I m so sad that I don t understand what I m going to do 30 on my own

Give it up and believe that there will be people who are more worthy of your love

Give up, she ignores it, it means that she doesn't love you, you won't be sweet together, find someone who loves you and the person you love, there is grass everywhere in the world!

Have a conversation and tell her what you think and explain that you hope to get a reply from her. It doesn't matter if it's sooner or later, as for the concern, you can continue forever, because this is what you really think, just wait for that reply with peace of mind.

She doesn't like you, give up pulling and have a bright future.

A shortcut to freedom from pain and ultimate happiness.

Note to the reader: The root of human suffering and disappointment is often to care too much about oneself. Only by forgetting oneself and serving the public can we achieve ultimate happiness.

Like a dew drop under the sun, although it is crystal clear, it is always worried that it will be evaporated and dissipated into nothingness, so it suffers from gains and losses, depression and does not feel happy. In his short life, he is always shrouded in feelings of depression, pain, and disappointment. Why not let yourself be in the middle of the ocean?

Forget yourself and blend into the sea, no longer a dewdrop, but a part of the vast sea. When the dew melts into the sea, life is sublimated, and the bliss of life is here.

Paying attention to one's own pain and helplessness all the time is easy for people to lose their happiness and go to extremes. Forget about yourself, pay attention to others, help others, let your life integrate into the immeasurable and boundless sentient beings, serve them, be anxious about what others are anxious about, and think about what others think, but you will get a truly happy and sunny life.

So, when you are depressed and in pain, go and help others and use your own strength to help others solve problems. Care for others, be grateful to others, help others, and magnify "others" to the infinite toiling masses and all sentient beings. You will be amazed to find that your own problems are solved.

Your own pain is no longer pain. Dissolve ourselves into the world, and each of us will sublimate from the dew to the sea, and life will gain eternal brilliance and brilliant sunshine. All the gloom is gone, and all the pain is gone.

I think that the morning glow, the dewdrops, and the comet are short-lived, impotent, and miserable, and I think that the sun, the sea, and the universe are splendid, happy, and eternal.

When you encounter pain, despair, depression, frustration, and helplessness, help others. After a long time, your own problems will be solved. Some people say that I have nothing, I can't help others, I don't want to help others.

However, when you truly dissolve yourself into the common life, you will find that you are a valuable person. No matter how good you are, there is always someone better than you. No matter how painful you are, there will always be someone who suffers more than you, and there is always someone who is worse off than you.

As far as you can see, you can always help some people. In the beginning, you can make a plan for yourself to do a few good things every day. Slowly, it became a habit to help others.

Over time, you will find that you have become sunny and energetic, and you have seen through the things you couldn't see through before, and you have figured out the things you couldn't think of, and the things that made you desperate have become nothing more than that.

Friend, maybe you're having a hard time. But as long as you give yourself and integrate yourself into the sea. You will discover the meaning and value of life, and you will also get real happiness.

I wish you happiness.

Some things that we think we can't get over are always not so difficult to get through when we really get through them. When we face ups and downs, we will inevitably get tired of everything, life, the world, classmates, friends, and even ourselves. These emotions are bound to be there.

Do everything you can for others, but others just treat your kindness as garbage, or laugh at your stupidity and self-righteousness. The mistakes he made constantly implicated him and fell into the abyss full of sin and unwillingness. Then, you get tired, you become unmoved, you give up on yourself, you become reticent.

It's not bad, and it can't be treated completely negatively. Life is a lot of tribulations. Why don't you overcome it as an ordeal.

You learn to tolerate others, have the courage to accept your own mistakes, properly cover your true thoughts, establish your own goals, and prove that you are not for nothing. Once you've done that, you'll find yourself better and more perfect.

It is also useless to blindly look back at the past. The future is really important, and your future is in your own hands, you see. You're not doing this for anyone else, you're studying for a better life for yourself.

As for tolerance, and the ability to endure humiliation. It is to fight hard in society in the future.

All right. That's all I have to say. I hope you understand it well.

