, and I want to go back to you, he feels that one can't be compared with it, and the bent finger horse saw that it couldn't be persuaded to go back by itself. Postscript, the horse who thought he was a good horse had walked a long way and still didn't find any grass losses, and it was impossible to go back, and before he died, he regretted it very much, regretting that he didn't look back. I feel the same in love, if you leave only to bury your match, you have to feel that you still love him, and you have to return at the right time.
Don't miss it, don't care too much about your face, face is not worth much in this year. For the sake of your own happiness in the future, you must return at the right time.
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I don't think so, if you really like it and it's possible to get back together, why don't you eat this back grass, after all, it's what you like, do you think it's so easy to find someone with feelings? Anyway, I've found that one so far, but unfortunately people don't want me.
Cherish it, think about it, and don't regret it in the end.
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Actually, the question is very simple.
The crux of the problem is that you should know what you really want.
If you broke up because of one thing, but you have been entangled in your heart and can't be happy about anything, then it's very simple, you actually want to pick up ** and tell her that you don't want to be like this, you want to be as good as you used to be, right? In this case, why do you have to dwell on a sentence to let your feelings go in vain?
You should ask yourself, is this the ending I want? Is this really the ending I want? If not, why should I lose to a baseless word?
You should ask yourself, is it because of this sentence or am I throwing in the towel?
Trust that you have an answer in your mind that will point you to the right thing to do.
Actually, no matter what you do, if you can be happy, that's right.
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How many beautiful experiences there are when you are in love, and how many painful memories you leave when you break up. Whenever after a breakup, some friends can't bear to let you fall into sad and painful emotions all the time, and will tell you: a good horse doesn't eat back grass, she doesn't cherish you, it's her loss, and the next person you meet will be better.
But there are also friends who will advise you: you should be cautious about emotional matters, think carefully before deciding, face is small, and if you lose your feelings, you will really lose them. Different friends will give you different advice, and in the end, you yourself are also confused, how to deal with this relationship?
Is it to summon up the courage to redeem love? Or do you really let go of this relationship and let go of this beloved person? Of course, if you are unwilling to be broken up, then I advise you that there is really no need to redeem it, you must know that it takes you to pay time, energy and other costs to redeem a person, and if you want to redeem the other party, you must feel that the other party is very suitable for you, and you love each other very much, so you are willing to redeem the other party, and if it is just because of unwillingness, then even if the redemption is successful, it is likely to break up again.
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As the saying goes, a good horse doesn't eat grass, but today's society doesn't think so. As long as the grass is good, you can eat it, so as long as you still love it, don't have the idea that a good horse won't eat the grass back.
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If I really turn back, there will be a lot of problems, I think if it is the outside world, I can overcome it, but I am very afraid, the two people do not trust each other, and I am really afraid, he is no longer the same as before, he has a grudge, maybe he can accept that the two people are together, or even hope, but it may no longer be the same as if nothing happened, so I am afraid that even if they are together, it may be more of the pain brought by the past.
Everyone's advice is really useful, I have also considered that the reason for the breakup may still exist, afraid is afraid, the center of gravity is together, it may be more difficult to solve the problems in the past, I firmly believe that the breakup was because he was not good, but now I don't have the confidence to make myself stand up in front of him, after all, I broke through the principle of two people: I left him ......
To tell the truth, I know that in fact, our relationship is far from being compared with what it used to be, but we are a campus relationship, and the love in school is more simple, that is to say, the foundation is good, and in the society, I may never find that feeling again, so I am thinking that if we get married, maybe our relationship with a good foundation should be given priority......That's why I think about it so much, I want to go back, but I have a lot of worries! Because it's not just a matter of love, it's a bet on the price of marriage.
I'm not going to compare, I'm really facing marriage, and I must weigh it in many ways, in fact, anyone's marriage is a kind of bet, but this kind of bet is a bet that I can participate in grasping. After all, no one has experienced life with anyone.
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In fact, there is no question of eating or not eating back grass, if you are not careful with the people you love. It's over, and then you look back and you understand, that person is the person you're looking for, why not go back and chase her? And to hold such an obsession that a good horse does not eat back grass, to force yourself to be separated from the person you love forever.
