Is it possible to give up 5 years of love and fall in love with someone else in an instant? 25

Updated on society 2024-02-23
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love should be inexplicable, there is no reason! Love is love, if you don't love, you don't love, time can't turn back, and love can't go back!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're a good result, although there's a saying about love at first sight. But it's definitely a good thing (fortunately not married), just imagine. If you fall in love with someone else in the next moment after getting married.

    It was a bolt from the blue. Don't be sad and heartache, all you have lost is someone who doesn't love you. Giving such a short pain is a good outcome.

    If he likes it, I wish him happiness, and don't be nostalgic for what has been lost.

    Maybe somewhere around the corner, there's someone waiting for you silently. Face this simple parting with a plain heart, I hope you can be happy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hehe, seeing your question, I smiled dismally again. 5 years of love, 5 years of affection!! I just wanted to say, time is a piece of.

    In fact, it's just a fart, and if you let it go, it's gone. In the past, I also insisted on the responsibility I had to pay to the girl I loved for the sake of this five-year love. Because I loved her, I still have footprints in my heart to this day.

    But love, responsibility, care. You and I will think that we have given so much, why is the result so unsatisfactory? Why can't wholehearted effort be proportional to what is rewarded?

    There are so many whys and incomprehensions in my mind! But slowly I learned all this. You can't measure the so-called love with time, you can't trust the promises of the so-called anyone with your ears, and you can't throw all your thoughts on the misunderstanding of emotion.

    Slowly the self-feeling has entered the misunderstanding, what is love? Love is. What is Love?

    Love is two people talking nonsense. What is Falling in Love? Falling in love is two people discussing how to talk nonsense together.

    The colleagues around me have also experienced five years of ups and downs and are about to get married, and the emotions of you and me for five years have been exchanged for the desolation now. Hehe, shouldn't you laugh! But I don't admit that I lost, because it's not yet time to solve the confusion and show the end.

    There is still a lot of time, and a short loss does not mean a permanent pass. So make sure you understand that he is the ultimate loser, and let him pay the price of a lifetime of mental torture for this decision! Definitely!

    It has to be done! So be happy and work hard for this goal! Go with the flow.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    To you he is love, to him you are the old love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Forehead... In fact, two people will get bored after being together for a long time! Maybe he had a whim! If he's a good man, he'll be back!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then you talk to him about it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In the second year of junior high school, I began to like a boy, and I have always liked it, and this liking is twenty years, because of the distance, for various reasons, I had to give up, and I gave up the person I liked for many years because of my fulfillment. In fact, it is a kind of helplessness and regret to really give up a person who you have liked for many years, because you like it and are persistent, but you can't have this happiness, but many times for some couples, you have liked people for many years.

    Although this process can lead you to a period of pain and confusion, it is also a process of growth and maturity.

    For me, the reason why I gave up the people I liked for many years was that the most important thing was myself, I was still relatively young at the time, and my understanding of feelings was still very superficial.

    After all, I was not mature enough and too young at that time, but as I grew older, my mind became more and more mature, and my life became more and more concise and rich, and gradually I realized that the person I liked for many years was not as perfect as I imagined, and the two people were together, and after the real relationship, they found that there was a big difference between each other, and even it was difficult for two people to really communicate. There is a big difference between the two people in terms of three views, and in this case, I gradually have doubts about the relationship I once had. Quietly realize that you may not have found someone who is truly suitable for you.

    This person I like for many years is not able to bring myself happiness and joy, when I weigh it and think it clearly, I gradually realize that for this person who likes for many years, I should still choose to fulfill. I should give up and I also wish her to find someone more suitable for him, because I can't bring her luck, this is really a good thing for me and for him, and I hope that in the days to come, we can find a suitable person for each other. to pursue their own life partners.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because someone has better people.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Suddenly find out that that person is not the white moonlight in your heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No one wants to give up the person they love, but the reality is too helpless, and fate is over. Some pain has been held in my heart for a long time, and one day I was extremely disappointed when I broke out together, and I stopped loving because I was too tired. Time passed, and thinking back to the past a long time ago felt like a world away.

