What would his girlfriend think if he knew that his boyfriend was his first love?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-10
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The idea should be different from person to person. People have different personalities and different types of preferences, and there is no such thing as a good or bad opinion.

    People who have not been in love may behave more simply, more naturally, and there will be no fancy means, but it is also because they don't understand, they may be more self-conscious, a blank piece of paper, you can draw anything, the main thing is to slowly change in the relationship.

    For love veterans, because they have more experience, they may have a deeper understanding of love, and they will be more pleasing and easy to touch.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's hard to talk about this thing, I haven't eaten pork, and I haven't seen a pig walk. Others don't necessarily don't understand anything, isn't it strange that you're not in love in 20? Dizzy. Isn't it okay for others to be simple? Depressed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Nothing good or bad, bad or bad.

    I have a friend in his thirties who hasn't talked about classes yet.

    If it's the first love, it should be happier... What girl likes to be in love with experience?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you like him, you won't care so much Do women want their boyfriends to have complicated feelings.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Nothing. Maybe the man is a late maturer.

    I'll be more confident in my feelings.

    First love is something that everyone will take good care of!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What, what, what is not satisfied with getting the first time in the boy's heart. This is the most precious thing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If she really loves you, and she's confident that she can put up with your stupid person who has no experience in a relationship at all, then why are you worried about so much? Feel it and care more about her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If it's the kind of girl who is overflowing with feelings, she will think you're immature, if it's the kind of good girl who doesn't have much experience in love, she will cherish you very much, after all, it's not easy to meet someone like this now, haha.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course! Will cherish it!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Girls who have been in love. How do you feel about this type of boy?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Won't think too much.

    What are you worried about?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This shows that this man is not a single-minded person, and when he has a girlfriend, he goes to find his first love, which means that he is not sincere to this girlfriend, but he does not break up with his girlfriend and find his first love, which means that he is not dedicated to his first love, so he is more affectionate.

    1. What you can't get is the best.

    Not only men, in fact, each of us will have such a psychology when we fall in love, the closer it is, the more we will not know how to cherish it. On the contrary, they will want to cling to those who are far away. What you can't get is the best, which is also a kind of cheap psychology in love.

    For married men, they have lived with their wives for too long, and they will miss the lawlessness of their first love, and they don't know the height of the sky.

    2. Nostalgia for the original beauty and throbbing.

    Sometimes men still keep in touch with their first love after they get married, but it is not necessarily because they are still in love with each other. What he misses is probably the feeling of being with his first love, and the time that he can't go back. Although it cannot be said that everyone's first love is beautiful and pure, at least no one can replace it.

    First love represents a person's first throbbing and the courage to go to a grand love without hesitation, and that feeling is something that I dare not try again after experiencing several emotional wounds.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think a boy should not forget his first love, if he is not happy in the future, then his first love is a kind of spiritual sustenance for a beautiful and happy life. If he is happy, then he will also leave a place for his first love in his heart. But to be reasonable, if there is a girlfriend, normal boys will not look for an ex, if there is a girlfriend who is still chatting with an ex or looking for an ex, either he is dissatisfied with his girlfriend, or he wants to turn his current girlfriend into an ex-girlfriend.

    Now you should be thinking about why a guy has a girlfriend and still goes to find his first love, when the girlfriend can't meet what the ex-girlfriend can give. Whether it's security, warmth, gentleness or more. Once you have expectations, the mood will flicker, and when you are still obsessed with this problem, it means that you have not let go of him, and maybe you still miss him.

    If it has to, there are a number of possible causes. Maybe he was bored and wanted to find his first love. Maybe it's because I'm still thinking about my first love and want to care about my first love.

    It is also possible that because of a certain moment, some emotional impulse suddenly remembered the first love, which originated from the heart anchor that was once planted. If you translate this question, I think what you want to ask is: is he still worth it, I will wait for him, redeem him, and even continue to love him (if not, when I didn't say it) provided that everyone has the possibility of changing their mind, and they also have the right to change their mind.

    As long as the two of them are sincere during the time they have been together, and they have also resonated gently, it is enough. Your expectations and love only make sense if he truly loves you for you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First love will have a big impact on some people, after all, it is the first time to fall in love. My ex-boyfriend chatted with his first love once before, and he told me that he had asked each other if he was okay, what he was doing recently, and I asked him why he broke up so much, and he came to say, maybe he was too young at the time, and it was not suitable for ...... after allThis kind of man eats from the bowl and looks at the pot. If you break up, you will break up, and if you really let go, you will treat that person as a stranger, not a first love who will look at you differently.

    It's not moral that others can't have a special feeling about their first love, at least I won't break up with my ex-boyfriend after I break up, and so is my current boyfriend, we both have the same values, what friends do you pretend to be when you break up? It's polite to meet and respond by chance, go out deliberately, what careful thinking you should understand, it's to meet, you didn't do anything, and it is your business to not tolerate him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Absolutely, I also think it is, A lot of men are like this, I can't forget my first love, I met someone who was ambiguous with me now, and at the same time I was still paying attention to the douyin of my first love and liking every **, I was really speechless.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, because he has a girlfriend, it is impossible for him to find his first love in front of him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Not necessarily, it can only mean that he has no feelings for the previous relationship, and there is still a trace of expectation in his heart, or that he wants to show off the current one in front of his ex, and he may be a scumbag.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes, he loved his first love, so he went to her.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This kind of man simply doesn't want it, and he doesn't want to give it away for free.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Most likely, yes.

    Because there are many, many boys, the first time they fall in love, they are much more serious than the later thoughts.

    Maybe you will say that your girlfriend in the future will not be able to get his sincerity and finally step forward to the palace of blind marriage?

    It is, but it's not quite the same.

    Because the boy talks about it for the first time, he doesn't have any experience, and even if he does, he doesn't know what he learned from **, and he has no actual combat experience.

    So there are almost no boys who don't think that they are sorry for each other when they fall in love for the first time.

    Not very good at coaxing, not very good at talking, not very good at taking the initiative (even if it is active, it is with a heartbeat, a nervous batch), not very good at guessing, not very good at taking care of people's ......But they are very good at imagining that if you spend a month with him, he will think about how he will spend the year; If you give him a kiss, he will feel that you are his only girl ...... life

    The first love girl didn't ask for much, and she also cared about people, and she was also shy when she first came into contact with sex.

    When you fall in love more, it's like you eat the same dish every day, not only do you make others think you're very good, but you also make yourself always regret wanting to keep it fresh.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    At that time, men didn't know how to flirt with their sisters, they didn't understand the routines of feelings, and they only treated their first love with a sincere heart, and love and pain were very real. For first love, men's attitudes are usually more cautious and sincere, and they will pay a lot, and when you pay most of the emotion and energy for one thing, the more difficult it will be.

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