Am I too nostalgic? Or is it too emotional?

Isn't it all the way the saying goes? No one is perfect; A hundred flowers bloom, a hundred schools of thought contend; The world is full of wonders; Dress and wear hats; Even the great man said, "Where there is a crowd, there is the left, the center and the right." Some people like to keep their used items, cherish the people they know, taste their favorite meals, and drink their favorite wines; There are also people who like to pursue freshness and fashion, never read any books they have read, and want to do everything for the first time.

Some people meet and say, "Have you eaten?", "Hello", "Lord", "Immeasurable Heavenly Venerable", "Amitabha", and some people never say anything when they meet. Actually, these are all normal people.

Nostalgia for the old is inferred to belong to the perfect type of personality, a normal phenomenon.

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I think you're a nostalgic plot. I also like good old things, just like old newspapers, old books, wall calendars, antiquities, classic **, paintings, I like them all. I like classical, but also pop.

Interested in making friends with me. My You must be the best collector.

It's your nature, nostalgia is the main theme, and people have a character trait, which is one of your typical characteristics. Knowing yourself is the most important thing. Because I'm like this too, I'm curious if you're a Cancer.

It shows that you are a very emotional person. That's good.

Nostalgia is the time represented by the reluctance of the object, and it is also the object itself.

Nostalgia may be due to the inability to find a balance, and one can have a way to spend that time as hard as you can (in a way that you feel happy and fulfilling, and make the best use of everything, so that every item that is discarded in the end is because it can no longer function and for some other reason).

Nostalgia for the old may be because people like the new and hate the old, always pursuing the new, and have regrets or guilt for the old or something else in their hearts, so that people can't wave their sleeves and leave a cloud of abandonment, so that there is a feeling.

For feelings, nostalgia proves that you are not attentive and single-minded; For work, your performance will only remain the same, and you will not make a big difference, and it will also give people a bad feeling, that is, you are not growing, very lazy, and have no ambitions, so you will often be ignored by others; The interpersonal aspect will also be bad, others will think that you are very scared and can't keep up with the shooting, and then it will make you form a generation gap with others, and it will be difficult to get along, so you will lose a lot of good friends, and over time, you will feel very lonely and empty, and then there will be a psychological imbalance, which will make you fall into a haze. In contrast, you should break this bad habit. If you want to express yourself, you have to take this step and go to a place where there is light, in order to see your own shadow, people with great ambitions must make a difference, you have to be brave to fight, to fight, words have to say:

A person who is nostalgic for the old can be seen that he is a person who attaches great importance to feelings, and people who are nostalgic for the old usually miss the good things in the past, and will not miss the tainted past. I don't know if I'm right? Because I'm that kind of person, I never go.

Nostalgia for those things that make people unhappy when they think of it, if they want to think of something beautiful and unforgettable, if the memorable is also stained, I will try to distract myself or shift my attention to other things, so as not to let myself think of it, the best way is to do it.

It's to keep yourself "busy"!

Dong'er, if you want to let go of this nostalgic habit, I don't think it's possible. In fact, nostalgia is not good.

A good question, but a question of worthlessness! If you think that "thing" is worth remembering, then you will put your own.

Let go of your feelings and miss her as much as possible! Otherwise, you say, I'm so depressed

ps: Wife, in fact, the most important thing for you is to learn to let go I know it's hard to do (I can't do it myself now!). Hush!

Don't tell anyone! I'll just tell you what to hear! I don't know how to do it!

It's better to be like this, let's be together.

Is it good to work hard? If you don't make a sound, I'll take you by default! Okay, just like that, hehe

I think it's a good thing to be nostalgic, but you know it yourself, but you still think about what ifs. Just try it according to your heart, some things are not necessarily good old things, and new ones are not breakthroughs.

Me too, I like to read my old diaries, think about the happy things I used to have, and like to reminisce about the past.

Find another lover! Only happiness will dilute your nostalgia!

