When I think of my ex boyfriend, I hate and am unwilling to take revenge on him!

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The best revenge for him is that you are better off than him, and your current lover is stronger than him, so that he will regret why he didn't cherish you in the first place

    This is also the best revenge for him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Out of sight is clean Don't contact Don't meet Just strangers Go out with friends and have more time to do it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When is the time for revenge, if you want to take revenge, then find someone who loves you more than him, and be happy together to anger him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can find him and say this to him Mixed Yuan Erqi is around my heart, I really can't calm down, I spread my hands and saw the Xiantian Erqi wrapped around my palms, I suddenly spread out my hands into a figure of eight outward, my eyes opened and shot out a golden light, and suddenly chaos appeared, only to see the oracle bone inscription three-character grass mother revealed between the clouds.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You are desperately trying to be good to your current incumbent and to take revenge on your ex.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Praying for him with your whole life is the best revenge.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Like me, let's figure it out together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Hello, in this case, after the breakup, if your ex-boyfriend is more sinister and takes revenge on you, you can do this.

    2. If the infringer ignores the request of the infringer, he may file a lawsuit with the court, requiring the infringer to stop the infringement, restore the reputation, eliminate the impact, apologize, and may claim compensation for losses.

    Retaliated against by an ex-boyfriend + ruined reputation.

    Hello, in this case, if your ex-boyfriend takes revenge on you after the breakup, you can do this: 1. If you infringe on the right to reputation, you can first ask the infringer to publicly apologize and eliminate the adverse effects caused by this. 2. If the infringer ignores the request of the infringer, he may file a lawsuit with the court, requiring the infringer to stop the infringement, restore the reputation, eliminate the impact, apologize, and may claim compensation for losses.

    Because your ex-boyfriend's past with you has been sealed, if the other party uses this as revenge to affect your reputation, you can sue at all. This is also determined according to the legal process.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Girl, love or not love is only between a thought, he chose to give up the relationship, that means that you do have shortcomings, which is difficult for him to accept, otherwise he would not be so resolute to break up with you, leaving no room for you.

    Therefore, calm down yourself, don't let yourself be so impulsive because of love, since he has given up, what is the point of you going to take revenge on him, just to make yourself happy for a while?

    I think you should know: while you are taking revenge on her, you yourself are also more sad, because he has a non-negligible position in your heart, and you will be happy to take revenge on a person you love the most?

    I think it's impossible, so: since things have happened, then we have to face the reality, if there is a chance to redeem it, then work hard to win back his heart, if there is really no hope of redemption, I still hope that you can accept the reality well, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet, is it?

    Relax your heart and accept the rest of your life, there is a saying: since the person I love has not chosen me, why not give those who love themselves a chance, maybe they can find their true half in it!

    I'd rather cry in a chic way than laugh humbly.

    Bless you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Forget it, feelings are two-sided, don't force it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Why?

    Take revenge on him and you will be happy? You don't love him very much? If you're not happy to take revenge or not to retaliate, then why would you do that?

    Actually, you can be generous, he doesn't care about you so much, he doesn't have a good personality, and he sends away your 2-year relationship Why can't you understand it, that man doesn't love you anymore.

    If you don't love it, no matter how much you give up and beg him to keep it, it's useless to be so self-respecting, it's better to be kind to yourself.

    If I were you, I wouldn't do that, just because I love you, so I'm going to whisper to you, why is my love so low, I'll be sad, but not in front of him, and in front of him, I'll pretend to be more indifferent than him, in my opinion, the biggest revenge for a man is that I want to live better than him...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is a saying that as much as you love, you will hate as much. I don't think it's useful to retaliate, you are wasting your precious time on someone who doesn't love you, I suggest you have a long talk with him to understand why he left you, if something goes wrong in a relationship, I think it will be a little thing that no one usually pays attention to, and slowly accumulates. He told you that your personality is not compatible, I think it is also an excuse, if it is really like what he said, then who in this world is in line with his character?

    In my opinion, two people have tried their best to understand each other, and they have run in with each other, and no matter how much they don't agree, they will get together. If you really want to get revenge on him, there are too many ways. But I still don't think it's necessary, even if you take revenge on him, what do you get?

    It's just that you've wasted a lot of your time on him again. If you really want to redeem it, do something that can be redeemed, but I suggest you think carefully about whether such a man is worth it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Feelings can't be forced, and they have nothing to do with time.

    It's not that 2 people are boyfriend and girlfriend, so there is love between them, and many things are the best that they can't get.

    So often the one who lets go is often the most painful.

    People are like that, the more you care about him, the less he deserves you.

    And the more he is like this, the more you care about him.

    Now that we're separated, let him pass.

