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In adolescence, many people are like this, don't worry too much about your situation, and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Maybe when you look at others, you will feel that others are doing well, but this is just to see the performance of others, and many people have a lot of ulterior motives. Maybe you didn't get into a key high school by yourself, right?
I don't think you should put too much pressure on yourself in terms of studying, it's not your fault that you don't do well in the exam, you just need to do your part and do your best. Maybe you look at others so serious and their grades are so good, and you feel very uncomfortable, but the high place is unbearable, and those who work hard for their grades all day long and are afraid of falling down every time they take the exam are even more uncomfortable. Observe more of the many aspects of social life, see how others are people, how they speak, how they behave in the world, pay more attention, and try to pay attention to their words and deeds in interpersonal communication.
You are still young, and many of the skills about dealing with others have to rely on really going out to society, encountering losses, and hitting the wall, you can slowly learn and master slowly. Don't be in such a hurry. Now you just need to pay attention to the following:
One is to respect others, for example, if someone has something to do, you should try not to disturb him, and respect others' privacy, respect others' face, and don't expose someone's privacy in front of others, or damage people's face. Maybe you're used to talking like that, maybe you think it's just a joke, but some people can't afford it, so it's important to take into account other people's feelings. Second, try to be polite when speaking, and be a high-quality and cultivated person, such a person is always more approachable.
In addition, you should pay attention to regulate your psychological emotions, don't think about anything serious, you must know that your life road is very long, and there are many things you will encounter in the future. When you encounter something unhappy, you should say to yourself, it's not a big deal, it's nothing, you have to learn to forget, learn to ignore the annoying things, when you don't think about it, there is nothing difficult to get you. The more I think about it, the more uncomfortable I feel, don't get along with myself like this.
The older generation of people and young people always have **, it's not that they don't care about your psychological condition, but they have more than enough power, maybe they are also worried about your behavior in their hearts, but their generation of people can't see through the thoughts of our younger generation, so that if you want to communicate, you can't start, you can only be anxious in your heart. Anyway, if you want to be a reporter, they must love you and care about you. Also, don't keep it in your heart when you encounter something, learn to confide in your friends, or buy a notebook, and write down your feelings by yourself, so that you will be much more comfortable.
When you're in a bad mood, you can go to play basketball to vent, or go out for a walk, anyway, don't let yourself get bored. That's all I have for you, and the rest is up to you......
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I'm a freshman girl. You know, when I look at your question, I'm very depressed. I found out this question by searching for "I'm sad". Do you know, the results are tens of thousands?
I hope you can understand, people always have troubles, I used to be a very top-notch girl, but after the third year of high school, I fell down, without warning, I cried and made trouble, but I want to tell you, it's useless.
Yes, interest is the best teacher. Since life is so realistic, so painful and so helpless, why not find a quiet world to hide in and read, it can really calm people's hearts, not to mention, it can bring you too many things, isn't it?
Chinese is very beautiful, I believe that you are a sentimental student, that is a good foundation for learning Chinese well. Read more books, and you will find that your worries will gradually decrease, and your grades will be able to catch up. Li Qingzhao has a sentence "Three glasses and two light wines, how can you fight him, the wind is in a hurry at night", listening to her faint sadness, you can slowly bring yourself closer to a quiet state of mind.
Ancient poems are very magical things, you can read Nalan Xingde's poems, they are beautiful. And reading, as long as you think of yourself as an author, is enjoyment!
People are not exhausted, you know? If you don't bring life, you won't take it with you. Don't live a humble life, do you feel the need to care about this kind of person for a teacher who looks down on you just because of money? People want to live uprightly, remember, if you want others to look up to you, you have to look up to yourself first!
Be an ascetic and study hard. Remember to show others your bright and never humble smile! Believe in yourself!
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Seeing what you are saying in your heart, I feel that you are taking your own problems too seriously.
You're talking about your bad side.
You know everyone has strengths and weaknesses.