It may be that everyone needs to comfort themselves, and everyone will have something depressed in their hearts, and they need to adjust and resolve it through a certain way. People need to mediate their emotions from something, hoping to get some warm comfort from certain aspects, and most of the time, these things can only be obtained from the past.

After all, the things of the future are vague, unclear, and uncertain, somewhat dreamy, and they are also erratic and uncertain when you think about them. It is impossible for an illusory thing to touch our hearts that yearn for warmth.

And the reality seems to be so cruel, there are so many things waiting for us to do, we can only passively accept it, if you don't feel bored, it's lucky, even if you occasionally encounter some good moods, you will be diluted by some people and things.

In the past, it is different, after years of screening, many things we have forgotten, the rest, of course, are those beautiful and moving things, they have been refined by memory, the washing of time, has been those flashy restless, bitter and bitter subsided, precipitation is only warmth, romance and innocence. Even the people and things that have brought harm to them in the past have forgotten the pain and unhappiness of the past due to the passage of time and the inherent goodness of human nature, and they can still experience the diversity of life.

Therefore, nostalgia has become the best way for people to self-regulate and comfort themselves.

People have feelings. When you have walked a certain road, you will also look back at the place you have walked, get used to the feeling when a person or something has it, you can't feel its beauty and preciousness, and you will taste the taste of having it when it is far away. What is lost is the best, so people will be nostalgic and will look for lost memories and emotions.

First of all, in addition to people, animals also have nostalgia;

secondly, because there is memory;

Finally, uncertainty about the future is prone to nostalgia.

If you want to change, you can adjust your thinking appropriately and keep up with the trend of the times, after all, the past will eventually pass, we can't always live in the memory, and the new things should also look at the habits.

People who have feelings will be nostalgic, that is something that has been experienced in the past, and this is a part of life.

Because I always feel that the current days are not more chic and comfortable than before, so I miss the old and nostalgic.

This is the sustenance of the mind and a symbol of human existence.

Think about how painful it would be if you didn't have anything to remember when you were old.

Because people have feelings, they will like what used to be, that is, they are nostalgic for the old!

I think it should be nostalgic for past events, people always have a tendency to always feel that what they can't get and can't go back is the best.

1. Nostalgia for the old is an instinct of people.

2. These emotions are not fully experienced in the realm of perception, but linger in the subconscious, and are unconsciously brought into real life, thus hindering one's effective contact with others.

3. Complexes often persist until the individual has the courage to face and deal with these unexpressed emotions.

4. This is why people who are in love with the old are more likely to get entangled in the old love and cannot simply get out.

Old things will bring us memories of the past and remind us of many things from the past.

Nostalgia for the old, the old, including people, things, and things. It may be due to personality, it may be that it is not confident, or it may be that people are in the twilight, so they are nostalgic.

The old is the foundation of people's feelings, occupies a part of life, and makes the current self.

Of course, not everyone is nostalgic for the old, otherwise there would be no such thing as "liking the new and hating the old".

What is lost is the best, and nostalgia is looking for lost memories and emotions.

Because there are things you care about, you will look back from time to time.

I always love the comparison between the present and the past, and I always think that the past is good

Because I have gained it, I will think about it more or less after I lose it.

Break through yourself in a timely manner, enlarge your own pattern, enter the high frequency, and then attract the beauty in the high frequency to create your own happiness. Everyone, in the face of their own intimate relationship, do not evade, do not criticize, live in energy, self-acceptance, and choose love again.

Life is not so simple for each of us, in this earthly world, each of us has our own life. Everyone wants their life to be happy and beautiful, but life is not as simple as we think. For the old relationship, you should learn to let go, and only when you let go can you start your new life.

In life, we will always experience all kinds of things, some things bring us good feelings, and some things often make us miserable. For the old love, everyone has their own obsession in their hearts, but in life, we should learn to let go, only by letting go, we can live a more wonderful life.

