I m getting married, and I don t even understand what my boyfriend is thinking

He loves you, but he loves his career even more.

In other words, he doesn't know your feelings, because you can tolerate it, and because of your tolerance, he can run his business more confidently. Therefore, I am even more determined to marry you.

This kind of career-type person prefers to marry a wife of a good wife and mother.

Are you like that?

If you are not, and you love him enough, then communicate with him.

It's good for you and for him

But it seems like you have to tell him anyway, don't you, tell him how you feel, and even if you are, you have to tell him. But he's not going to divorce you, really! Because it's hard to find a --- like you in his heart).

I guess I'm preparing for your wedding

At this time, men always need to be calm, and it's better not to see you I'm going to get married, and I have to think about it all my life I didn't let you pay your body, if you try to pay to see if he will refuse Hehe, anyway, I'm going to get married, and it's not so important to finish early

Go and communicate with him.

Listen to others here.

And then think about it crankily.

Neither is it an option.

I think you should have a good talk. Since he can leave you for two months, how will you live together in the future, besides, you know what he is thinking. It's scary for a woman not to know what a man is thinking.

How do you know he has to marry you.

If you had to marry someone, would you not see each other for two months?

Since he doesn't marry you, it means that he loves you, he's good, and he has a strong sense of dedication, don't think about it, wait for your happy life.

Hehe, do you love him?

If you love, he doesn't contact you, you can contact him, you can ask him to meet, since you have decided to marry him, there should be a lot of things to be busy before marriage, as long as two people love each other, don't care who takes the initiative first.

I wish you happiness.

I can't imagine not seeing each other for two months.

Most likely premarital phobia.

I think you should take the initiative to communicate with your boyfriend, and you should also tell your boyfriend your willingness to get married, tell the other party where you stand, and also ask the other party when you will marry you. You shouldn't put too much pressure on the other person either.

You can talk to your boyfriend and ask him why he doesn't want to get married, or you can choose to break up and start a new relationship of your own, and don't dwell on this relationship anymore.

Two people should calm down, think carefully about the future, and then decide whether to get married or not, don't be impulsive, this is a lifelong thing, be cautious.

When I married my husband, it was because he proposed to me and said, marry me, I will cook for you for the rest of your life, and I am a foodie, so I chose to marry him.

When we were together, in fact, he didn't know how to cook at all, and like me, he didn't touch Yang Chunshui, but because I like to eat, and we can't eat takeout every day after we live together, so at this time there needs to be someone to learn to cook, and I tried to learn, but the cooking skills are really poor, I don't know what the potatoes look like when they are cooked, and I don't know what the meat looks like when they are cooked, and he decided to cook himself after eating two dark dishes I made.

Later, I didn't expect that he was quite talented, and the fried dishes were quite delicious, so the task of cooking became his, I was washing clothes at home, and he basically did the other work, and slowly he liked to cook more and more, as long as he was at home, he would study the food to make for me to eat, and finally after I raised ten pounds of weight, he proposed to me, he said the above words, and then said that he would cook for me for a lifetime, I was thinking that it would be okay, and I could save a lot of money to go out to eat in the future.

Then we got married like this, originally my parents didn't want me to marry him, but after he came to my house, he helped my mother cook in the kitchen, and taught my mother what to put in the dish, or how to fry it to be more delicious, and then conquered my mother, my mother said yes, my father had no opinion, so the two of us got married so simply.

If there is anything he did that made me want to marry him, it was probably after he learned to cook, I wanted to marry him, because I think the man who can cook is really handsome.

Take care of me for a long time in life, insist on cooking for me, know how to feel sorry for me and love me. Someone who can lead me to live an ordinary life, he won't let go of my hand when he encounters things, and I think I will marry him if there's such a person.

I want to marry him because he is very good to me and my family, remembers everyone's birthdays, prepares gifts for everyone, makes me feel that he is worthy of trust, I feel that such a boy is very attentive and warm-hearted, and more importantly, he will definitely be very filial to his parents.