What are your strengths.
Think about it when you go to bed at night.
It's got to the point where you said it would.
Motivation is the "gold" that you can't run out
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Being sad and depressed will not solve the problem. Your top priority is to study hard and not fall behind others. Your own mentality depends on yourself to mediate, I wish you to get out of trouble as soon as possible, and remember that tomorrow's sun is always new!
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It seems that you are a very self-motivated person, you want to be better than others in everything, but you ignore you a little, learning things can not be forced, you can not set the goal of learning too high, you are in a key school, talent gathered, but also can not pay too much attention to academic performance, you should feel that you have done your best in learning, only easy learning, in order to have good grades, do not put too much pressure on yourself, study is not to earn the first, you have to adjust your mentality, academic performance will slowly improve, On the issue of language and etiquette, I suggest that you read more books, especially world classics, and read them seriously, so as to improve your language level and knowledge of etiquette.
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In fact, it's not your fault, you have to enlighten yourself, if you really want to get your grades up, you can review more before going to bed, listen carefully in class, read more books after class, hurry up to do homework, and go home to review. You don't like liberal arts, you can't help it, you have your own preferences, I don't like liberal arts either, I only pass every time, but I didn't give up, let's work together.
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I'm interested in all things machine toys, but physics aren't very high.
It's the third year of junior high school, and the exams at all levels, big and small, have defeated my self-esteem, and I have given up on myself, and now I regret it, I was angry yesterday.
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You're supposed to be a girl, it's nothing, it could be a turning point in your physiology.
I would like you to add your gender, and if I feel wrong, there is no need to say what follows.
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It seems that I don't need to say anything more, everyone else has said so much. You have to remember that people have to live their own lives, and once they lose themselves, they will lose the direction of their existence. Everyone has difficulties, but those who become great people have more difficulties.
To rise to the challenge, this is just a stumbling block on your life path, and it is nothing.
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I'm sorry, I don't have a high degree and I can't understand it, I have friendship and speaking skills, I will not say anything wrong if I talk around the other party, put aside everything and study first, because you are not learning, it is the wealth of your life.
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I was also admitted to a key middle school.
At first, the grades were not good, which was not adaptable. The grades are more than 20 in the class.
But you can learn slowly, adapt, play less, learn more. Work harder than others, pay is always rewarded, and the results will always be good.
There are also many friends who are not in the essence, and it is useless to have more fox friends and dog friends. It's okay to have three or four confidants in high school, people should be happy in life, and don't care too much about other people's opinions. No one can protect everyone, just be responsible for the people you want to be responsible for.
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I used to have the same psychology as you, maybe the nature is different, I changed from a familiar city to a strange city to go to school, the local accent is always used as a joke by others, so it is also incompatible with others, and at that time I also thought very extremely, so I also fought with many classmates, and even had to drop out.
Later, a long time passed. After all, people have to adapt to the environment, and the environment can't adapt to us. Being rejected by others is not the most terrible, the most terrible thing is that even yourself is rejecting yourself, when you are lonely, you can listen to ** relax your mind, think about it with your heart, maybe not everyone does not understand you, when others talk about certain topics, you can try to say your thoughts, maybe others are not so far from you.
Learning may be a lot down, and you can't catch up with the footsteps of others, but you can go slowly, and divide the goal into several stages to achieve it, and I think it will not be difficult for poor students to become excellent students.
I hope you get out of the confusion as soon as possible, and your parents don't want you to be depressed all the time, tomorrow is a new starting point, you also have your sunny side, don't let the dark side corrupt you, smile, believe that you can do it, and you can get back what you want.
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I'm like this sometimes, but it's much better now, and I don't know why, so maybe it's a distraction, don't think about these things, find more interesting things to do, and then discover your strengths.
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The learning process is very painful, I am the same age as you, I understand you completely, in fact, I am very similar to you, but I regulate myself more than you, just as you are used to praise, others are also masters.