1. Don't fall.

Some women have low self-esteem because they have fallen out of love. Self-isolation, thinking that it is his own problem, washing his face with tears every day, making himself very painful, as if he can't live without him. The people around me don't care no matter how much they care.

I am discouraged about my life. In fact, this will only make the other party look down on themselves, and they must stride forward with a positive attitude, wipe away their tears. Tell yourself that you will find better, and no one can live without anyone.

2. You can't be friends anymore.

If you still be friends after a breakup, it will lead to one party not giving up, breaking the thread, and having illusions about the other party. I hope that if I can't be a lover and become a friend, I can be by his side, and I hope that one day I will impress each other with my true feelings, and then get back together. If the inappropriate person gets back together, there may be similar contradictions that cannot be resolved, and they will be hurt again, which is a kind of torment.

During this period, you have to face your beloved, and be sweet and loving with others. has broken up, so it is pointless to abandon everything and look forward, and be friends again.

3. We can't see each other again.

If you break up, you should start a new life, and meeting again will only sting yourself, not to mention in what capacity to meet, friends are not friends, lovers are not lovers, and you don't know what to talk about when you meet, you will only be embarrassed.

Because I have loved, hurt, and met, it will only remind the other party of those unhappiness, and it is better to remember it from afar. So break up, leave gracefully and start a new life on your own, don't meet under any pretext.

4. Don't hurt yourself.

Many women will start a new relationship immediately because they can't bear the blow of falling out of love, hoping to make up for their hurt hearts, but in fact, doing so will only hurt others and hurt themselves, so that irrelevant people can endure your bad mood, and may not find the comfort you want. When you fall in love again, you have to think, can you already start a new relationship, sometimes the pain can be resolved in time, and the desire is not enough.

In the face of a lost relationship, to be honest, it is really unbearable all of a sudden, not to mention whose problem it is. After all, two people have been together for so long, no matter how they say they have feelings, sometimes they even break up for trivial things. Even if there are regrets after a breakup, it is already in the past, after all, there is no regret medicine in the world to buy.

But from another point of view, no matter how sad and sad we are, the sun still rises yesterday as usual, and we can't let ourselves be addicted like this, but we must recover our state as soon as possible, after all, we still have to live, don't we? But through such things, we have learned one thing, which is to cherish the beauty around us. Life is inherently beautiful, good and bad, largely depends on our attitude towards love.

When we have the love in our hearts, we must learn to cherish this rare fate. Tell your lover that you are by my side and that you are everything.

And when you're away, it's all yours. It can be seen how high the status of each other is in the hearts of their lovers. In front of the people you love, we must be sincere, don't put those so-called self-esteem in our eyes, throw away the pride in our hearts, and don't want the willfulness that has always supported you, yes, because you already have your own goal in your heart, that is, your lover.

With her, love begins, and what more so-called superficial things do you want?

Some friends are more direct and say that if a person has no love, then the earth seems to be a grave. In fact, this is too exaggerated, but with loving friends, everyone finds that even if they were not energetic before, or had a very negative attitude, but in the face of the addition of their lover, the love of the two is together, then their state has changed, and even originally thought that many things in the world are meaningless, and at this time it seems that life is more colorful, because they are already dreaming of their lover.

Some people say that love is as important as what we need from each other, just as we need to breathe air. Yes, if a person has no one to love himself in this world, he is absolutely lonely and helpless, and yes, even he will not love himself. Therefore, in the face of your hard-won love, you must pay attention to it, and if possible, redouble your love.

It is true that life is not long, but love can last a lifetime or more. In fact, in the eyes of his beloved, even if it is a thousand miles away, it is only one kilometer. So those friends who question long-distance relationships don't actually understand what real love is.

In the face of such a connotative love, sometimes the cold can be solved with a coat, but love can drive away the cold more than a coat. Yes, many friends don't know much about love, and even a little scared, in fact, because they have their own lover, they know what real love is, which is the most meaningful thing in life.