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Hello, the moment your son hugged you, both sad and touched, I know that you must be a mother who loves your son very much, in fact, many mothers are both a serious guide and a loving mother for their son, and your education is very important to him.

You say you have a bad temper, I guess it's just a regular occurrence in the process of educating your son. You can do more interesting interactions with him, you can do housework with him, do some crafts together. There is also communication, you can set aside a period of time to talk with him when he is on vacation, it doesn't take too much time, and it can make you feel happy, which means that this communication is effective.

You don't have to say too much, she herself will unconsciously talk about his school life, and you can find common ground by learning about his school life, and get an idea of what you are like in his mind.

The most important thing is to cultivate patience, if you just blindly scold, I think it will also be a harm to him, only by cultivating patience, can you be more happy with your son.

1. When you feel uncomfortable, you should cry out loud. Crying is a great way to temporarily relieve emotional stress. Crying out loud when you feel upset is a natural reaction to grief and a very natural and necessary first step in repairing your mind, don't ignore or skip it.

2. When you feel uncomfortable, don't carry it alone. When you feel bad, tell your loved ones how you feel and find a warm embrace or a strong arm. Or find a close friend and pour out your inner troubles.

Even if you choke up and can't speak, it is comforting to let him or her be by your side quietly. In the process of telling, you will also get a kind of catharsis. 3. You can choose to divert your attention when you are psychologically uncomfortable If there are some things that you feel more and more sad the more you think about them, then try not to think about it, keep yourself busy, and let yourself have no time to think about it.

You focus your attention on everyday things like swimming, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. You can also choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, and undisturbed, take a position where you feel more comfortable, stand, sit or lie down, and imagine something quiet and beautiful. Or move some big joints and muscles of the body and do some simple exercises Fourth, the ultimate way to deal with psychological discomfort:

Peek into the depths of your heart There is a saying: there must be a reason for everything. Psychological discomfort may be caused by certain events in life, or after an emotional problem has been hit, negative emotions such as sadness, loneliness, and emptiness linger in the heart.

To fundamentally solve the problem of psychological discomfort, we must start with its causes. Peek into the depths of your heart.

It's not a matter of temper, I should say not exactly.

First of all, you need to know the solutions to deal with your child's various things.

Tantrums are good if they can solve the problem, but if not, then find other ways to solve them, and be clear about the bad results caused by tantrums, which may affect the growth of children, this is very important, and it is rare to change yourself, but if you find a way to solve this problem, it may be a different result.

Try talking to your son and see what he thinks about it, and I hope my answers will be helpful to you

Be happy with yourself. No one will be sad about your sadness. Only your parents. Don't worry the people who love you.

People have emotions, first of all, we must accept our imperfections, in fact, we must learn to control our emotions and vent reasonably. Before losing your temper, you can give yourself some hints, or ask others to help remind you, think more, and relieve yourself. Sometimes it may be because the pressure is uncontrollable, so you usually need to exercise more, chat with friends and family, and release it.

If it is related to physical causes that cause emotional instability, you may need to seek professional help.

As a parent, when a child is naughty, it is inevitable that he will be angry and beat his child, in fact, he doesn't have to feel too guilty, who has not been beaten by his parents, remember to be patient with his child in the future, your son can report to you that the child loves his mother, and he does not blame you for this.

You can be less verbose, and the child will also get annoyed, and gradually he will not listen to you very much, and tell him important things once. Why did you hit his paintings? If you look at the paintings he often draws, you can make an agreement with him to paint after you have done something, and you must remember that your children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren!

Don't be too strict.

Sadness is divided into tangible and intangible, the tangible is caused by loss, and the invisible is caused by injury. At this time, the most important thing is to put your mind down and think about some beautiful topics, go out for a walk, go to a lively and comfortable place, and time can fade everything and slowly find the feeling.

You have clearly recognized that you have a bad temper, and you have made up your mind to change it, although it will not happen overnight, as long as you want to, you can do it.

Cry! Just cry out!