    But when the obsession fades, you will understand that the love and hate brought to you by the person you once loved do not seem to be as painful as before, and people will slowly grow up in the hurt and slowly forget. There are thousands of reasons for giving up, and the result is only one to leave, since love can't be, it's just that the fate is not deep enough, and what you missed should not be remembered. It's not as deep as the truth, but it's not as cool as the heart.

    I don't want to give up so I keep insisting, I don't want to cry so I keep pretending to laugh, and I pay without hesitation, but in the end, my flesh and blood are blurred. Some love is desperate to keep it, but there is still no result, and people's hearts can't be exchanged for people's hearts. Again and again I was sad and disappointed, and I forgave and repeated again and again, but I really couldn't find a reason to persevere, so I gave up.

    In fact, people who have tasted the cold know that such a disappointment is extreme, freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and it is also expected again and again, and the disappointment again and again is completely dead in an instant.

    He doesn't deserve your tears because someone who truly loves you won't make you cry. The most important thing in the relationship between two people is trust, and if you have been disappointed too many times, you may be able to forgive, but it is difficult to believe again. If you can't see the future, just let it go, it's not too late to stop loving him, no matter how late it is, it's better than a lifetime of heartache, and if you don't love it, you will be relieved.

    Waiting for someone who doesn't love you is like waiting for a ship at the airport.

    Don't think about what you can't get, don't wait if you can't wait. Love or not, time will not make decisions for you, and time will not produce qualitative changes.

    Between two people, the reason why feelings arise should first of all be dependence. The saying of affection is that there is grace first and then love. Both sides are moved, and then there will be love.

    The good-looking skins are the same, and the interesting souls are one in a thousand. It's better to wait for an interesting soul than to wait for a pair of skins, good-looking can't accompany you for a lifetime, fun is companionship. It's easy to be tempted because of the facial features; It is not easy to be moved, because of the three views.

    It is a very uncomfortable thing to give up someone who has been in love for a long time. Maybe I once imagined that even if you don't love me, it's good that I love you silently.

    It's just that one day, all of a sudden, you grow up and learn to be kind to yourself. Let the future be expected, and let the future be encountered.

    If you can't wait, don't wait, one-sided love, only pay, will not last.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There has always been this kind of person in the society who sees things differently, likes the new and hates the old, she and him, no matter how many years they have been together, how long they have liked it, and they have forgotten the original mountain alliance and the original promise. As long as you feel a little unsatisfactory, especially when you meet or seduce a new love, you will mercilessly give up the person you have liked for a long time, which is chilling. Although it is only a very small phenomenon of a very small number of people, it has already attracted the attention of the whole society.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's a pity that I gave up, but I liked the many years of shinobi because we got used to each other when we were studying. But many of the first love was unsuccessful, because it was immature at the beginning, and then we were far away, but we still loved each other very much, not in one place, too far away, although we all love each other, but because of the opposition of the family, the woman I like, she is a very filial person, he listened to his parents very much, and said goodbye to me with tears. My heart hurts, I like it for many years, and in the end I still haven't been together.

    I tried, but I still didn't get his parents' approval. It's because of the distance.,So I can't be with a girlfriend I've been like for many years.。 It's also my regret.

    I had a girl I liked for a long time and eventually gave up. The reason is a little helpless, because of the lack of qualifications. In the eyes of many people, as long as two people like love, they can be together at all costs. But that's the ideal state, and real life is real.

    Everyone is different, and if you can meet someone who is willing to love you and care about you regardless of everything, you must be happy. But if you meet people who love each other, they care more about their own families. It seems reasonable for her to choose to become a stranger to you because she is powerless to refute her family's interference in her life.

    In those months, I've been wondering, why can't two people who like it be together, whose fault is it? I tried, I told her desperately that I would work hard for our future, that I would bring her happiness, but to no avail. Then I gave up because I figured everything out and everyone was right.

