Do men in general mind second married women?

When you have love, you don't mind. But when there's no love between you, he minds.

If you have to get acquainted through someone else's introduction, generally unmarried men will mind the second marriage of girls, and men in second and third marriages will generally not mind the second marriage of girls. If he agrees with the introducer to introduce you to you, it means that he doesn't mind or that he is already anxious about life's events.

If you have met in life or work, it is advisable to state your marital status as early as possible and not wait until the other person falls in love with you. At that time, it is best if he doesn't mind, if he minds that you are married for the second time, and there will be a feeling of being deceived, then he will be hurt deeply, and the result of the two of you can be imagined.

You state your marital status early on, and he will leave if he minds; If he doesn't mind, he'll continue to be in a relationship with you.

When you're going to live with a man, figure out why he's with you.

If it's because of love, then you have to protect this love, but don't suffer from gains and losses, and be confident, self-confidence is a necessary condition for a happy marriage. Protect this love well, manage your life well, let love grow smoothly into a combination of family affection and love, so that love can last for a long time, then he will not mind that you are married for the second time.

If you live together for other reasons, then one day in the future, he solves the problem to be solved, gets what he wants, or you lose some kind of advantage, then he will mind your second marriage status and even develop into dislike.

So now you first figure out why the man is with you, and then think about whether he will mind.

I agree and don't mind. Because two people can meet each other, live together and grow old together, it won't work without love, and because there is love, he won't mind.

Under normal circumstances, no, if you really like this girl, you will never care that she is a second marriage. Unless he doesn't like this girl at all, and doesn't love this girl so much, he will naturally mind that she is a second marriage.

Generally, men will mind a woman who is married for the second time, but women must not belittle themselves because of divorce, divorce will not make you cheap, this is just a life choice. As long as you meet the right person, a second marriage can also be very happy. No matter what, try to live your life well, only if you are good enough, you can meet better people.

If it is an unmarried man, he may mind a little, and he will generally find someone who has never been married when he gets married. But if it is a married man, he has experienced marriage, so he will not mind a second-married woman.

Whether or not you will mind a second-married woman depends on the situation, that is, it varies from person to person. If this second-married woman is particularly good, the most important thing is that when a man really falls in love with a woman, even if she is a second marriage, he still won't mind. So it doesn't matter if you don't mind is based on the premise of love or not.

Everyone's thoughts and opinions will be different, even worlds apart, such a topic really does not need to be discussed, if it is placed in the 80s, it can be said that the vast majority of men will mind second-married women, but today in 2020, it is unknown how much this proportion is, but judging from the divorce rate and remarriage rate, at least this proportion is below 50%.

In fact, it's not some men, but most men dislike second-married women, even if they don't dislike it, their families will dislike it (provided that they are not married to men) This is mostly because of the problem of face.

Of course, this is not a big problem, two people live together and the relationship is very important, as long as the relationship between two people is good, it is also envious of others!

Generally speaking, men will mind a woman's second marriage. But if two people have a good relationship and the girl is attractive, then this is not a problem.

If you really like it, you shouldn't mind. If you want to be together, why bother to be together.

If you take a wife, it can be said that many men will mind a second-married woman, which may be related to traditional concepts!

It depends on the man's emotional concept, some will, some won't

As long as you really like each other and have feelings for each other, you will accept everything about each other and regard each other as your only and true love.

How so? Generally speaking, if a man is not old, he will borrow a little, and if he is older, he may be better.

What are the following reasons why men are reluctant to accept a second-married woman? ：

1. First marriage complex.

Men have a first-marriage complex, which is a deep-rooted concept, because from childhood to adulthood, what men hear most about marriage is "marriage is a major event in a man's life, and you will be very happy if you find a good wife". These simple words imply that a man will marry a good wife with one blow, and the good mentioned here does not include second-married women. Moreover, once someone around you marries a second-married woman, it will provoke all kinds of people to gossip, which inadvertently deepens the man's first marriage complex.

2. Emotional cleanliness.

Compared with women, men will care more about women who have had relationships with other men, and he will label second-married women as "dirty", so that he will reject second-married women without thinking. A bystander may tell him not to think about it so much, but he can't help but think about it in his heart.

3. Psychological shadows.

The internal factors of men's reluctance to accept second-married women, in addition to emotional cleanliness, also have psychological shadows. The psychological shadow mentioned here is: he will regard the woman's previous divorce as the woman's fault, and feel that it is the woman's problem that her husband will divorce her.

Thinking of this, the man will unconsciously have a psychological shadow in his heart, he is afraid that if he marries a second-married woman, one day he will divorce because he can't stand her, so he will not accept this alone.

4. Self-esteem.

In fact, the reason why men are reluctant to accept a second-married woman is, fundamentally, self-esteem at work. He is afraid that after marrying a second-married woman, he will be laughed at by others, he will feel that it is not meaningful to have a first marriage, he will feel that his feelings are not pure, and he will feel that a woman has a problem and ruin himself, he not only cares about his image in the eyes of others, but also cares that he will be invalidated. Can these so-called self-esteem be thrown away?

It can be thrown away, but it requires a man to have great perseverance, which ordinary men can't do.

The above 4 points are the reasons why men are reluctant to accept second-married women, although it seems hypocritical, but men are like this. So, if you are a second-married woman, when you like a man and he shows any of the above, you have to get acquainted with each other and leave, because once he doesn't want to accept it, he will never accept it. So is there a man who can accept a second-married woman?