    This can only mean that he doesn't love you, so even if he changes his mind, what can you do if you can tolerate someone who doesn't love you all day long by your side.

    Maybe you say yes now.

    But you have a lot of life ahead of you.

    10 years from now, 20 years from now.

    So instead of holding on to it.

    It's better to let go and find someone you can like to start over.

    Retaliation can only be painful for both sides.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you can't get it back, just leave, now that you are angry or calm down, it is really heart-wrenching to make ends meet, since you already have regrets, why make yourself more painful, even if you take revenge on him, the rest will be endless emptiness, and the gains outweigh the losses. Try to make yourself live well, that's much better than revenge, when you meet again, your smile will be more lethal than any **, may the landlord solve his worries as soon as possible.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    And so it goes.

    It's the end of the road again.

    I have a very good friend by my side.

    Same as in your case.

    A lot was done. The same has no result.

    What you get or what you get is rejected.

    Is there any way to pull?

    He doesn't love you anymore.

    He cannot be forced to do so.

    On your side.

    It's true that he's really cold-blooded.

    Doing so much has not paid off at all.

    But think about it from his side.

    You can't be with someone you don't love.

    Then he's doing something sorry for you.

    The opposite of love is not hate.

    It's the words that let go of your love for him.

    I want to make him happy.

    And not to make him miserable.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's definitely an excuse, whatever, you can't hang yourself from a tree.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Only love, there is hate, it can't be said that he didn't have feelings for you before, but the feelings have faded with time, the more anxious you are, the more you hate him, the more he feels that he is amazing, let you keep him, he hurts you again, we can't want your own dignity for this kind of person, what you have to do now is not to keep him, not to beg him, you have to live a good life, let him see, you can still live well without him, let him regret losing you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yishu said: The best revenge is not hatred, but the coldness from the bottom of the heart, why spend energy to hate an irrelevant person.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Kindness. Good. I'm sticking with you. There is no such thing as a good man in the world.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I feel that if this is not worth it, it is better to look forward and find a man who loves you, and use the happiness in the future to take revenge on your ex-boyfriend and make him regret it...

    Since he doesn't love you, love yourself!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The opposite of love is not hate, it is indifference.

    If you hate him so much, it means that you still love him, and he will feel even more amazing.

    If you ignore him, live more chic than him, and turn a blind eye to him, he will be more anxious.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's best not to retaliate, after all, that's also the love you once had, what if the two sides hurt each other, let the past pass forever, look forward, happiness beckons to you not far away.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First of all, it can also be seen from this that your boyfriend's personality is flowery. Then for such a caring person, you don't have to spend time hating him. Because he doesn't deserve your hatred at all.

    Hating him not only makes you remember him in the future, but also often thinks of all kinds of things he has done to you before, the more you think about it, the more angry you will become, and the more angry you will be, the more you will hate him, which will cause you to be depressed. I think you can let go a little bit, the road ahead is very long, you are still very young, be optimistic about the current situation. You have to remember that good people will be rewarded, and bad people will get the punishment they deserve.

    In the face of a bad person, you have to choose a detour instead of getting entangled with him. Why burn yourself out because of this bad guy?

    Hopefully, my advice will be of some help to you. But really, this kind of person really doesn't need to remember him. Because he's just going to waste your time, aren't you at a loss in the end?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Although he hurt you, it still happened, and there is no way you can undo it, the only thing you can do is remember him!!

    You can go to find your next happiness, in fact, you want to open up, don't waste too much time to regret this thing, you will do a lot of wrong things when you are young, but it is not necessarily a bad thing......

    Hehe, find a way to forget about this relationship, live freely, after all, life is still very beautiful......

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hate him and forget him, you will only make yourself miserable if you keep doing this. Finding a good man and a happy life, making him envious and regretful is the greatest revenge for him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your problem is very complex, it is not a few words to explain, it is recommended that you do psychological counseling, although it is more expensive, but it is better than you are always immersed in depression.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hurry up and find a better boyfriend, remember that this is not to anger him but to prove that you will live better, such a man is not worth your attention, recognize that he is not a good person, and work hard.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Things have happened, it's useless for you to hate him, because you yourself have a mistake to believe in pulling him, but a woman in love is a little blind and can't say that you are too much, since you have loved and paid for the injury, let it go, you are so painful and can't let go of the tiredness is that you are happy with him, because he is very proud that now you still love him and he may no longer love you, love yourself more, next time don't believe it easily, pay easily, unless he marries you, I hope you can let go of the tragedy that has happened and find someone who really knows how to cherish you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    ...It's better to live your life well.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Be open-minded Since you don't love it, why bother with this passer-by A Make yourself uncomfortable He doesn't deserve you.

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