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No matter how good your life is, it is inseparable from your hard work. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke revealed that the life of daring to be diligent is a good thing.
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Judging whether one's life is good or not is from the following aspects:
1. Eyes. I often hear people complain that their marriages are unhappy, their jobs are not going well, and so on. Every day, I just look at the shortcomings of others, and I always feel that it is others who are wrong, but I don't reflect on whether I am at fault.
There is a saying, "There is never a lack of beauty in life, but what is lacking is the eye to find it." "The eyes allow us to see all things in the world, just as in the spring we can see a field of plants that are full of business, the animals have opened their sleepy eyes, the grass has unconsciously emerged from the moist earth, and the mountains have come back to life and put on a green coat.
The colorful flowers bloom together, and the cherry blossoms by the river are blown by the spring breeze, and the petals are scattered on the surface of the river, how beautiful.
In other words, if you can see the merits and contributions of others, and see so many beautiful scenery in the world, your heart will be full of gratitude, and your life will become happier and happier.
2. Mouth. There is a good saying, "A warm word is like sprinkling perfume on someone else's body, and you will get a drop or two on it." "If each of us can speak to others without saying right and wrong, and consider the feelings of others, it will be like a lotus flower in our mouth, and everyone will be filled with joy.
On the contrary, if the mouth keeps saying bad things, saying the rights and wrongs of others, and saying some cursed words, the good fortune will soon be lost. Therefore, keep a compassionate heart, do not talk about the rights and wrongs of others, and accumulate good karma for yourself through words.
3. Ears. We know that "listening" plays a very important part in people's communication. A person with good listening habits should have no barriers in communicating with others. A good listener will believe that the other person has the ability to take responsibility for his or her own life.
Pay attention to eye contact when listening and make the other person feel respected. Listening from the other person's point of view and giving a positive response can make the other person feel understood and emotionally supported. We need to develop a good habit of listening, the voice of the world, the voice of others, and our own voice.
4. Hands and feet. I often see the recruitment notice written on the recruitment notice, sincerely beckoning people who are diligent, active, careful, conscientious and responsible, hard-working, practical and sincere. To be a man and do things, you must be diligent with your hands and feet, as the so-called "diligence can make up for clumsiness".
Many times, when we cry out that we are tired, those who are successful work a hundred times harder than us.
5. Belly volume. The glory and wealth of the world are not earned, but the blessings obtained by accumulating virtue and doing good. The ancients said well, the prime minister can hold the boat in his belly, and said that because the prime minister has such a big belly, he can achieve himself and do great things.
There is such a couplet accompanied by Maitreya Buddha: "The big belly can tolerate, and the world can tolerate the intolerable things; Laugh often, laugh at the ridiculous people in the world. "It's fun to educate and enlighten people's hearts.
As the saying goes: "Life and death have a fate, wealth is in the sky", and another sentence is: "Life is made by me, and happiness is made by the heart", in fact, the two statements are not contradictory.
Destiny is arranged according to one's merits, and there are causes and effects for good and bad gains, but if one can realize from them and work one's own virtuous cultivation, one can alleviate one's sinful karma, increase one's blessings, and change one's destiny.
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The reason why water is the best life is that such people are more benevolent and kind, and it can be said that their lives belong to a relatively stable and smooth life.
From the perspective of fate, in the five elements are water, the people of the water life are more kind, and they are also more sincere in being a person and doing things, and many times they are easy to be impulsive, but they will also be resolved by themselves, because it has strong creativity, but it may offend others because of its own stubborn personality.
Most of the people who live in the water are very demanding in their work, and they are very self-motivated in their careers. But in many cases, because they are not good at strategy, they may only rely on hard-working temperament to persevere to the end. Therefore, people on the surface of the water often have to learn to communicate more and master some communication skills, so that they can cooperate with others to make things more effective with half the effort, and they will be faster than others.
Characteristics of water life
The people of the water life are resourceful, intelligent and studious, strategic, thoughtful, and active. Those who are full of the five elements will be rich and fat, but the life of a person with water life is full of twists and turns, and the life is bumpy, especially if the river goes through a lot of hardships before it can flow back to the sea. Those who have a lot of water and prosperous water have an impatient temperament and are prone to trouble.
The water-shaped man seems to be a good person on the surface, but in fact he is suspicious and jealous, never trusts others, even if he is good to others, he only takes advantage of others, his heart and brain are relatively narrow, and he can't tolerate a little success of others.
The people of the water life are very intelligent, smart and smart, and they are always very reassuring, because they have been step by step, step by step, never worried about opportunism, and have been serious bit by bit to ensure that one thing is best. Because the people of the water life themselves are very diligent and hardworking, and the people of the water life are also very enterprising, they are not easy to consider a peaceful life, they have been thinking that the road of life is still long, and they can continue to struggle.
To impress others with your sincerity, don't always ask not to be nice to you, first of all, be kind to the people around you, there will be something to pay, real friends do not care about anything, friends are equal to their own affairs.
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