You say that there is no such idea, as long as it is the person you choose, whether it is him or not. Go bold and pursue her (him).
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Feelings are not something that can be said clearly in one sentence, so feelings should be treated with heart, you will be together if you think it is appropriate, and plan early if you think it is not suitable.
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As the saying goes, a good horse doesn't eat back grass, but if you want to eat it, you can't help it, so these decisions are in your hands, you can eat what you want, and if you don't want to eat it, then you can't help it.
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If you don't eat it, you've already made a mistake once, and you can't make the same mistake again.
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If you miss it, it may be better to change your mistakes, and if you miss them, don't turn back and hurt others.
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I don't want to eat it anyway, unless it's really, really good.
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If you really decide to break up, don't look back.
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Let's see what's going on! If you really care, then try not to leave yourself with regrets! If it's not worth it, just want to find a partner, then don't waste time and feelings!
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Not necessarily, it depends on whether the grass is fragrant or not.
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Dear stranger, in fact, everyone is looking forward to true love, but giving up is faster than cherishing.
There are many people who can spend their lives with you in this world, everyone has the advantages that you cherish and don't give up, and the shortcomings that you don't like and regret, Prince Charming and Snow White will have shortcomings that we can't see, and you will never understand if you don't become his (her) other half.
I believe that your current choice is the result of mature consideration, but the unknown world makes us urgently seek the so-called "optimal solution". In fact, to get the right person, it depends on your own giving, and only by giving sincerely to love will it have beautiful fruits.
The seeds that are sown, we can't ** how gorgeous they are, and we can't ask it to tell you the answer first, and then you go to water, fertilize ......Thinking too much about the outcome will lead to the loss of the expected outcome. Cherish your "little grass"!
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You're just her spare tire, it's as simple as that, I'm sure I'll tell you, once someone is better than you, she will leave you immediately, even ruthlessly. When she is alone again, she will still remember to look for you. Because, she knows that you care about her, that you will try your best to meet her requests, and that she knows that she is your weakness, so this is why she comes to you after repeated breakups.
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Emotional things pay attention to fate, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, no chance to meet each other, feelings should cherish each other, mutual respect, mutual understanding, mutual support, mutual tolerance, feelings should know how to let go, but also learn to fulfill, everything can not be forced, everything is natural!!
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I think that during the relationship, whether it is a man or a woman, you should be responsible for the relationship, don't break up easily, and don't choose to get back together easily, because every decision you make will bring different results, you should carefully consider every decision you make, consider your future life, and don't hurt each other because of impulse.
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I feel like as long as the two of you are suitable, why not eat? I think it's pretty good to look back.
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Obviously, the two love each other very much, but the regrets caused by some reasons, if there is a chance to make up for or redeem them, why don't they want to. A good horse matches a good grass, as long as the two of them are happy, all the past is worth forgetting.
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I think good horses don't eat back grass, and if I eat back grass in my relationship, I think it will still do more harm than good.
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Not necessarily, if you choose to be together after separation, you will cherish your relationship more at this time, and it is not necessarily more harmful than good.
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Not necessarily, if the other party happens to be deeply in love and wants to get back together, then the two people will accommodate each other, and they will not say that they will suffer a loss if they turn back, or they will have the upper hand, and they are equal in the relationship.
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No, it won't. Turning back will make you know how to cherish your feelings better, know more about holding hands together to live in the future, and know how to solve friction when there is friction.
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That's not wrong at all, good horses don't eat grass, I think so too.
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I think in a relationship, it's not that you will get hurt every time you eat back grass, it depends on the individual's situation.
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It's you who doesn't look back. If you have time to find out more about what he has been doing in the past two years, and this question is related to your own happiness, and you think it is good to be happy. It should also be understood what the reasons for the previous breakup were saved, and when the time comes, something similar will happen again.
You can't get the answer if you ask others, don't you have the answer in your own heart?
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Answer: Hello dear In the relationship, the meaning of a good horse is that I broke up with the person I liked, but I will not contact him again, I will not contact him again in the way of friends, and the two of us will not get back together.
So, if a good horse doesn't eat the grass, I won't have any contact with my ex anymore, and I won't get back together, and the relationship will end here.
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