    It's just that the happiness of this world requires you to have matching qualifications. Even if you are lucky, you must also have the qualifications for good luck, such as the character, connections, background, etc., these various conditions are actually qualifications.

    Since then, I've never questioned in my heart why the world is unfair. Instead of worrying about those, you should improve your qualifications. Whether it's exercising ability, exercising, cultivating hobbies, learning to dress up, or working hard to make money, that's all about improving yourself in the team.

    At that time, I didn't want to do anything, because I was very sad and sad, I couldn't be with everyone I liked for many years, in order to escape the pain of falling out of love, I had been working very hard, and then I didn't dare to fall in love, and it was a few years before I came out and started my new life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't push yourself.

    Let it be, I can't forget it, I just let it be, and after a long time, I will slowly forget.

    Time is the best medicine, and it will be slowly feasting.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    People who have liked it for many years eventually choose to give up. The reason why these people make such a choice is because they have exhausted their enthusiasm after years of pursuit, they have no choice but to give up after years of fruitless pursuit, and they finally choose to give up rationally after long-term thinking.

    1. Years of pursuit exhausted his enthusiasm and finally chose to give up.

    I like someone for many years and pursue him all the time, and this process consumes a lot of my energy and makes me feel exhausted ......When years of pursuit have been fruitless, you will feel exhausted and your enthusiasm will be exhausted, which will make you finally choose to give up on pursuing him.

    2. Pursued the other party for many years without results, and finally had no choice but to give up.

    There are people who like someone for many years and are always pursuing each other. ......However, the other party reacted coldly to this, and his pursuit was always fruitless, which made him feel very helpless. ......When you pursue the other person for many years without results, you will eventually give up because you feel helpless, and then choose to quit.

    3. After thinking for a long time, I finally chose to give up sensibly.

    Some people like Wang Gaoshan and pursue someone for many years, but there is no result. ......During this time, you will think deeply about the relationship and make a final choice ...... whether it is worth continuing to pursueWhen you determine that your pursuit is destined to be fruitless through rational analysis, you will eventually choose to give up and quit in a rational way.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I can't remember seeing this sentence from **.

    If you don't love someone. Please let it go. so that others may have a chance to love her.

    If the person you love has given up on you. Please let go of yourself. so that you can have the opportunity to love others.

    It's a straightforward but plausible statement. It also teaches people how to deal with emotions from one side.

    There are things that you like that will not belong to you. There are some things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are.

    Love is a song that can never be sung in the stupid life.

    There are many kinds of love that people may experience in their lives. But don't let love be a disservice.

    Fate is everywhere in life. Gathering and scattering seem to be fateful things.

    Some fates are destined to be lost in the first place. Some fates never end well.

    But I longed for a miracle.

    Loving someone doesn't have to be having. But to have a person is to love him well.

    It's easy to say. But once you do it, it's really hard.

    If sincerity is a disservice. Please select a lie. If a lie is a disservice.

    Please choose to be silent. If silence is a disservice.

    Please select Leave. If love is a hurt. Please refrain from approaching.

    But in many cases this is not the case. Because it's up to you to choose.

    If loss is bitter. Are you afraid to pay?

    If obsession is bitter. Will you choose to end?

    If the pursuit is bitter. Will you choose to be obsessed?

    If separation is bitter. Who are you going to confide in?

    A lot of things were only seen clearly later.

    A lot of things didn't feel bitter at all.

    But I couldn't find my way out.

    There is a kind of love. Obviously it is a sedan pin in love. But the expression is not perfect.

    There is a kind of love. I know I want to give up. But he was unwilling to leave.

    There is a kind of love. Knowing that it is torment. But I can't get rid of it.

    There is a kind of love. Knowing that there is no way forward. But the heart has long been unable to be recovered.

    Love is not a game. Because we can't afford to play it. Love is a sincere giving. Forget that you really can't do it.

    Regardless of where it will be. I think I should leave an innocent beauty in my heart.

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