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Hello, I don't know how old your child is, the children upstairs have said what is in their hearts, and this is also the shadow of your child, you can refer to. You should calm down and talk to your child.
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If it's a girl, talk to her more.
Always encourage and don't think you're right.
Ask your child to follow the route that he thinks is right.
It's really annoying for the kid like that.
I'm turning 18 this year.
All have this experience.
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To be honest, my opinion is that there is no way to talk about the generation gap or rebellious, it is difficult to communicate anyway But if the child is sensible, you can talk to her more, talk to him about things in a calm tone, don't show how anxious you are, just give your opinions equally and kindly Let him feel that you care about him, but be careful not to make him feel guilty Don't compare other people's children with him, make him feel that he is special to you, and make him feel that he is working hard for himself, not for your face
That's all I have to say, and I don't know if it's a one-size-fits-all formula from personal experience
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No, my daughter is more than 10 years old, we are also so old, lose homework, we don't do it, at this time, we are rebellious, to hard, then your effect will be very bad, we just need adults to understand us, don't make mistakes is scolding, scolding can not solve the problem, if you communicate with us sincerely, skip class and point it out appropriately, don't scare us too much, and. Don't always stand on your own point when you speak, admit your mistakes in time, don't be wrong and don't allow children to say it, but also believe in your own children, don't strangle children too tightly, know that children have thoughts, ideas, and pay attention to communication. That's what I thought.
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I'm like that too. Hehe, once in a while to deceive your parents. It's not a big deal, it's just going out to spread the wilderness, and if you can't do anything earth-shattering, you can rest assured.
In fact, it is all for the sake of the parents' own face, right? What are you doing with all this uselessness? When you reach the third year of junior high school or high school, you will have a sense of urgency, so you can play to your heart's content when you are young.
Sign up for the class, you can't beg for too much, because the time for normal study has passed, it's obviously a holiday, it's good to go, why are your requirements so high? Are you more productive when you work overtime? If you think about everything and encounter something like this, you will be able to forgive your child.
Don't be her master, waving and drinking; Be friends. How you treat your friends, how you treat your children. Including your friends who give you a look on the face, and are angry with you.
It's like treating your big friends and colleagues, you have to endure it when you are angry!! Look at you as an adult, why are your interpersonal skills so poor! It seems that you don't have any friends, and if you have friends, you are not true friends.
Reflect on yourself and don't target others. Think about your ......
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How old is your daughter, so I can help you.
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Encourage your child instead of criticizing it.
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How many years is grandma's age 6 times that of Doudou?
"years" should be "this year".
Let's assume that Doudou is x years old this year, and grandma's age is 6x years old this year, Grandma's age N years ago is 7 times Doudou's age, and Grandma's age is 5 times Doudou's age after M years(6x-n)/(x-n)=7
2. (6x+m)/(x+m)=5
From 1: x=6n Therefore, the age of Doudou this year should be a multiple of 6 (6, 12, 18, 24, 30, 36,..
From 2: x=4m, therefore, the age of Doudou this year should be a multiple of 4, take the common multiple of 4 and 6 (12, 24, 36, 48,..
Suppose that in Y years, grandma's age is 4 times that of Xiaoying's age, then it will be.
6x+y) (x+y)=4 gives y=2x 3
When Grandma's age is 4 times Doudou's age, Grandma (2x 3) + 6x = 20x 3 years old.
Replace the above values (x=12,24,36,48....Substitution, you can get.
a.If Doudou is 12 years old and grandma is 72 years old, when Doudou is 4 times older than Doudou is 20 years old and grandma is 80 years old.
b.If Doudou is 24 years old and grandma is 144 years old, when Granny is 4 times Doudou's age Doudou is 40 years old and Grandma is 160 years old (not in line with the actual situation, exclude).
The situation can only be a
So when the grandmother is 4 times the age of Doudou, the grandmother is 80 years old.
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