How to talk that others like, how to talk that others will like?

Think what others think, say what others want to say.

Pay attention to your attitude and be amiable. 2 6 Let yourself speak well, and do not let people listen to it with words that make it uncomfortable for people to hear. 3 6 Learn to say what you see to others, and pay attention to the mood of others.

4 6 Learn to speak things that please others, so that people will be happy to talk to you. 5 6 Develop your own strengths in speaking and communicate with different people. 6 6 Talk to others, look for entry points that make others happy to talk to you.

As long as you seek truth and speak sincerely to others, you can not be hated.

You don't have to please anyone, just be yourself.

Chat with people you like1Correct joke.

Joking is a technical job, and the scale of joking is important. A little too much is an insult to others. It's a little light, but it doesn't feel funny at all.

In particular, there are some words that always make people feel uncomfortable when they sound like they are others. When we are chatting and joking, we should pay attention to the following points. First, try to speak ill of yourself and don't speak of others.

This guarantees that the other party will definitely not be angry. Second, pay attention. Don't say bad things about others that they really care about, or things that are trying to change.

We should say things that others don't think matter. Only by mastering this scale, when you are joking, can everyone laugh happily, and no one will hate you because of it.

I also used to think that I could win her down by learning some flirtatious jokes, love words, etc., and then telling the girl a few more times. It wasn't until I hit a wall again and again that I fell into deep thought. Later, I saw a book about flirting with girls - love attack heart manipulation technique, and I completely understood the true meaning of love, it turned out that everything was based on attraction.

According to the method in the book, step by step to create its own attraction, and now I am surrounded by a lot of sisters, it is not an exaggeration to say that I am singing every night. Some brothers who want to get rid of the single suggestion to see and learn to improve themselves, up and down to find it.

Chat with people you like2There was back and forth communication.

In other words, you must not talk to death during the chat. You can't say something that the other person can't answer. This requires you to learn to observe while chatting.

Talk about something that the other person can talk about. You need to know what the other person likes or what they are good at, and then chat based on those. For example, if you talk about national politics with a girl who likes Ming, Xing, and likes to watch Weibo, then this girl probably doesn't know anything.

Then she will often ignore you. This is a common mistake in chatting. So I should find out what topics girls like and talk about them.

For example, if she is a girl who understands politics very well, then you talk about national affairs. She is a girl who understands gossip alone, so you ask her whether the celebrity gossip is true or false, only then can you chat back and forth.

Chat with people you like3Understand the other person's point of view.

Everyone has a point of view that she insists on. You can't talk about this when chatting, you will hurt her inexplicably. For example, a girl hates Japan.

She doesn't use any Japanese products, which is a bit naïve, but it's best not to contradict her outright. Because it's something she's holding on to and believing to be right. It's good to talk to her about Japanese stuff during the chat, but it doesn't matter if you use Japanese stuff.

Then it often turns into hitting her gun. She'll think you don't understand her.

Chat with the people you like4Pay more attention to her social**.

In today's society, social** can reflect every aspect of a person. When you are chatting with her, the first thing you have to do is to think about what she has posted on social **. For example, work, daily life, food, favorite food, etc.

Find some good topics.