Of course, there is, the kind of man is relatively high, and you need to look for it slowly.

For many men, they will have several psychological states when facing a second-married woman.

1. You will think that a second-married woman will not really love herself.

For some men, when they face a second-married woman, the first thing they consider is emotional issues, they will consider whether the woman will love themselves, and whether the two people will be happy together, which is a problem that men first have to consider.

And when thinking about this issue, the man will think that the second-married woman has really loved her husband before, and he will think that the second-married woman has given all her feelings, and at this time the man will think that the second-married woman will not really love himself.

When a man has this state of mind, he will think that if he marries this second-married woman, he will not be able to be happy forever, and some men are holding such a state of mind, so they do not accept a second-married woman, and even in many cases men are very mindful of entering marriage with such a woman, which is a question worth thinking about.

When choosing to divorce, she will consider whether she can meet a man who truly loves her when she remarries, so that she is responsible for herself.

2. It's hard to fully trust a second-married woman.

For some men, when they face marriage, they will have a skeptical mentality, they are afraid that the woman they marry will not be able to spend the rest of their lives with them, and they are afraid that everything they have paid will not be rewarded, which is one of the concerns.

When facing a second-married woman, men will aggravate this concern, they will feel that if they treat this woman wholeheartedly, it is difficult to gain sincerity, and even is likely to be deceived, in such a situation, it is difficult for men to fully trust second-married women.

When a man and this second-married woman enter into marriage, he will not put all the money in the house, and he will not open his heart to this woman in many cases, and in such a situation, the marriage of two people will not be happy.

In real life, the reason why some second-married women can't be happy is because of this reason, and they don't get the life they want after remarriage, and even there is a deep estrangement between them and each other, so there is no way to last long.

Once a woman is divorced, it is as if she has been devalued, even if she meets the person she loves, she is far away when she hears the word divorce. Why are most men reluctant to marry a woman in second marriage?

1. Traditional thinking is at work.

Women have the right to dream that they are married to Prince Charming, and men also have the right to choose a woman who is kind and simple and they like. For men, love is very important, but traditional thinking always occupies a very important position, they all want to marry a woman who has never been married, and some men have some special complexes. They believe that a woman depreciates once she is divorced, so they will not consider marrying a woman who is married for the second time.

These men are all at work because of traditional ideas, which should have been eliminated a long time ago. People are born equal, and everyone will have a time when they meet the wrong person, regardless of whether a woman is married or not, she should be treated equally. Women, you have to understand that if a man dislikes you because you are married for the second time, then it means that he does not really love you, and he is not a man you can trust.

2.Second-married women are generally more selfish.

When a woman suffers a loss in a marriage, she learns to be wise. And men think they're going to be more selfish too. In everything, they will know how to think more about themselves, or even only for themselves, and know how to protect their own interests, and they are not willing to pay hard for the family.

When the two get married, they will become very tired, and they will not be able to reach the same idea in many things, and they will not even be able to communicate with each other. A woman who is married for the second time will think about seeking greater benefits for her children and how to make herself better in the future, all thinking about herself rather than the family. This kind of marriage will make men feel very tormented, so men understand this and are reluctant to marry a woman who is married for the second time.

3.Second-married women have problems in handling their marriages.

We all know that a marriage is not enough to just love each other, but also requires two people to manage it with heart. A failed marriage must be a problem of both parties, which is why the divorce will occur. After a woman is divorced, if she does not find out where her problems are, she will carry the same problems to the next marriage, and in the end the marriage will still end in failure.

We all want the marriage to be the end, and if we understand from the beginning that the marriage will not go on, then don't start at all, so men are reluctant to marry a woman who is married for the second time. Marriage is the first time for us, and there will always be many conflicts during this period, and it will be easy to divorce if it is not handled properly, and divorce is not what we think in our hearts, but just a forced choice.

A woman who is married for the second time also has the right to love and is equally worthy of being loved. There are disadvantages to a woman who is married for the second time, but there are also many advantages. If you really like her, don't mind that much.

Men and women who marry for the second time are actually divided into age groups. If this man is between 18 and 25 years old, then they will think that they must not look down on second-married women, they have all been married, of course, this is a bit superficial, but really only if they feel that they will not mind when they meet true love. If they are over 25 years old, can't find a girlfriend, and eventually become an older leftover man, they won't mind anything, after all, it's better for two people to live together than one person, they are eager to have a home, so if they meet someone they like, whether she is married for a second time or not, they can accept it.

1. Doubt whether the style of life is not good;

2. Suspect whether there is a physical problem;

3. Suspicion of bad character;

4. Suspicion of misdeeds;

Because human nature is suspicious and insecure, coupled with the development of the Internet and the rapid and frequent transmission of information, people are confused about their true feelings and vainness, so they will have negative thoughts first.

But there will also be people who are more positive and objective, and will think:

1. What grievances may have been experienced, and now you should know how to cherish them more;

2. Women with experience are more mature and attractive;

3. Better understand the warmth and coldness of people, and be more tolerant and easy to get along with.

Our "Zhao Min" sister Jia Jingwen is a good example, her second husband slowly understood that her first marriage was not easy, and at the same time was attracted by her tenacious character, and finally tied the knot, and later had a pair of lively and lovely daughters, that is called happiness!

But in general, I think that a stable and mature man should not have preconceived ideas about second-married women, as the so-called "don't know the whole picture, don't comment", they should have an in-depth understanding, don't miss the good fate and don't fall into the pit!