When I encounter difficulties, he will take the initiative to share the burden and solve my problems, so that I will feel that this person is very responsible, trustworthy and trustworthy, so I will consider marrying him in this case.

I feel that my boyfriend is the kind of person who takes care of me very much, no matter how tired I am in life, as long as I need his help with something, she always helps me without saying a word, so sometimes in some small things in life, I feel that he is the person I want to marry.

There was a time when I had a lot of acne on my face with allergies, and I was basically in a state of disfigurement, and I had to wear a mask when I went out. But my boyfriend never gave up, and he didn't dislike it, and he was still very moved.

Without consulting with me, he directly took the gift and everything he had, and came directly to my house to propose to me, and handed over everything he had to me in front of my parents, and I felt that at that moment, this person was the person I wanted to marry.

On the premise that two people like each other, I will be very touched by his future plans, and I will be very touched by my future plans, and I will also consider marrying him.

For example, he often cares about my food, clothing, housing and transportation, whether I am healthy, and whether I am doing well, then I will feel that I want to marry him.

When you get married, you must find someone who knows you warmly and coldly, when my boyfriend can get up early to make breakfast for me, cook me brown sugar water during my menstrual period, and bring me supper when I work overtime, I want to marry him.

First of all, men really don't want to get married when the male competition is not completed or is not done well enough. And the eagerness of girls to get married as soon as possible to stabilize is the same as the eagerness of men to make more money and then consider whether to get married, we must learn to compare hearts with hearts.

Secondly, of course I'm not saying he's right, and I don't think you're right. The point is who exactly listens to whom when the two of you are in a power struggle. The advice I can give is:

If the woman is giving in to the man all the time, it will be difficult for the relationship to come to the end.

Finally, I want to emphasize once again that falling in love and getting married may be one thing in a woman's heart, but two different things in a man's heart. So when a man is keen to complete the male competition, there is no way to take care of the mood of a woman who is eager to get married. If you have anything you want to say or expect him to do, just ask him directly, and if he can't meet your requirements, you just turn around and walk away and find a man who can meet your requirements.

In terms of sex, you can let him go a little bit and say to him, dear, whatever you want before marriage, say so, in fact, I have a personality quite like your boyfriend, in fact, I won't look for it at all, just to find a psychological balance, you need to give him that balance, and also pave the way for your happy life in the future!

Can understand your feelings. Because I was faced with such troubles at the beginning. At that time, I had been dating for three years, and my relationship was quite stable, but my boyfriend, who is now my husband, did not mention marriage.

My colleagues and friends around me, almost at the same time in love have cultivated a positive result, they also persuaded me to have more eyes, afraid that I would suffer, because I was not young at the time, my husband was only one year older than me, you also know that men are always slower than women, people can find five years younger or even more tender, and the older me, can only look for the older, and no matter how old I am, I am basically married and have children, so there are few objects to choose, I am also very panicked! once tried or directly asked when he would get married, and his boyfriend was also hungry as he pleased, or he was perfunctory. I also thought about how heavy our relationship is and how much this man can love me, but in the end, after analyzing it, I still decided to choose to believe in him, believe in myself, and believe in true love!

Because we also live together, we can still feel that this man is responsible and willing to pay for you, and we get along really harmoniously, and we can see that the other party gets along with us very down-to-earth and happy. Finally, in the fourth year, we got married, and now everything is fine. After marriage, I also complained that I had been in love for too long, and I got married too late, which delayed the childbearing time, and he smiled and said that this relationship is more stable.

Thinking about why he was not in a hurry to get married, my judgment is that my husband's family background is not very good, and he is not financially ready to get married because of his self-reliance.

Your problems should be more complicated than mine, involving single parents, involving personality, but there are also a lot of things in common, you live together, so that you know each other more thoroughly, and you can judge how he treats you better; Single-parent families must not be very well-off, and your boyfriend may also be under pressure from a bad financial brother (this may be the point). As a reminder, you should be cautious about the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.