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Dear moms and dads, I don't know if you have noticed, a family of three is together every day, but there are very few words to really tell each other, almost zero. Today I am going to talk to you with my pen and my heart. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, who has never thought that their children will become dragons and phoenixes among people?
I can understand you. You are often very strict with your children, not only to make your children's grades and abilities outstanding in school, but also to be able to be self-reliant and capable of everything in life. We want to do a good job and try to do a good job, but we will also do a lot of bad things in the process of hard work.
It's because of all these things that are wrong, you are usually always very "nagging", I know that is the love of our children, but can we accept your way of love? Mom and Dad, you always demand perfection from your children, and have you ever considered whether you are too demanding? "No one is perfect", I hope parents can understand our hearts as children.
In modern families, quarrels have become commonplace. Mom said a word, Dad said a word, and after a while, they quarreled. But you know what?
As children, we are really in a dilemma at this moment. On the one hand, she is a kind mother full of maternal love, and on the other hand, she is a father who is very respectful. We really don't know who to help, and our hearts are full of contradictions and helplessness.
I know that we, as children, have no right to judge you, after all, you are parents. But I sincerely hope that you can think and measure from the perspective of our children. After that, you will experience it, you will understand and understand that when parents quarrel, the most contradictory and painful thing is the child.
After you quarreled, everything was over, even after the rain and the sky was clear, but what you left us with was an indelible shadow. This is an invisible disservice to us! You must know that the love we need is not something that one person can bear, it requires the joint efforts of three people.
But in any case, Mom and Dad will always be the closest people in our hearts. No matter how much you are wrong with your educational methods, after all, it is also a kind of love you have for your children. Because there is no greater love in the world than mother's love and father's love!
Today, I have some heartfelt words with all my parents, I hope that every family life can be happy, so that all children in the world can live in a happy family!
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"It's time to eat! Grandma screamed. Soon our family was seated at the dining table, with my father, my mother, my grandfather, my grandmother, my sister and me.
I usually only eat half a bowl of rice, my sister eats a small bowl of rice, my father, mother, and grandmother all eat a big bowl of rice, and my grandfather eats the most, and I usually eat two large bowls.
During meals, my father and mother sometimes discussed my studies and sometimes discussed work problems. There will be a quarrel during the discussion.
Grandpa, Dad, Mom, and Grandma all ate quickly, and when they ate, they held the bowl in their left hand and the chopsticks in their right hand, and quickly swept the rice into their mouths. But my sister and I ate very slowly, because we often had no appetite, so we ate very slowly. My sister and I ate in small bites, and it took a long time to swallow them.
I sometimes can't eat because I have a snack before a meal, my stomach is full, or there is nothing on the table that I like to eat. I like to eat egg fried rice, dumplings, bread.
I don't like to eat shiitake mushrooms, onions, garlic. But my grandmother forced me to eat it, for example, my grandmother gave me a shiitake mushroom and said, "Zu Ye, the shiitake mushroom is not unpalatable, you can try it with a bite." "But I still put the shiitake mushrooms aside.
Do you know how my family eats?
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"It's time to eat! With my mother's screams, my father and I hurried to the dining table and waited for my mother to come and eat together.
During the meal, I found that I ate as much as Mom and Dad, but in detail, my dad ate more than my mom and I did. My dad and mom's bowls were the same size, but I was the smallest. When I ate, my parents ate as much as I did, sometimes my father's rice was full of a big bowl, and sometimes it was a small bowl.
My mom and I are different from my dad, I'm pretty much the same as my mom.
When eating, I sometimes smell the aroma of the rice, sometimes I don't. The meal was already on the table, and before the meal began, my father would put on a few 'ah-woo-woo' to eat, and my mother and I were secretly laughing. When I eat, I will look at the dishes on the table, and if I see my favorite food, I can't wait to put one chopstick in my mouth, and before I finish eating, another chopstick will be stuffed into my mouth.
When we ate, my dad was the most delicious of the three of us, and when my dad was most hungry, he would eat hard. I ate as fast as my mom, like a race. When I ate, my mom ate everything clean like a brushed bowl, and my dad ate not clean at all.
Sometimes, we have soup as a family, and sometimes it's not like that.
During the meal, my dad made a "click, click" sound, which was also like a "purr, purr". We talk about school, family things, etc. during meals.
I can't eat when I'm in a bad mood, and if I eat when I'm in a bad mood, I feel like I want to throw up. I gulped down some delicious dishes when I saw them, and I didn't have an appetite for leftovers. Our family's dishes often change, eat this today, eat that tomorrow, and change often.
I have some snacks at home that I can eat when I'm hungry.
This is how our family eats.
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Dinner together is the only longing of many old people in the year, although when they are young, they may complain at the dinner table because of overwork, and they hope that their children will grow up and grow up soon. When the children are real and there are fewer and fewer people at the table, the aging parents fall into the panic of the empty nest period.
A high-quality dinner is a family sharing event, even if there is only a bowl of clear soup, you can share the joy of the collision of spoons, the steaming steam, the sigh of the hot tongue and the pride of the past. This kind of sharing is a huge asset in the family's spiritual account, which can help everyone in the family to grow up healthily in a long and full of trials and trials, resist stress and resist various "fashionable" mental illnesses that modern people often have.
A year, a week, a day.
Emotional topics dinner together is the only longing of many old people in the year, although when they are young, they may complain at the dinner table because of overwork, and they want their children to grow up and grow up sooner. When there are fewer and fewer children at the table, the aging parents fall into the panic of the empty nest period, and a series of psychosomatic diseases continue to strike, and at this time, one of the best antidotes is to cook a dinner for the children, as they were before when they were young and their children needed them. Therefore, having dinner with parents is to some extent to help them recognize their value in the family system, enhance their sense of connection, resolve loneliness and loneliness, and resist the fear of aging.
Dinner together is also the only longing of many couples during the week, although "the heart aches when the lover is not around, and the lover has a headache by the side", although the one always promises them: I want to earn more money and take you to the most romantic restaurant in Paris. In fact, lonely couples don't need Paris, they prefer to chat together in their own kitchens and eat at their own tables.
Because love and marriage are not only a result, but also accompany each other in the process.
Dinner together is what many children look forward to every day. Mom and Dad are celebrities, Mom and Dad are rich, these have nothing to do with their happiness and happiness, as long as happy Mom and Dad sit at the table together, the thing called "security" that modern people are extremely lacking will breed in their hearts and support them to face the ups and downs of growing up. The dining table is actually a desk in their life class, what they learn is participation, getting along and intimacy, someone listening and talking, the harmony and conflict of different points of view, and the wisdom and affection that they know how to share and share with their families when they become parents in the future.
Therefore, in a family that can often have a harmonious and happy dinner, the elderly are not easy to age, the relationship between husband and wife is stable, and the children are more able to grow up as a whole person in a healthy way.
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